If a guy offers to buy you a drink you don't owe him shit. What? He thinks your supposed to sleep with him cuz he's buying you drinks. Most guys know they're not gettin' lucky anyways.

If a guy wants to buy you stuff and you lead him on and act like somethings gonna come of it, when you know it's not, then thats wrong.

If your honest with the guy and he still buys you stuff that's on him.
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luv4all7 said:

I agree it's wrong to buy women drinks and stuff hoping to get sacktime. The only time i buy women things is if i know for sure i will be getting sacktime.

Spats said:

And theres nothin' wrong with that.

Spats said:

Slick Rick "Treat Her Like A Prostitute"

JustErin said:

Oh, sorry.

Well, I don't really fully approve of what my friend (the one staying here) is doing, but I do understand it. Her bf has left her in the lurch and she doesn't have a job yet. In her case I don't think she's taking advantage as I think the guy knows the deal and they're quite happy with each other's company and whatever else happens. I do think it's a form of prostitution though, but don't really judge her or treat her differently for that. The other person I spoke about, my wife's sister, can come across as a bit of tease in a way (but not in the typical touchy touchy flirt but not give kinda way), accepting drinks from guys, spending lots of time with them (one at a time, not running game on lots of guys all at once), going on holidays sometimes, without giving any intimacy at all. It's not malicious, it's just not in her nature, and holding hands, touching on the arm or shoulder or something, hugging or any of those signs of affection just don't come easily to her. I think it is taking advantage of guys in this case, but not wittingly. A guy can never just expect or feel he deserves sex for spending time with and money on a woman, but I think after a while it's not unreasonable to expect some kind of intimacy (or else he can reasonably think she's not interested and has taken him for a ride). I understand both situations and don't really know whether I think they're wrong or right (as who am I to say?), but I think they're probably not ideal situations for the people involved to be in.

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Spats said:

maybe they are simply more observant

ZombieKitten said:

If you saw some of their girlfriends and wives you might question how observant they are.

weepingwall said:

who DOESN'T he hit on?

I'm shocked!

In my country being hit on is considered a bad thing

...and it hurts

I never understood how a man buying things and a woman giving him sex were related. Sex is not something to be bartered for...it's an experience between two people.

applekisses said:

Buy me something.

applekisses said:

Yeah, but a lot of women expect that shit before they decide to have sacktime with a guy.

Never happens to me, at least as far as I'm aware of..... About the buying drink thing, a girl I had just met bought me "Jack on the rocks" without me having bought her a drink last Friday.... She actually bought one for herself which is probably the first time I've seen a girl drink Jack Daniels ... but I returned the favor and besides I found out later she had a boyfriend so no luck for me
A shame though, because she was kinda flirty and stuff and we were both music lovers, and it's rare to meet a girl who really digs music...
But as always, a picture says more than 1000 words, and here's me and the babe last Friday:

purplehippieonthe1 said:

How did you get Bjork to bite your face??

purplehippieonthe1 said:

She looks good in that photo. But what was she doing that shit for if she already has a boyfriend. Typical garbage that women like to do.

JustErin said:

It was her idea

Just for fun, here's a another one of me and the Jack Daniels girl:


And yes Spats, I wondered the same thing, why she was kinda giving me false hopes..... But hey, I did have fun that night and besides she bought me the drink first, which almost never happens to me...

In my city, a minority (which I am [ Hullo, fellow carriers of earthier pigmentation ]) is likely to get pulled over 'bout 2-3 times a week.
During those times, the hits are about 20-30 blows per officer. Depends whether they're using billy clubs or just their fists.

Illustrator said:

purplehippieonthe1 said:

Glad you had a great time. But i wouldn't put up with a tease like that. I would have told her to take a hike.

Spats said:

Looking at the pic it looks like that's exactly what he's showing her she should do.

"go stand outside and put your thumb like this"
"like this?"

purplehippieonthe1 said:

Yo, she's HOT!!!

I got hit on today by one of my players older sisters after practice who just graduated from high school last year! She was like hey coach C I saw you at Cocos (cause thats the spot Igo to after every game!) after the game! next time you go I'll come over and by you desert, I miss seeing you all the time!

Depends. Several times a week, while working at least. And that's pretty impressive considering I have to wear an apron, latex gloves, and a hairnet.

CortestheKiller said:

Or maybe it's because of the apron, latex gloves and hairnet.

CortestheKiller said:

well sure, if that's all you wear.

CinisterCee said:

Pfft...only if you're gonna put out afterwards...what do you think I am...an ATM?

Fauxie said:

I never knew you had a hairnet fetish.

luv4all7 said:

As long as you're honest it's fine. But I had to explain to Allison that guys get a certain impression when you let them buy you drinks. They think there's a chance, at least. She doesn't do it anymore, but it was her choice once I told her what men think.