so about that birth control...

Birth control is man made.
I think we should stick to drugs that are God Given, Thank You.
Pull n Pray works best.
[Edited 11/16/06 20:34pm]

luv4all7 said:

Abstinence!

JustErin said:

Thats goin' around a lot lately.

luv4all7 said:

JustErin said:

Abstinence. Well, we only do it about once or twice a week in this house.

As for the whole, man-made thing... Well, I tend to fear the side effects of pills and such. I'm always scared of altering things from their natural course. I like jimmy caps.

CinisterCee said:

i used a epidural with my first too and my last was without any medication whatso ever-my last birth without medication was very painful. The pushing doesn't hurt, its the contractions and opening up 10 centimeters thats a bitch.

CortestheKiller said:

awww
if you've given that much though to it , then you should at least have one baby.

SpisaRibb said:

Not for a long time. I'm still young. I want to enjoy it with minimal baby screams.

but if you have one, I feel you ought to have two. So that way your kid has a companion.

CortestheKiller said:

or you could just have play-time friends, you know your friends kid. That way you can just have two for a few hours and give the child back when it gets to be a bit much

SpisaRibb said:

My only friend with kids now has a 4 year old who is fucking insane. She's never disciplined the lad a day in his life I don't think, so. Yeah. I love the kid, b ut you're right. About two hours or so and I'm done with his little ass for a couple of months it seems like.

A little dab of that kid will do ya.

Her baby isn't so bad though.

CortestheKiller said:

they have a habit of sticking around for 18 years or so though

you have a lot of life to experience before you start that chapter of life

brownsugar said:

me too!

that last kid nearly flew across the room he was born so fast!

I rang up the midwife after one contraction to tell her I was on my way, and she was like, what's the big hurry! and I said it's the third kid, and the day before I was already 4cm dilated at my obgyn checkup, and she was like "OK, if you want" so we came in and she got the big ball to sit on, told me the doc was on his way. He did an internal and told my mother-in-law to get a growsuit ready for max cause he was on his way.

And yes, it HURT LIKE A MOTHERFUCKER!!!!!

But after was SOOOOO nice I was in heaven just me and my maxie, we were left alone to get to know each other. I don't know how the master could have just left to go get dinner just THEN, but I was not really thinking about practicalities.

First kid was emergency c-section (he was posterior and brow presentation) so he got stuck and they had to yank him out. Then the wound got infected and I had to go back to hospital (6 months before I dared to have sex!!! )

Second kid was induced, epidural, episiotomy, vacuum extraction the works. (4 months before )

Third one, no time for anything, small tear, but we were at it at 6 weeks no probs!

Got to say that when I had my daughter a few years ago, I did it with gas and air only... and yes IT HURT!! But at the end of the day, the serious pain and fear lasted a few hours.

The tearing and cutting wasn't so good...and agreeing to a student midwife to sew me up was a bit foolish...

But I have beautiful daughter who without her my family wouldn't be complete...and I was married only 18months when I had her and I was young...

I think the individual knows when the time is right.... but if you are talking this much about it, then it probably is the right time for you...

emm said:

Best thing to do with the pill is to clamp it tight between your knees!

CortestheKiller said:

Please
Don't have kids!

PANDURITO said:

Hi Pandy! Have you had any more kids lately? How is the gorgeous little Carmen?

ZombieKitten said:

They're alright. Everyone. Thanks

Lupe had a hearing problem She lost 40% audition but it seems a simple operation will solve it.

PANDURITO said:

Oh! well that is lucky!

1st born ... 36 hrs labor, unmedicated, no cutting or tearing, hemmoraged after, flatlined 3 times ...


2nd born ... bout 8 -10 hrs labor, unmedicated, no cutting or tearing

The pain ...which is intense
serves it's purpose

Oh as for sex after

1st one was 4 weeks after

2nd was 3

and we remained sexually active up to birthing days

ZombieKitten said:

I feel your pain.

that's what you's get for making us bite that apple.

jerseykrs said:

I know you just didn't say that... you know that there are actually people who believe that shit?

applekisses said:

of course there are, that's the scary part

ZombieKitten said:

Was your mouth, hand, and bumhole broken too?

CinisterCee said:

applekisses said:

applekisses said:

like moi

something said:

I know...unbelievable, isn't it?