Dude, don't fuck her. If she is your best friend now, don't ruin it with sex. She will become jealous eventually when she wants your attention and you are out with someone else and if she is truly your friend, she'll understand you guys can't be intimate.

As far as your interesting lifrestyle, I ain't mad at ya.

Stymie said:

Stymie said:

exactly. he said she was jealous when they were together so i doubt she changed that much. People don't just change like that

brownsugar said:

Nope, they sure don't.

DON'T PHUCKIN DO IT!!! It's going to turn out badly, the friendships gets phucked and she'll get hurt in the end...trust me.

i'm sure you are respecting their health and your own by being safe, right??


but yeah, you are getting your rocks off elsewhere without any complications
it wouldn't be right to add her to the list when you know that's not what she's after

emm said:

I believe in free love
but free love with a condom lol
see so far its unanimous lol
i don't think im gonna do this thanx alot guys

susannah said:

As a woman I have to say I agree. Do both of yourselves a favor and don't do it. If she already admitted that she can't handle being just platonic friends, then there's your red flag right there that she cannot control her emotions and feelings to want more from you than what you're able to give.

Cut it. She might be hurt initially for it, but she also might be able to look back at the situation in retrospect, and over time and thank you for it, especially if what you really want to be is a REAL friend.

Ottensen said:

Yeah exactly. She'll get over it And she'll be more inclined to be your friend in the future.

EmbattledWarrior said:

sweetie, this is gross but here goes because it counds like you don't actually have much in the way of education about sexually transmitted diseases. i'm not an expert but i know you shouldn't be relying solely on condoms for "protection". this is what i found using a quick, one-off internet search. there's a ton more information ou there because, as i'm sure you know, herpes and warts are infecting the US population at an epidemic rate:

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Areas affected by genital herpes
Infection can occur internally and externally. Areas commonly affected are-the penis, around the anal opening, and on the buttocks or thighs. In women the sores occur in the vaginal area, around the buttocks, anal opening and the thighs.
Protect yourself against genital herpes- Safe Sex
During active periods of herpes avoid intimate sexual contact, and oral and penetrative sex. Practising safer sex helps reduce the risk of infection. Condoms do not prevent the spread of the virus 100% of the time but they do offer do some protection. Sex partners should be examined and tested as soon as symptoms of primary herpes appear. Sores should be kept clean and dry. You must wash your hands thoroughly after applying treatment or touching the infected area.

http://menshealth.about.c...l+warts%22


*****

Genital warts are very contagious. You can get them during oral, vaginal, or anal sex with an infected partner. You can also get them by skin-to-skin contact during vaginal, anal, or (rarely) oral sex with someone who is infected. About two-thirds of people who have sexual contact with a partner with genital warts will develop warts, usually within 3 months of contact. In women, the warts occur on the outside and inside of the vagina, on the opening to the uterus (cervix), or around the anus. In men, genital warts are less common. If present, they usually are seen on the tip of the penis. They also may be found on the shaft of the penis, on the scrotum, or around the anus. Rarely, genital warts also can develop in your mouth or throat if you have oral sex with an infected person. Like many STIs, genital HPV infections often do not have signs and symptoms that can be seen or felt. One study sponsored by the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases (NIAID) reported that almost half of women infected with HPV had no obvious symptoms. If you are infected but have no symptoms, you can still spread HPV to your sexual partner and/or develop complications from the virus.

http://www.niaid.nih.gov/...stdhpv.htm

Cut ties with her

XxAxX said:

Thnx i know all that stuff, use to volunteer at an aids clinic and an STD awareness workshop,
thnx for looking out though

im very careful with my partners, and always ask for VD test results from thir gyno, and i do the same for them, i get tested every 3 monthes.
and require the same...
i may be promiscuous , but im safe in the process

damn i hope you have heard of sexually transmitted diseases, because with all the fooling around you are doing, you are really putting yourself at risk...obviously the females you fooling around with don't care, but you should.

missfee said:

How do you figure the females don't care? that's a hellofa statement to make about someone you don't know.

NAnomaly said:

FROM WHAT HE HAS SAID,if the females he is having sexual relationships with just do it whenever "the mood strikes" then HELLO obviously they don't give a fuck. and you don't know them either. if it was a matter of me knowing them in order to give an opinion then he shouldn't have put that information out there in the first place. most of the people on this site give opinions about situations put out here on this site everyday whom they have never met in their life....so what the hell are you talking about? don't worry, i'll wait....thanks.

missfee said:

You having an opinion is not in question, how you arrived at the "they don't give a fuck" is what I was wondering with only having one side of this story which is what I meant by not knowing these women. Plus he has already said the following, "Thnx i know all that stuff, use to volunteer at an aids clinic and an STD awareness workshop, thnx for looking out though im very careful with my partners, and always ask for VD test results from their gyno, and i do the same for them, i get tested every 3 months and require the same... i may be promiscuous, but im safe in the process" so they're practicing safe sex. Why do you say or figure they don't give a fuck? They don't give a fuck about what exactly?
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I'm curious why you need to have sex with 7 different women.

Why isn't one enough?

And I'm not saying that with a snotty tone.

I'm seriously just interested in the answer.

NAnomaly said:

i said what i had to say, i could really care less if you don't get it or not. thanks.

missfee said:

Noted.

missfee said:

those girls are my friends and they DO care, plus like i said
i use protection, and get tested every 3 monthes

luv4all7 said:

ive finally come to terms with that after about 6 years of failed relationships, i was not built for monagamy.
i went through one of those self analysis and realized that im a selfish bastard, and dislike being in a monagamous relationship. find it extremely idiotic (in my own opinion). I couldn't understand why i still had feelings for other women while being in a relationship, and why i have to deprive myself after getting to know someone new. So i went for a lifestyle change,

i don't need 7 women it just happened...
i was extremely lucky lol,
another thing i always noticed that i was never jealous if a girl i was seeing was interested or flirting with another guy,
and girls , from what i've heard, Like guys to be jealous,because it shows that they care,
well i guess i don't care...
I'm too selfish i suppose, so i do this now, cause nobody gets hurt or manipulated, we share good conversation and occaisional sex,
no dating, no courting,
i've found in my experiences that for some reason i get to know women more intimately then in a 1 on 1 monagamous relationship, I guess since the seriousness is lifted, they reveal alot more about themselves, i've become the girlfriend that they like to fuck occaisionally, so to speak...
maybe its because i actually like parts of their personality and they like mines that its an automatic connection. And its weird but i have great affection for all of them and in different ways,
its an interesting feeling...

EmbattledWarrior said:

Fair enough. I couldn't wait for your reply, I was extremely curious about this.

What you said about the jealousy and caring part.

It's strange. I have noticed that a lot of women, and I guess men too, like to make their partner jealous. I personally HATE making my partner feel jealous. If I ever do/did it wasn't intentional, and when it happens I feel awfully guilty about it. I just find it weird, that people like to play that game, and I've never understood it.
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EmbattledWarrior said:

I've heard so many people say they do that, but I do not know anyone that actually does it. You meet a chick, hit it off, wanna hook up and you wait for her gyno note? Things usually move pretty quick when one meets a new "interest", it's hard to believe that people actually wait around to be that safe...especially the self-proclaimed promiscuous type.

You've got 7 different gyno notes from the all women you are messing around with? Wow.

I find it very hard to believe, but if it is true...you certainly put a lot of work into getting laid.

JustErin said:

JustErin said:

im very thorough


you have to be in this dayy N age, My uncle is an aids survivor, so i've always been extremely into aids awareness VD and all that. He didnt get it through sex he got it through blood transfusion in the 80's after a car accident.
But its always left me conscious about how easily ones life can be taken away,
and thats also a part of my lifestyle, Im careful about everything, but i also don't stop myself from living...
which is a lesson i learned from my father... but thats a whole bunch of other drama i have to sort with,

but yah im very thorough, and my partners like that about them and brings a sense of security to what would seem as an insecure relationship,
but DTA , don't trust anybody , not even your partners...
and they know what i require, and if they don't like it they cn fuck off...
plain and easy...
thats how i am

luv4all7 said:

i agree, i'm a no nonesense fellow, i don't like to play games,
im very to the point, if you like me, you like me if you don't that's cool too,
but im not into the little games couples play...
i guess thats why ive been so unlucky in the past, ah well
as frost said, "i took the road less traveled by, that made all the difference"
i shall see how this road works out...