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Thread started 11/04/06 1:19pm

EmbattledWarri
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My relationship problems

i dunno how this happened but i've recently become the number 1 lover man in my zip code, After a hellish breakup i endured earlier this year i developed new sexual lifestyle. Right now im having relationships with 7 different women, 5 i actually am friends with, 2 i just fool around with when the mood strikes. We all have an agreement that the relationship is open and we have no burdens upon each other. Now my ex , whom i broke up with has reconciled with me, and i still have alot of feelings for her. I told her about my sittuation and my new found beliefs on monagamy and fidelity, She says she doesn't care and want's to be part of that.
This girl is my bestfriend now and i really don't wanna ruin the friendship we have, we were friends first before we became intimate. She says she wants to be friends with benefits, like all my other ladies... I would love to do it, but i know her, she's jealous and territorial, and i believe it'll just ruin it.
She claims she doesn't want to be treated differently, and that if i have feelings with her theirs nothing wrong with being together occaisionally,
I just don't know, i value her friendship immensely and don't wanna do anything to ruin it.
What worsened the sittuation is she invited me to her house to fix her computer (a trap), coaxed me on her bed, and we made out, andd i had to litterally stop bnefore we went further...

i honestly don't believe her,
i fear she'll get jealous and this will even worsen it,
but she says she just can't handle us only being "friends"
I am a Rail Road, Track Abandoned
With the Sunset forgetting, i ever Happened
http://www.myspace.com/stolenmorning
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Reply #1 posted 11/04/06 1:21pm

2the9s

EmbattledWarrior said:

i've recently become the number 1 lover man in my zip code, ....Right now im having relationships with 7 different women,


Booyah!! highfive

Now what's the question?

confused
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Reply #2 posted 11/04/06 1:48pm

IrresistibleB1
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2the9s said:

EmbattledWarrior said:

i've recently become the number 1 lover man in my zip code, ....Right now im having relationships with 7 different women,


Booyah!! highfive

Now what's the question?

confused


lol
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Reply #3 posted 11/04/06 1:51pm

SpisaRibb

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limit fucking her 2 time every 6 months smile
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Reply #4 posted 11/04/06 2:21pm

DanceWme

I dont know what u heard about me.
But a bitch cant get a dollar outta me.
No cadillacs no perms u cant see
That im a motherfuckin PIMP pimp2
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Reply #5 posted 11/04/06 2:25pm

EmbattledWarri
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damn man lol
i was being all emotional and shit lol
and i still can't get some decent advice, im a Pimp lol
I am a Rail Road, Track Abandoned
With the Sunset forgetting, i ever Happened
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Reply #6 posted 11/04/06 2:25pm

susannah

Dont do it.

They say theyre fine with it and really theyre just hoping you'll change your mind about this new lifestyle and take them nod

Trust me confused
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Reply #7 posted 11/04/06 2:28pm

XxAxX

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eek i have no idea what to tell you. your lifestyle sounds really complicated. good luck, whatever you do! eek
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Reply #8 posted 11/04/06 2:29pm

ZombieKitten

EmbattledWarrior said:

i honestly don't believe her,
i fear she'll get jealous and this will even worsen it,
but she says she just can't handle us only being "friends"


she thinks once she gets her foot in the door you will see you don't want anyone else but her. She sounds pretty confident, but like you said, she will be pretty mad when she realises she isn't going to change a thing. Tell her NO.
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Reply #9 posted 11/04/06 2:38pm

EmbattledWarri
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ZombieKitten said:

EmbattledWarrior said:

i honestly don't believe her,
i fear she'll get jealous and this will even worsen it,
but she says she just can't handle us only being "friends"


she thinks once she gets her foot in the door you will see you don't want anyone else but her. She sounds pretty confident, but like you said, she will be pretty mad when she realises she isn't going to change a thing. Tell her NO.



susannah said:

Dont do it.

They say theyre fine with it and really theyre just hoping you'll change your mind about this new lifestyle and take them nod

Trust me confused

see thats exactly what i think shes gonna do,

XxAxX said:

eek i have no idea what to tell you. your lifestyle sounds really complicated. good luck, whatever you do! eek

believe it or not... being with more than one woman is alot easier...
they don't demand much of you, except sex and good conversation lol

the only thing that reallyc omplicate matters is this
I am a Rail Road, Track Abandoned
With the Sunset forgetting, i ever Happened
http://www.myspace.com/stolenmorning
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Reply #10 posted 11/04/06 2:42pm

susannah

EmbattledWarrior said:

susannah said


Dont do it.

They say theyre fine with it and really theyre just hoping you'll change your mind about this new lifestyle and take them nod

Trust me confused

see thats exactly what i think shes gonna do,


I speak from experience. And not just my own.



Ok mostly my own neutral
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Reply #11 posted 11/04/06 2:43pm

ZombieKitten

susannah said:

EmbattledWarrior said:

susannah said
see thats exactly what i think shes gonna do,


I speak from experience. And not just my own.



Ok mostly my own neutral

hug oh susannah cry
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Reply #12 posted 11/04/06 2:44pm

susannah

ZombieKitten said:

susannah said:



I speak from experience. And not just my own.



Ok mostly my own neutral

hug oh susannah cry


Lottie don't even go there talk to the hand

hug
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Reply #13 posted 11/04/06 2:46pm

Spookymuffin

susannah said:

EmbattledWarrior said:

susannah said
see thats exactly what i think shes gonna do,


I speak from experience. And not just my own.



Ok mostly my own neutral


hug oh susannah cry
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Reply #14 posted 11/04/06 2:48pm

ZombieKitten

susannah said:

ZombieKitten said:


hug oh susannah cry


Lottie don't even go there talk to the hand

hug


When my boyfriend broke up with me I wouldn't let him - I acted JUST LIKE that girl! doh! i was in complete denial about it, pretended like we never broke and he kept coming to stay over etc. Anyway, we ended up married falloff some people can be pretty darned determined! Watch out embattledwarrior you'll end up married to that one!
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Reply #15 posted 11/04/06 2:48pm

susannah

Spookymuffin said:

susannah said:



I speak from experience. And not just my own.



Ok mostly my own neutral


hug oh susannah cry


whofarted

hmmm
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Reply #16 posted 11/04/06 2:49pm

Spookymuffin

susannah said:

Spookymuffin said:



hug oh susannah cry


whofarted

hmmm


deja vu?

i've never had a relationship - that sucks.
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Reply #17 posted 11/04/06 2:49pm

susannah

ZombieKitten said:

susannah said:



Lottie don't even go there talk to the hand

hug


When my boyfriend broke up with me I wouldn't let him - I acted JUST LIKE that girl! doh! i was in complete denial about it, pretended like we never broke and he kept coming to stay over etc. Anyway, we ended up married falloff some people can be pretty darned determined! Watch out embattledwarrior you'll end up married to that one!


falloff

Nice work!

No I don't want to marry this one now, I'm over it!! woot!

But at the time.... cry
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Reply #18 posted 11/04/06 2:49pm

brownsugar

ZombieKitten said:

EmbattledWarrior said:

i honestly don't believe her,
i fear she'll get jealous and this will even worsen it,
but she says she just can't handle us only being "friends"


she thinks once she gets her foot in the door you will see you don't want anyone else but her. She sounds pretty confident, but like you said, she will be pretty mad when she realises she isn't going to change a thing. Tell her NO.


yeah thats a big no. alot of times people say they change but they really don't.
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Reply #19 posted 11/04/06 2:50pm

EmbattledWarri
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susannah said:

EmbattledWarrior said:

susannah said
see thats exactly what i think shes gonna do,


I speak from experience. And not just my own.



Ok mostly my own neutral

well im even more humbled that you'd offer me advice
thank you hug
I am a Rail Road, Track Abandoned
With the Sunset forgetting, i ever Happened
http://www.myspace.com/stolenmorning
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Reply #20 posted 11/04/06 2:50pm

susannah

Spookymuffin said:

susannah said:



whofarted

hmmm


deja vu?

i've never had a relationship - that sucks.


comfort I hadn't when I was your age shrug

Patience, my dear boy nod





Oh yeah, and theyre all bastards anyway nod
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Reply #21 posted 11/04/06 2:52pm

susannah

EmbattledWarrior said:

susannah said:



I speak from experience. And not just my own.



Ok mostly my own neutral

well im even more humbled that you'd offer me advice
thank you hug



lol Oh Im still trying to figure out if I know you! hmmm

wink



And you're welcome smile
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Reply #22 posted 11/04/06 2:52pm

Spookymuffin

susannah said:

Spookymuffin said:



deja vu?

i've never had a relationship - that sucks.


comfort I hadn't when I was your age shrug

Patience, my dear boy nod





Oh yeah, and theyre all bastards anyway nod


It's not that their bastards; I just tend to specialise in one night stands even if the one thing I truly desire is love; mainly because I have this ingrained desire within me to love someone; to devote myself to someone so that I have a purpose because otherwise I mean fuck all and always will to a world in which I'm an ant. If you can be two ants sharing the isolation, that's a bit better.
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Reply #23 posted 11/04/06 2:53pm

susannah

Spookymuffin said:

susannah said:



comfort I hadn't when I was your age shrug

Patience, my dear boy nod





Oh yeah, and theyre all bastards anyway nod


It's not that their bastards; I just tend to specialise in one night stands even if the one thing I truly desire is love; mainly because I have this ingrained desire within me to love someone; to devote myself to someone so that I have a purpose because otherwise I mean fuck all and always will to a world in which I'm an ant. If you can be two ants sharing the isolation, that's a bit better.


You've been spending too much time with Billy again.
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Reply #24 posted 11/04/06 2:53pm

EmbattledWarri
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ZombieKitten said:

susannah said:



Lottie don't even go there talk to the hand

hug


When my boyfriend broke up with me I wouldn't let him - I acted JUST LIKE that girl! doh! i was in complete denial about it, pretended like we never broke and he kept coming to stay over etc. Anyway, we ended up married falloff some people can be pretty darned determined! Watch out embattledwarrior you'll end up married to that one!

HAHA lol married falloff
thats a good one lol

I wouldn't get married if jessica alba asked me to, and i didnt have to sign a prenup lol...
ok im lying i damn well would...

i'd take half her shit...
im low down low, lol
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I am a Rail Road, Track Abandoned
With the Sunset forgetting, i ever Happened
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Reply #25 posted 11/04/06 2:55pm

SpisaRibb

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Reply #26 posted 11/04/06 2:56pm

Spookymuffin

susannah said:

Spookymuffin said:



It's not that their bastards; I just tend to specialise in one night stands even if the one thing I truly desire is love; mainly because I have this ingrained desire within me to love someone; to devote myself to someone so that I have a purpose because otherwise I mean fuck all and always will to a world in which I'm an ant. If you can be two ants sharing the isolation, that's a bit better.


You've been spending too much time with Billy again.


no no no! we're just worryingly similar in outlook and share the same birthday. lol
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Reply #27 posted 11/04/06 2:57pm

EmbattledWarri
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susannah said:

EmbattledWarrior said:


well im even more humbled that you'd offer me advice
thank you hug



lol Oh Im still trying to figure out if I know you! hmmm

wink



And you're welcome smile

u might lol
ive been around forever lol
just deleted my account and made a new one a while back lol
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With the Sunset forgetting, i ever Happened
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Reply #28 posted 11/04/06 2:57pm

susannah

Spookymuffin said:

susannah said:



You've been spending too much time with Billy again.


no no no! we're just worryingly similar in outlook and share the same birthday. lol


disbelief nuh-uh! no no no!

biggrin comfort
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Reply #29 posted 11/04/06 2:59pm

susannah

EmbattledWarrior said:

susannah said:




lol Oh Im still trying to figure out if I know you! hmmm

wink



And you're welcome smile

u might lol
ive been around forever lol
just deleted my account and made a new one a while back lol


lol thats not quite what I meant!

"own experience"
?! wink

kidding....
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