Spats said:

unbelievable

I've never had to do pussy whipping because I give great mind fucks!!!

Adisa said:

No.

I'm not attracted to yes-men. Being with a stooge would drive me nuts.

something said:

It's true. Ask most guys. The best way for a woman to show she cares about you is sacktime.

JustErin said:

I thought ladies liked Curly...or was it Moe?

Last night me and some buddies are out again having a good time and one of the girlfriends call because she wanted him to come home.(it was around 11.30) He wimped out, gave in and the night was cut short. Typical nonsense.

Spats said:

wimped out, or got some sacktime?

NDRU said:

Never thought of that. Either way considering what she looks like that would be torture. Once again a guys night out is ruined my the girlfriends/wives.

Spats said:

something said:

Well, the way he was acting it was not a call for sacktime. He was not happy. But again, considering how she looks maybe you are right.

Spats said:

Not ruined for them, just for you.

And why should any of them be doing anything for you? They are focused on their lives, why don't you just focus on yours?

JustErin said:

I am focused om my life. But when the wives and girlfriends put a stop to our fun then i get pissed. It's all laughs and then ugly reality knocks on the door.

Spats said:

Dude, if it's a problem for you, get yourself some new friends, otherwise stfu. Most people make changes when things don't go the way they want, all you ever do is whine like a 2 year old.

JustErin said:

You can't just go out and find new friends just like that. I have known these guys for years. I just wish some of them would kick their women to the curb. They are ruining our fun times.

Spats said:

If you are hanging around with people who have connections to other people who ruin your "fun times" you have no one to blame but yourself.

Meeting new people is incredibly easy....for most of us anyway.

JustErin said:

I knew them before they hooked up with their wives and girlfriends. The women are to blame. They should just let the guys do what they and stop spoiling the fun.

Spats said:

That is out of your control. Seriously, anyone with common sense realizes that the only person one can change is one's self.

If you are in a situation that you do not like, the only person that you have power over is you, so you make the change.

Placing blame on others for something you choose to continue to do is so juvenile.

Wishing it were one way, saying people should do this or do that is just so useless. Life simply does not work that way, and those that think that it does are incredibly naive.

If someone is kicking you over and over in the shins and it hurts, would you sit there and just wish they would stop? Would you just whine about how much getting kicked in the shins sucks? Or would you actually do something about it by removing yourself from the situation?

If you are not willing to make a change yourself, you have no right to complain.

JustErin said:

That's what the guys should do. Make a change. As i said, i just can't go out and find new guys friends who don't have women chained around their ankles.

Spats said:

Again with the "shoulds". You always blindly walk right into people's traps.

You take no accountability for any of the choices you make. Have fun with that!

JustErin said:

Yes i do.

Spats said:

That's hardly what I mean. You'll say anything negative about male-female relationships just to stir the pot around here and get attention. I can't believe anyone would actually take you seriously.

Ottensen said:

As time goes on and I have experiences with more and more women and see what they are all about and see friend's relationships and their friends, i truly find it hard to say much positive about male-female relationships. it's not to get attention or stir pots.

Me and some buddies went out to the movies tonight and had some food and none of the women ruined it. Yes!!!! It's about frickin' time. That won't last though. The mommies will screw things up another night.

Spats said:

I bet you could in peace for a change

ZombieKitten said:

Huh??