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proving he was an hermaphrodite i will never be the same  | |
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shausler said: the time 2the9s posted the picture
proving he was an hermaphrodite i will never be the same  | |
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not to sound cheesy or impossible, but every day i wake up changes my life. i've dealt with a lot of big moments in my life - positive and negative - and in retrospect, they all resemble puzzle pieces that contribute to some greater sense that i'm trying to make out of my life as it keeps on going. no one thing has been a life defining turning point for me. not yet, anyway. | |
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SpisaRibb said: brownsugar said: getting out of a unhealthy 10 year relationship. for the better i've learned to be stronger and not take any shit off of anybody. i've learned to love myself. my boys are better for it as they don't have to be around all that negativity. the bad side is that it's (especially men) harder for me to trust. I don't forget the little negative things that people do. I have a tendency to do away with people if I feel like they're toxic or seem to block a path to my happiness. I have a low tolerence for redemption after the first fuckup.
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AsianBomb777 said: Fauxie said: For better or for worse (wait, see how sweet that doubt is), quitting university and deciding to visit Thailand with a friend. That set in motion a chain of events that now sees me living here with a woman I love completely and utterly, but also I'm somewhat stifled creatively, career-wise, and haven't gained an education. Still, I wouldn't change anything. I can always try to put those things right, but finding love is not something so easily just attained with merely the desire and the effort.
OMG dude, is there ANYTHING that you stick to?  No. I don't even finish the ps2 games I so disgustingly waste my days playing. 
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choosing one job over another.
everything that came from that decision led me to where i am today through all the heartache and happiness and i wouldn't change any of it | |
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ZombieKitten said: shausler said: the time 2the9s posted the picture
proving he was an hermaphrodite i will never be the same what....is.....that!?? | |
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unlucky7 said: ZombieKitten said: what....is.....that!?? 9sey! | |
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actionthisday said: and how did it change you...
Wow- way too many to just pick one... I guess running away to Florida with my mom when I was 12 yrs old without telling a soul. Seems I have been running ever since that happened.... | |
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Being taken to India when I was young (10) really changed the way I look at the world and has shaped me in many ways. I'm grateful for what I have. | |
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My father dying when I was 16. A few days later I felt a very strong prescence, not like he was there, but something came over me. He was always a strong, brash man, and I was always a scared little weakling, which didnt get me far where I grew up. All of a sudden I felt so much strength and courage wash over me, because I knew I would never let anything hurt me again. Well, that didnt quite work out (see below), but I have never been the same. I take no jip from noone now, and never will again.
And, to my eternal shame and disgust, a doomed relationship. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: Whateva said: Having my children with Alf 
It forced me to heal myself in accelerated speed to be able to be a good mother. In the process it made me a better partner (I hope  ) and a better person in general. Most important to me, it made me a better self   i'm so proud of you!  Ow thanks darlin, I'm going through hard times right now, but I know it's gonna get better again, I did it before, can do it again | |
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Spats said: When i decided to stop being a nice guy with women. When i stopped doing that i started getting sacktime.
In the past year??? | |
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Seeing the body of a young woman, 17 yrs old, in the recovery room, for her family to see her. She died on the OR table. She was called by the kids she babysat who needed help because their dad had a gun and was shooting it in the house.(was meth'd out) When she arrived to get them out of the house, she was shot. Her nails were perfect, as if she had just polished them. She was absolutely beautiful and was going to go to beauty school.
Of all the things I've seen in my job.....this was a grim reminder of how short life is. | |
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ZombieKitten said: unlucky7 said: what....is.....that!?? 9sey! Fucking disturbing! 'A pillow covered in all our tears' | |
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Fauxie said: For better or for worse (wait, see how sweet that doubt is), quitting university and deciding to visit Thailand with a friend. That set in motion a chain of events that now sees me living here with a woman I love completely and utterly, but also I'm somewhat stifled creatively, career-wise, and haven't gained an education. Still, I wouldn't change anything. I can always try to put those things right, but finding love is not something so easily just attained with merely the desire and the effort.
At 25, it's never too late to go back to college. Of course, being around all the 18-21 yr olds make you feel really old. There's also alot of online college degrees you can get that are accredited. It's easier to do now then after starting a family. | |
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xplnyrslf said: Fauxie said: For better or for worse (wait, see how sweet that doubt is), quitting university and deciding to visit Thailand with a friend. That set in motion a chain of events that now sees me living here with a woman I love completely and utterly, but also I'm somewhat stifled creatively, career-wise, and haven't gained an education. Still, I wouldn't change anything. I can always try to put those things right, but finding love is not something so easily just attained with merely the desire and the effort.
At 25, it's never too late to go back to college. Of course, being around all the 18-21 yr olds make you feel really old. There's also alot of online college degrees you can get that are accredited. It's easier to do now then after starting a family. I'm attending college next fall. I'll be 33. I think it is going to be fun...and just think of the eye candy! | |
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heyduckie said: the thing that changed my life was the day i told my husband i planned to go the the musicology concert and he said that he didnt think that was a good idea. i knew that day that i no longer wanted someone telling me what i can and cannot do.
HAHAHA, thats weird, that happened to me too. Me and my husband fought for a straight month over musicology. And I brought it up when we had huge fites after that too. I actually just brought it up to him not long ago. Anyways, my obvious answer is when I had my kids. I felt more love and peace then I've ever felt and I become an adult FAST. But I think the thing that actually CHANGED my life the most was during Desert Storm. My mom dad brother and I all lived in Saudi Arabia at the time when the war was getting ready to break. Well, my family decided it was best for my mom and us kids to return to the states and for my dad to stay there to work. So we did, and he stayed there for another I'd say 5 years, coming home 2 months out of the year to be with us. I think my life would have been DRASTICALLY different than it is now if that wouldn't have happened. I would have had a MUCH better education had we stayed, my Dad would have parented my brother and I and we would have had actual GOALS in life. IO probably woulda made something out of myself, and not have married a loser, etc. But then I wouldn't have my darling kids, so, I guess ya gotta make sacrafices. | |
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What experience changed my life the most? Hmm...I'd have to say it was a religious experience I had near the end of my first year of college. After that, things did a 180 for me and good things just kept falling into place for me. | |
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