Spats said:

ooooh you wanna talk ISP addresses? I'm sure they can be tracked

I need to believe in myself more. For the first time in my life I feel more at ease with my body and appearance. Unfortunately that is not something I have achieved myself but something that someone has made me feel. I need to find a way to make myself more comfortable with what I see in the mirror and not count on someone else making me feel that way.

But for the record I am liking the feeling I have now even if it is not down to me.

INSATIABLE said:

So are you agreeing with Spats?

INSATIABLE said:

First of all, who am I to judge who's ugly and who isn't. I don't go around calling people ugly, thats not my character.

What I was clarifying was that when I said, I'm talking about overweight people, is this.

Don't sit around and bitch about skinny people being thin, while your laying on the couch eating twinkies.

It's not fair to the people who WORK to look good, to make them feel shallow because your to lazy to do it yourself.

INSATIABLE said:

No, every woman i have been with has been a nice woman. i have good taste in women. They might let me down in the end but it's not by being a bad person.

ellieadore said:

sweetie you DO need to believe in yourself more you have so much love to give and are beautiful both outside as well as in... I wish you could see yourself how others do

luv4all7 said:

I'm not going to say that Madonna or Paris Hilton are as accomplished as Noam Chompsky or Bill Gates, but I totally agree with your point.

We each chose or have been gitfted with areas in which we excell or work very hard to excel at. It's a shame that becuase others may struggle with issues in their own lives, they have to turn the blame around or devalue those who have succeeded.

Tyra Banks is what she is. Beautiful, Slim, flawless. And universally accedpted as being beautiful. This doesn't mean women should starve themselves to look like Tyra, but would it be so much to ask them to snap out of their self-loathing to see her as inspiration in their own lives, based on their own capabilities?

I always visualize Stronger, healtheir people when I'm jogging. I pretend that my body is built like Lance Armsrtong to get me through that extra mile. That doesn't mean that I cry myself to sleep when I can't run a sustained 5 minute mile. It means, I know I can do better.



By the way, WHAT'S WRONG WITH BIRMINGHAM?

I'm a good o'le boy. I'm fierce.

evenstar3 said:

Why are you taking this so personally? Even if Spats is dead wrong, does it warrant an attack like that?

INSATIABLE said:

Start out clueless? I know women who are in their thirties still dating "bad boys".

coolcat said:

Quite frankly yes. He's fully aware that he's aggravating everyone here and revels in it.

Spookymuffin said:

exactly

Spats said:

Eh...watchu gonna do?

coolcat said:

I does not bother me. She finds fault in pretty much everything i say. I am used it.

coolcat said:

I feel like attacking today; I'm sick of his bullshit like many others here. So bite me.

AsianBomb777 said:

Lemme make fun of Birmingham. Please? It'a the only place more hickish than where I live.

I made a lot of commision on the good ole folks in Birmingham when I was a telemarketer too.

Man, you people will believe ANYTHING!!!

evenstar3 said:

Sounds like time to put the NIN on.

How shallow are we?????


This thread is TAKING OFF!!!!!

SHALLOW


SHALLOW


SHALLOW

Spookymuffin said:

it has been on! it's practically my org soundtrack

evenstar3 said:

what does nin mean??

Spats said:

No she doesn't.
When she called you a piece of shit*,
she said that in aspect,
you are utterly complete i.e. faultless.


*That's not my point of view. I'm indifferent.
And before you ask me what that means,
it means that I couldn't care less.

apples, as long as you see me as handsome and sexy all will be well..lol

coolcat said:

I'm sorry, I'm unable to determine how you see this. I'm acknowledging him while trying not to insult him. I agree that there are women out there who might choose the wrong person. I have no idea how many, and I don't care how many. What I was doing was telling him that his claiming that all women are the same is hilarious.

Spats said:

but every woman you've dated has dated a jerk? did I read that right?

evenstar3 said:

I'm into the A Perfect Circle now - was listening to nin whilst drunk.

luv4all7 said:

of course there's no reason that people couldn't be both intelligent and good-looking.

i'm just surprised that you would put putting energy into one's own look at the same level as somebody studying hard to help others.

luv4all7 said:

You're absolutely right, blondie.

INSATIABLE said:

Err, brownie?

Spookymuffin said:

No, it does not. I am not saying anything to get a rise. They are my honest opinions. And accurate ones. The facts are out there. Go out on the dating scene. They are everywhere.

INSATIABLE said:

No, I still answer to blondie. I don't stay dark long.

luv4all7 said:

Unhealthily overweight individuals who work hard to become fit and healthy are to be admired for it is a wonderful accomplishment and takes effort and dedication.

What I find sad is how many in today's society extoll the idea of "beauty" as the end-all be-all of human accomplishment, and who put physical perfection first in exclusion to almost all else. Caring about one's appearance is one thing; obsessing over it, holding it above all else in terms of importance, relying solely on it, and believing it somehow makes one elite or more deserving is another.

Physical beauty can bring out so very much ugliness.