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PrintableSupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Stymie said: Dan, I respectfully disagree with your posts. I do not look to The Beautiful Ones as inspiration to try to look my best. If I wanted to do that, it would be because I wanted to and not because some chick who's dumb as a box of rocks looks great.
I always wanted someone to value ME, not what they saw on the outside, whic I will call unpretty. I heard for years that I should dress a certain way or wear makeup, etc. So, I gave it the old college try and you know what? That ain't me. I love ME, not the made-up mascara, dress wearing person I tried to be. If someone can't look past the outside and get to know the inside, fuck 'em. I'll stick to wearing jeans and khakis and t-shirts and loving ME. Says the woman who rocked some shit out all glam in Minnie 
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Stymie said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: Arent you demeaning another human being that by your admission isnt gonna win a nobel peace prize for working with her strong suite? I want to say for the record. I do not think all beautiful folk are dumb as a box of rocks. But it is a reality that many use that one "blessing" to get along in life and have things handed to them on a silver platter and many don't learn anything other than that one game because they don't need to. 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: AsianBomb777 said: It's still no excuse to hate musicians or call them stupid! What if they're stupid! That's no reason to not try and sneak back stage and fuck their brains out! "stupid men do it best! Like a big dumb stupid animal, lawd!!!" 
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Stymie said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Says the woman who rocked some shit out all glam in Minnie
Hey, once in a while hair grows on my face alluding to a butch persona. It happens 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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JustErin said: AsianBomb777 said: That you've obtained that level of self-realization is great. But we must remember that just becuase they're good looking doesn't make them stupid. Anx is a hottie, but no idiot. And I don't think it's a bad thing that you don't look to the "hotties" for inspiration. All I'm saying is that they are not something to be loathed. Not something to be feared, and not something to be hated. They are what they are--very good looking people. Those of us who choose to admire them strictly for that feature aren't "full of shit" as so many on this thread have put it. We simply see beauty for what it is. Something to be admired, and inspire--and nothing more. I don't treat the good looking folks any better than anyone else. But if I want to masturbate to porn, Goddamnit, I'm going to have a yank to Jenna Jemison--not Rosie O'donnel. I find it interesting that many people, who feel that people should not be judged by their looks, often also assume that the so called "beautiful people" are stupid or shallow or do not accomplish anything in life but looking good. They are judging people simply by the way they look - the very thing they are crapping on others for doing. | |
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Since I've already derailed this fine thread into an argument about supermodels vs. Steven Hawkin, I would like to just say that even if Anx had a big sloppy ass, it would *still* be my avatar.  | |
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AsianBomb777 said: Stymie said: I'm not saying at all that beautiful people are dumb, which is why I said some but ya gotta admit, people like Paris Hilton or a Jessica Simpson or even a Beyonce are not very bright. I would still rather be me than them.
I do not hate beautiful people, I do not hate anyone but I'm not going to act like they are better than me because they happen to be prettier. But when you see someone in great shape and decked out to the nines that doesn't inspire you? Or when you see someone who is really good at something, do you not want to do better? I'm not talking about a jealousy impulse, or a comparing-myself-to-that-person desire, but just pure "inspiration". I mean, when I hear music by someone I love, I get inspired to learn it. Likewise, when I see someone who just looks knockout great, it makes inspires me to get back in the gym because I know I can look and feel better myself. | |
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Stymie said: AsianBomb777 said: But when you see someone in great shape and decked out to the nines that doesn't inspire you? Or when you see someone who is really good at something, do you not want to do better? I'm not talking about a jealousy impulse, or a comparing-myself-to-that-person desire, but just pure "inspiration". I mean, when I hear music by someone I love, I get inspired to learn it. Likewise, when I see someone who just looks knockout great, it makes inspires me to get back in the gym because I know I can look and feel better myself. Do you at least see where I'm coming from when I say that I *do* ? Or is my thinking just "BULLSHIT" like some of the other girls here claim? | |
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AsianBomb777 said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: What if they're stupid! That's no reason to not try and sneak back stage and fuck their brains out! "stupid men do it best! Like a big dumb stupid animal, lawd!!!"
I think JT is quite cute (in a boyish way), but...man...all popped out veins gross me out. | |
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AsianBomb777 said: But when you see someone in great shape and decked out to the nines that doesn't inspire you?
Stymie said: Nope.
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luv4all7 said: Muse2NOPharaoh said:  but live and let live and see that often we react to others based on our agendas... and are at risk of exuding the very behavior that we ourselves are hurt by.
B A L A N C E ! ..broken clap edit[Edited 11/2/06 19:06pm] 
I'm just glad Im blessed with beauty inside and out, and all I need to work on is a tan.   
I do not feel I am incredibly blessed with either of the above but am thankful I find comfort in the balance of things. I would say compassion is my strong suite. ...also that I am comfortable in that. | |
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JustErin said: AsianBomb777 said: That's no reason to not try and sneak back stage and fuck their brains out! "stupid men do it best! Like a big dumb stupid animal, lawd!!!"
I think JT is quite cute (in a boyish way), but...man...all popped out veins gross me out. Other than the body, I think he looks skanky. (and no--not because he's good looking. It's just that he always looks like he needs to take a bath or at least wash the perm solution out of his hair). | |
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AsianBomb777 said: Stymie said: Nope.
Do you at least see where I'm coming from when I say that I *do* ? Or is my thinking just "BULLSHIT" like some of the other girls here claim? | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: luv4all7 said:
I'm just glad Im blessed with beauty inside and out, and all I need to work on is a tan.
I do not feel I am incredibly blessed with either of the above but am thankful I find comfort in the balance of things. I would say compassion is my strong suite. ...also that I am comfortable in that. Also, your eyes, your lips, and your sweet rack. | |
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2the9s said: AsianBomb777 said: But when you see someone in great shape and decked out to the nines that doesn't inspire you?
Stymie said: Nope.
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AsianBomb777 said: JustErin said: I think JT is quite cute (in a boyish way), but...man...all popped out veins gross me out. Other than the body, I think he looks skanky. (and no--not because he's good looking. It's just that he always looks like he needs to take a bath or at least wash the perm solution out of his hair).I like skanky....but ya, the perm has got to go. I like the look he has now. | |
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JustErin said: AsianBomb777 said: Other than the body, I think he looks skanky. (and no--not because he's good looking. It's just that he always looks like he needs to take a bath or at least wash the perm solution out of his hair).I like skanky....but ya, the perm has got to go. I like the look he has now. I am just NOW starting to get into JT. Like I totally woulda made a dick outta anyone listening to him before, and now I can't stop. I don't know whats gotten into me. He's WAY to skinny though. | |
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luv4all7 said: JustErin said: I like skanky....but ya, the perm has got to go. I like the look he has now. I am just NOW starting to get into JT. Like I totally woulda made a dick outta anyone listening to him before, and now I can't stop. I don't know whats gotten into me. He's WAY to skinny though. I know this guy doesn't fit the pretty boy image like JT or Usher, but I think SEAL is the sex!  | |
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luv4all7 said: JustErin said: I like skanky....but ya, the perm has got to go. I like the look he has now. I am just NOW starting to get into JT. Like I totally woulda made a dick outta anyone listening to him before, and now I can't stop. I don't know whats gotten into me. He's WAY to skinny though. You know, I don't care that he was in some boy band that made crappy music. He was just a kid at the time anyway. And I don't care about who he is as a person. I just happen to dig his solo albums. He is naturally skinny, but he's still got a cute face. | |
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AsianBomb777 said: luv4all7 said: I am just NOW starting to get into JT. Like I totally woulda made a dick outta anyone listening to him before, and now I can't stop. I don't know whats gotten into me. He's WAY to skinny though. I know this guy doesn't fit the pretty boy image like JT or Usher, but I think SEAL is the sex! He has an elitist shitty ass attitude so that knocks him down to shit level  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: AsianBomb777 said: I know this guy doesn't fit the pretty boy image like JT or Usher, but I think SEAL is the sex! He has an elitist shitty ass attitude so that knocks him down to shit level You just described Prince! | |
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AsianBomb777 said: luv4all7 said: I am just NOW starting to get into JT. Like I totally woulda made a dick outta anyone listening to him before, and now I can't stop. I don't know whats gotten into me. He's WAY to skinny though. I know this guy doesn't fit the pretty boy image like JT or Usher, but I think SEAL is the sex! OMG! YES! Incredibly sexy and very good looking, imo. I saw him in concert a few years ago and was totally smitten. He's huge! | |
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Ah....wow...to be completely honest with you all...I didn't expect this thread to go the way it has gone. But, I, as with others here, have (obviously) strong opinions about this topic and I think we've arrived at some interesting points. (btw, Dan...I didn't mean to lash out at you...that was not my intent...but, my dad was a truckdriver and swore like one, so "bullshit" is what came out )
After reading all of this and digesting it a bit...I guess it simply comes down to what we each value...for example, I couldn't care less about wearing a pair of low-rise jeans or if my man has six-pack abs, it's just not important to me. Yes, I take care of myself and take pride in my appearance (I pick the nicest photos of myself to post here  )...do I have a perfect body? Hell no. I'd have to quit my job and work out eight hours a day, every day to get that (it's just the way my metabolism is) and I can't do that. But, I'm healthier and look younger than most people my age...ask my doctor.
We ALL have qualities that are beautiful...and things about us that are exceptional and should value ourselves (and ideally, should be valued by others) for those things. Throughout history and from culture to culture what has been considered to be physically ideal has changed so drastically and will continue to do so...and that is based upon many things...but, to devalue a person to the point of insult or to believe that said person is not deserving of love or happiness is just almost inhuman, imho...and, frankly, it's awfully painful. Yes, we should all strive to be take care of ourselves and be our best (whatever that is for ourselves) but, we all cannot be measured by such a narrow standard of excellence. | |
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AsianBomb777 said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: He has an elitist shitty ass attitude so that knocks him down to shit level You just described Prince! Prince isn't sexy! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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AsianBomb777 said: luv4all7 said: I am just NOW starting to get into JT. Like I totally woulda made a dick outta anyone listening to him before, and now I can't stop. I don't know whats gotten into me. He's WAY to skinny though. I know this guy doesn't fit the pretty boy image like JT or Usher, but I think SEAL is the sex! Usher looks like dog meat to me. Seal is much better, IMO. But THIS is the man of my dreams!!! why isnt it working????? [Edited 11/2/06 19:34pm] | |
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Stymie said: JustErin said: I find it interesting that many people, who feel that people should not be judged by their looks, often also assume that the so called "beautiful people" are stupid or shallow or do not accomplish anything in life but looking good. They are judging people simply by the way they look - the very thing they are crapping on others for doing. Isn't it just as bad to call someone stupid as it is to call someone ugly? | |
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See, some people age well. 
Do you think he'd do me?? 
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applekisses said: Ah....wow...to be completely honest with you all...I didn't expect this thread to go the way it has gone. But, I, as with others here, have (obviously) strong opinions about this topic and I think we've arrived at some interesting points. (btw, Dan...I didn't mean to lash out at you...that was not my intent...but, my dad was a truckdriver and swore like one, so "bullshit" is what came out
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After reading all of this and digesting it a bit...I guess it simply comes down to what we each value...for example, I couldn't care less about wearing a pair of low-rise jeans or if my man has six-pack abs, it's just not important to me. Yes, I take care of myself and take pride in my appearance (I pick the nicest photos of myself to post here )...do I have a perfect body? Hell no. I'd have to quit my job and work out eight hours a day, every day to get that (it's just the way my metabolism is) and I can't do that. But, I'm healthier and look younger than most people my age...ask my doctor.
We ALL have qualities that are beautiful...and things about us that are exceptional and should value ourselves (and ideally, should be valued by others) for those things. Throughout history and from culture to culture what has been considered to be physically ideal has changed so drastically and will continue to do so...and that is based upon many things...but, to devalue a person to the point of insult or to believe that said person is not deserving of love or happiness is just almost inhuman, imho...and, frankly, it's awfully painful. Yes, we should all strive to be take care of ourselves and be our best (whatever that is for ourselves) but, we all cannot be measured by such a narrow standard of excellence. BULLSHIT! | |
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luv4all7 said: someone had a nose job but yeah, he's hot 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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AsianBomb777 said: applekisses said: Ah....wow...to be completely honest with you all...I didn't expect this thread to go the way it has gone. But, I, as with others here, have (obviously) strong opinions about this topic and I think we've arrived at some interesting points. (btw, Dan...I didn't mean to lash out at you...that was not my intent...but, my dad was a truckdriver and swore like one, so "bullshit" is what came out
)
After reading all of this and digesting it a bit...I guess it simply comes down to what we each value...for example, I couldn't care less about wearing a pair of low-rise jeans or if my man has six-pack abs, it's just not important to me. Yes, I take care of myself and take pride in my appearance (I pick the nicest photos of myself to post here )...do I have a perfect body? Hell no. I'd have to quit my job and work out eight hours a day, every day to get that (it's just the way my metabolism is) and I can't do that. But, I'm healthier and look younger than most people my age...ask my doctor.
We ALL have qualities that are beautiful...and things about us that are exceptional and should value ourselves (and ideally, should be valued by others) for those things. Throughout history and from culture to culture what has been considered to be physically ideal has changed so drastically and will continue to do so...and that is based upon many things...but, to devalue a person to the point of insult or to believe that said person is not deserving of love or happiness is just almost inhuman, imho...and, frankly, it's awfully painful. Yes, we should all strive to be take care of ourselves and be our best (whatever that is for ourselves) but, we all cannot be measured by such a narrow standard of excellence. BULLSHIT! !!!! | |
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