when she farted in my car..it was winter.

This guy asked me out for a drink, right? I got there before he did and I get really nervous around people I don't know well/on dates, so I ordered a drink for myself. Once he got there he ordered a ginger ale and didn't offer to get me a drink..ever. I spent the entire night buying my own drinks, while he nursed the same sad ginger ale.

I'm an equal opportunity kinda gal--I don't expect the guy to pay for everything all the time. But I do expect the person who asked me out to be prepared to pay, even though I will always offer and be prepared to pay my own way. When going for drinks I abide by the you buy a round, I'll buy a round philosophy.

1. Showing up for a blind date and seeing that she was an ugo.I know it was not her fault that she was an ugo. But it was still irritating.

2. Women with bad eating habits. I have been on dates where they ate too loud or talked with their mouth full or just ate too much. That's a deal breaker.

3. Went to see one of The Austin Powers movies with a girl and she laughed too loud. I can't hook up with a girl who has an annoying laugh or a really loud one.

4. When the girl won't shut up. Non stop talking. Where they seem to feel that any moment of silence is wrong. Or when they only talk about themselves. Hard to find a woman who doesn't LOVE to talk about themselves.

Spats said:

spats!! I was wondering when you were going to show up.

missfee said:

as rough as it sounds, most people would agree with him

1-ugly
2-rude eating
3-obnoxious laugh
4-talking all the time

most people that are honest would admit that most of those points are less than desirable at the very least.

missfee said:

as rough as it sounds, most people would agree with him

1-ugly
2-rude eating
3-obnoxious laugh
4-talking all the time

most people that are honest would admit that most of those points are less than desirable at the very least.

jerseykrs said:

ugly is an eye of the beholder thing. my longest relationship was with someone whom all my friends passionately insist to this day was the president of the fug society of america. i thought he was hot. stupid cupid.

obnoxious laughs are okay as long as they're unaffected. people who laugh weird for attention can suck it.

otherwise, yeah, okay. good points.

Anx said:

i can't get past the fact of who made them though.

jerseykrs said:

ugly is an eye of the beholder thing. my longest relationship was with someone whom all my friends passionately insist to this day was the president of the fug society of america. i thought he was hot. stupid cupid.

obnoxious laughs are okay as long as they're unaffected. people who laugh weird for attention can suck it.

otherwise, yeah, okay. good points.

1. Showing up for a blind date and seeing that she was an ugo.I know it was not her fault that she was an ugo. But it was still irritating.

2. Women with bad eating habits. I have been on dates where they ate too loud or talked with their mouth full or just ate too much. That's a deal breaker.

3. Went to see one of The Austin Powers movies with a girl and she laughed too loud. I can't hook up with a girl who has an annoying laugh or a really loud one.

4. When the girl won't shut up. Non stop talking. Where they seem to feel that any moment of silence is wrong. Or when they only talk about themselves. Hard to find a woman who doesn't LOVE to talk about themselves.

Obvious other signs of ignorance/selfishness or bad manners will all make me have "an early day tomorrow and have to get going".

Slave2daGroove said:

more then once i've had a date drink so much i ran out of money..this was before i had credit cards.

more then once i've had a date drink so much i ran out of money

Ace said:

I've got Social D in the cd player as I type!!!

I don't think I've ever been on an actual 'date' before.

It's okay.

You've just made me realizr I've had PLENTY of dates.

What has irritated you the most about your date when you went out on bad dates?

For me....(this is a combination of things from various bad dates)

1. Caught a guy in a lie
2. Unsure of himself (no goals for his life)
3. Conceded
4. Arrogant
5. Picked his teeth
6. Obvious womanizer
7. Called right after he dropped me off, called in the middle of the night because he was bored, and then again in the morning when he thought I was awake
8. Acted as if I wasn't there (while on a double date)
9. Talked entirely too much about himself (couldn't get a word in)
10. Judgemental
11. Thought he knew it all
12. Confused (said he wasn't in love with his ex, but all he could talk about was her)

okay your turn.

missfee said:

Cupcake...I'm an ass to do this...It's conceited, not conceded. I'm an ASSHOLE! I know...

I've caught the guy in a lie too.
I also didn't got out with a guy again after he left a shitty tip (he knew I was a waitress then too...really got my goat)
He's a total corn ball
His intentions were obvious (he was in it for the free hook ups)
He was needy

KatSkrizzle said:

no offense taken, thanks for correcting me...i knew it didn't look right when i typed it out.

but on another note shouldn't "got" be go????
hey great minds think alike
[Edited 11/28/06 11:40am]

DevotedPuppy said:

exactly.

another pet peeve I have is when a guy orders for me. like while we are at the restaurant or eating place wherever, he asks me what i'm going to get and naturally you say what it is but when the waiter comes and asks "what would you like to have" and it is clear that the waiter is speaking to me, and then he steps in and says, "oh she'll have blah blah blah, and i'll have blah blah blah, thank you." That is a major turnoff for me although some females love it because they think the guy is taking an interest in them somehow??? whatever that means. for me its a sign of being a control freak. let me order my own food, drinks, and whatever.
[Edited 11/28/06 9:55am]

Spats said:

spats!! I was wondering when you were going to show up.