evenstar3 said:

I haven't, but I have been the moral support to my friend when he went on a date that he didn't want to be a date. So I went along. She ended up fancying me. She was horrible. The whole thing was horrible.

AsianBomb777 said:

They do?

I certainly haven't, and I don't know anyone who has either.

I'm picky enough with people I actually like. I'm definitely not gonna spend any time with someone I'm really not interested in.

I've gone out with friends that have hooked up with guys (I'm thinking of one friend in particular) and if I don't like their friends, I just don't stick around. We're both adults, she can do her thing and I can do mine...we don't need each other as "wingmen" and she can make her own decision about who she decides to socialize with. I just don't interfere. Most times we go out together but end up seperating and doing our own things - sometimes meeting up at the end of the night and sometimes finding our own ways home.

I personally do not believe in taking one for the team.

Spookymuffin said:

Once I almost got roped into going with some girls to meet a boy one of them knew from Myspace. I told her I hoped he was a serial killer

jerseykrs said:

Yes, you inspired me to post this.

jesus god no, i would never let myself get roped into such a ludicrous scenario. there's nothing i hate worse than having to entertain someone i don't like for an entire evening. why would i do something like that just so my friend can get laid? since when is his cheap orgasm MY problem? that's just bullshit. do straight people do this often? i've never seen this done in the land of the ghey.

luv4all7 said:

STOP IT!! you're fucking killing me tonight :falloff;


Would it make you feel better if I told you about one of my gay experiences?

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Well said, lady.

And I have not either, nor would I. I guess group dating is an odd concept to me anyway.

applekisses said:

Don't act like you've never taken one for the team before, everyone has at one point in time, and if you say you haven't your lying!

CarrieMpls said:

Ditto on my end.

applekisses said:

Oh come on! With a little luck those things can end up being full on orgies!

AsianBomb777 said:

I've gone out in a couple with OTHER couples, if that's what you mean.

I took the grenade once. We went to the movies..he had the fuckin nerve to ask me to buy him popcorn
Then he tried to kiss me with his crusty lips..

DanceWme said:

I guess it's worse for girls than for guys if your girlfriend asks you to take the grenade.

AsianBomb777 said:

yes it is

DanceWme said:

Like I said, I've actually had fun taking the grenade. Me and the "other" girl had a blast. She was so much fun to chat with.

My buddy, however, didn't get laid, and the girl ended up being a bitch to him later on.

I think it's a horrible concept to consider a person a grenade that has to be taken.

Fauxie said:

AnckSuNamun said:

Thanks. I wanted to but I was scared.

karmatornado said:

I have not... and I am not lying. I don't see people as dispensable to serve my purpose.... and don't find youth an excuse for such folly either. Rise above! I did not condone a lack of heart and senses at 20 I sure as hell won't see fit to ignore it now either..

I do feel the choices we make as we go ( Including the revisionary ones) dictate what our own future will be. Sooner then not...

Ummmmm.....am I missing something?

Why can't the two people who are actually interested in each other go out alone? The whole "grenade" thing sounds like very high school/college dating type of behavior.

makes me wonder, was I ever a grenade?

makes me wonder, was I ever a grenade?

NDRU said:

I think we are all wondering that about ourselves too.

NDRU said:

You know, I was thinkin'. The "grenade girl" I was going out with probably was taking the grenade herself.








I'm such a loser.

makes me wonder, was I ever a grenade?