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HereToRockYourWorld said: I don't think you have to go looking for it. I think if you work on being a person that other people would want in their lives . . . being a good friend and a considerate lover . . . being giving and kind. . . having a rich inner and outer life of your own that doesn't depend on anybody else. . . people are drawn to that.
"I believe that my life's gonna see the love I give returned to me." - J. Mayer, "Wheel" That's nice and all, but that doesn't always work.  |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: Spats said: I don't know if that's true. I am a good friend. I am giving and kind to my friends. I have a rich inner and outer life and i don't depend on anybody. And i am not getting the woman i want. It also helps to be honest with yourself and everybody else.  I am honest with myself and all of my friends. | |
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Wait. I'm lazy. The Normal Whores Club | |
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CarrieMpls said: HereToRockYourWorld said: I don't think you have to go looking for it. I think if you work on being a person that other people would want in their lives . . . being a good friend and a considerate lover . . . being giving and kind. . . having a rich inner and outer life of your own that doesn't depend on anybody else. . . people are drawn to that.
"I believe that my life's gonna see the love I give returned to me." - J. Mayer, "Wheel" That's nice and all, but that doesn't always work. I didn't promise it would work FAST.  oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: CarrieMpls said: That's nice and all, but that doesn't always work. I didn't promise it would work FAST. Or at all, in fact. I think people (myself included) should learn to be content with the fact that they will live and die alone. Anything extra is just a nice bonus. |
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FunkMistress said: Wait. I'm lazy.
eh, me too.  | |
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CarrieMpls said: HereToRockYourWorld said: I didn't promise it would work FAST. Or at all, in fact. I think people (myself included) should learn to be content with the fact that they will live and die alone. Anything extra is just a nice bonus. Carrie! 
I mean, part of me agrees with that statement. . . I think it's good to be content alone. . . but not YOU. . . . . . you're too fabulous. . .oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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love is to be waited for. | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: CarrieMpls said: Or at all, in fact. I think people (myself included) should learn to be content with the fact that they will live and die alone. Anything extra is just a nice bonus. Carrie!
I mean, part of me agrees with that statement. . . I think it's good to be content alone. . . but not YOU. . . . . . you're too fabulous. . .But that's just it, isn't it. I know I'm fabulous. Yet I rarely, if ever, meet anyone I'm remotely interested in dating, let alone date someone and decide I want more from them than a few dates, let alone they feel that way about me too. I'm not convinced it's given in life that we find someone we want to spend the rest of our days with. Do I want that? Absolutely! Will I get it? I don't know. And so to not set myself up for a lifetime of constant disappointment, best learn to be happy alone. |
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Wait for love.
Being too agressive about it can get you into alot of trouble: Here's a illustration of that: AsianBomb777: Dude, I love you and I've always had these feelings for you. JerseyKRS:    (punch the fuck out)
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CarrieMpls said: HereToRockYourWorld said: Carrie!
I mean, part of me agrees with that statement. . . I think it's good to be content alone. . . but not YOU. . . . . . you're too fabulous. . .But that's just it, isn't it. I know I'm fabulous. Yet I rarely, if ever, meet anyone I'm remotely interested in dating, let alone date someone and decide I want more from them than a few dates, let alone they feel that way about me too. I'm not convinced it's given in life that we find someone we want to spend the rest of our days with. Do I want that? Absolutely! Will I get it? I don't know. And so to not set myself up for a lifetime of constant disappointment, best learn to be happy alone. I don't think it's a given either. I entirely agree with the attitude. I just want you to have everything in life that you want. oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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CarrieMpls said: HereToRockYourWorld said: Carrie!
I mean, part of me agrees with that statement. . . I think it's good to be content alone. . . but not YOU. . . . . . you're too fabulous. . .But that's just it, isn't it. I know I'm fabulous. Yet I rarely, if ever, meet anyone I'm remotely interested in dating, let alone date someone and decide I want more from them than a few dates, let alone they feel that way about me too. I'm not convinced it's given in life that we find someone we want to spend the rest of our days with. Do I want that? Absolutely! Will I get it? I don't know. And so to not set myself up for a lifetime of constant disappointment, best learn to be happy alone. I agree. It's not a given at all. All this optimism of "It will happen" blah, blah, is BS There are no guarantees. There is not much to choose from up here either. | |
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CarrieMpls said: HereToRockYourWorld said: Carrie!
I mean, part of me agrees with that statement. . . I think it's good to be content alone. . . but not YOU. . . . . . you're too fabulous. . .But that's just it, isn't it. I know I'm fabulous. Yet I rarely, if ever, meet anyone I'm remotely interested in dating, let alone date someone and decide I want more from them than a few dates, let alone they feel that way about me too. I'm not convinced it's given in life that we find someone we want to spend the rest of our days with. Do I want that? Absolutely! Will I get it? I don't know. And so to not set myself up for a lifetime of constant disappointment, best learn to be happy alone. another thing is that there's a lotta people out there who are like "there's someone for everyone, you WILL find somebody out there one day!" as if it's mandatory. 
and constant disappointment's not a bad thing. what don't kill you makes you stronger.  | |
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Spats said: CarrieMpls said: But that's just it, isn't it. I know I'm fabulous. Yet I rarely, if ever, meet anyone I'm remotely interested in dating, let alone date someone and decide I want more from them than a few dates, let alone they feel that way about me too. I'm not convinced it's given in life that we find someone we want to spend the rest of our days with. Do I want that? Absolutely! Will I get it? I don't know. And so to not set myself up for a lifetime of constant disappointment, best learn to be happy alone. I agree. It's not a given at all. All this optimism of "It will happen" blah, blah, is BS There are no guarantees. There is not much to choose from up here either. You should refrain from talking about things to which you're ignorant of. it's better for you to not say anything, and let people think you're an idiot, then to talk, and prove them right. | |
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purplerein said: Spats said: I agree. It's not a given at all. All this optimism of "It will happen" blah, blah, is BS There are no guarantees. There is not much to choose from up here either. You should refrain from talking about things to which you're ignorant of. it's better for you to not say anything, and let people think you're an idiot, then to talk, and prove them right. I like that. I mean not the fact that you said it to Spats so much. But the paragraph itself. Good advice. | |
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purplerein said: Spats said: I agree. It's not a given at all. All this optimism of "It will happen" blah, blah, is BS There are no guarantees. There is not much to choose from up here either. You should refrain from talking about things to which you're ignorant of. it's better for you to not say anything, and let people think you're an idiot, then to talk, and prove them right. What am i ignorant of? I have been in enough relationships to be a good authority on the subject. | |
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Love is overrated
Lust is not!  | |
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CarrieLee said: Love is overrated
Lust is not! | |
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CarrieLee said: Love is overrated
Lust is not! Lust rules!!!!  And when it starts to die off you are always guaranteed to find it again.  | |
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Spats said: CarrieLee said: Love is overrated
Lust is not! Lust rules!!!! And when it starts to die off you are always guaranteed to find it again.  | |
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mostbeautifulgrlntheworld said: There is not a such thing as love....all it is is pain, heartbreak, hurtfullness and my heart being stomped on in the end. I gave up on it a long time ago and therefore have my safety wall built around me and like it that way.
Fidelity Regina Spektor I never loved nobody fully Always one foot on the ground And by protecting my heart truly I got lost in the sounds I hear in my mind All these voices I hear in my mind all these words I hear in my mind all this music And it breaks my heart And it breaks my heart And it breaks my heart It breaks my heart And suppose I never met you Suppose we never fell in love Suppose I never ever let you kiss me so sweet and so soft Suppose I never ever saw you Suppose we never ever called Suppose I kept on singing love songs just to break my own fall Just to break my fall Just to break my fall Break my fall Break my fall All my friends say that of course its gonna get better Gonna get better Better better better better Better better better I never love nobody fully Always one foot on the ground And by protecting by heart truly I got lost In the sounds I hear in my mind All these voices I hear in my mind all these words I hear in my mind All this music And it breaks my heart It breaks my heart Breaks my Heart Breaks my heart oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: mostbeautifulgrlntheworld said: There is not a such thing as love....all it is is pain, heartbreak, hurtfullness and my heart being stomped on in the end. I gave up on it a long time ago and therefore have my safety wall built around me and like it that way.
Fidelity Regina Spektor I never loved nobody fully Always one foot on the ground And by protecting my heart truly I got lost in the sounds I hear in my mind All these voices I hear in my mind all these words I hear in my mind all this music And it breaks my heart And it breaks my heart And it breaks my heart It breaks my heart And suppose I never met you Suppose we never fell in love Suppose I never ever let you kiss me so sweet and so soft Suppose I never ever saw you Suppose we never ever called Suppose I kept on singing love songs just to break my own fall Just to break my fall Just to break my fall Break my fall Break my fall All my friends say that of course its gonna get better Gonna get better Better better better better Better better better I never love nobody fully Always one foot on the ground And by protecting by heart truly I got lost In the sounds I hear in my mind All these voices I hear in my mind all these words I hear in my mind All this music And it breaks my heart It breaks my heart Breaks my Heart Breaks my heart that is so sad  | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: mostbeautifulgrlntheworld said: There is not a such thing as love....all it is is pain, heartbreak, hurtfullness and my heart being stomped on in the end. I gave up on it a long time ago and therefore have my safety wall built around me and like it that way.
Fidelity Regina Spektor I never loved nobody fully Always one foot on the ground And by protecting my heart truly I got lost in the sounds I hear in my mind All these voices I hear in my mind all these words I hear in my mind all this music And it breaks my heart And it breaks my heart And it breaks my heart It breaks my heart And suppose I never met you Suppose we never fell in love Suppose I never ever let you kiss me so sweet and so soft Suppose I never ever saw you Suppose we never ever called Suppose I kept on singing love songs just to break my own fall Just to break my fall Just to break my fall Break my fall Break my fall All my friends say that of course its gonna get better Gonna get better Better better better better Better better better I never love nobody fully Always one foot on the ground And by protecting by heart truly I got lost In the sounds I hear in my mind All these voices I hear in my mind all these words I hear in my mind All this music And it breaks my heart It breaks my heart Breaks my Heart Breaks my heart  thanks | |
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