do you think you should wait for love? or go out and find love?

Both. Seek it, but don't expect it to be delivered.

There are those who will say you will find it when you're not even looking and least expect it.
And there are those who will say, if you're not happy with where you are, go and do something about it; if you don't have what you want, go find it.

I wouldn't look for it.

But what exactly do you consider LOVE?

Like what r ya talkin about here?

Not this hocus pocus lovey dovey crap are ya?

Wait

A lady asks me
I speak in season
She seeks reason for an affect, wild often
That is so proud he hath Love for a name.

Who denys it can hear the truth now
Wherefore I speak to the present knowers
Having no hope that low-hearted

Can bring sight to such reason
Be there not natural demonstration
I have no will to try proof-bringing
Or say where it hath birth

What is its virtu and power
Its being and every moving
Or delight whereby 'tis called "to love"
Or if man can show it to sight.

start by smiling at people when you see them, especially the ones you like

go out and find a combo meal.

Seek it cautiously.

Wait for love

IrresistibleB1tch said:

There is not a such thing as love....all it is is pain, heartbreak, hurtfullness and my heart being stomped on in the end. I gave up on it a long time ago and therefore have my safety wall built around me and like it that way.

mostbeautifulgrlntheworld said:

evenstar3 said:

I like living in my own little world...I am safe....and god knows I have been through enought shit form having a boyfried beat the hell out of me for two years while I was in high school, from getting abandoned in a southern California airport by someone. I just live my life the best I can and keep myself happy. I am priority #1 to myself and it will always be that way from now on.

mostbeautifulgrlntheworld said:

I'm sorry you had to go through those awful experiences here's to happier times to come

evenstar3 said:

Its ok I have survive to tell about it....but honestly right now there is no light at the end of the tunnell...but that is life.

A millions of people don't find love so i wouldn't hold your breath waiting for it or going out looking for it.

2the9s said:

oh my...
you have succeeded in showing me
that i have let my brain turn to mush

weepingwall said:

I have tried to find it in the past... with embarrassing and bad results. I do still think it's out there somewhere for me, but I will find it when the time is right

I think you should just put that vibe out that you're open to it. I think sometimes our body language and attitude tells the universe if we are ready or not.


Seek and you will find


patience is always the way as well.
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Rhondab said:

unfortunately for me, i suppose my vibe is way off.

If love could be mass produced, boxed up and stacked high in a shop, I would sell my own home to buy all the boxes I could afford..






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Rhondab said:

My vibe, body language and internal first responses are telling the world to stay well away.

I just wish they weren't

susannah said:

REDFEATHERS said:

Thanks hon

I don't think you have to go looking for it. I think if you work on being a person that other people would want in their lives . . . being a good friend and a considerate lover . . . being giving and kind. . . having a rich inner and outer life of your own that doesn't depend on anybody else. . . people are drawn to that.

"I believe that my life's gonna see the love I give returned to me." - J. Mayer, "Wheel"

HereToRockYourWorld said:

I don't know if that's true.

I am a good friend. I am giving and kind to my friends.
I have a rich inner and outer life and i don't depend on anybody.

And i am not getting the woman i want.

Spats said:

It also helps to be honest with yourself and everybody else.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

...okay, i just looked at the first thing i posted on here and i got to thinking about it a bit more. i suppose i give some kinna vibe, because stupid straight guys keep hitting on me. i need to work on my "i play for the other team" vibe a bit more or something, i guess.