Again, this thread, like this one, is inspired by Spats' search for babes who are willing to make the first move.... So I ask the guys out there: Have you ever been approached by a girl you were not pursuing or dating who offered you sacktime? I'll answer first... One weekend last July I was with my friends at a festival in a small town I used to live in.... There was kind of a ballroom dance/concert on the Saturday evening that weekend where I chatted with this girl I had chatted briefly with at a similar gathering around last New Year's Eve.... I noticed she was flirting a bit, giving me come-hither looks although I kinda brushed it off, thinking she didn't mean anything by it (due to past experience)... Anyway, after the concert ended, everyone I knew was looking for The Big Party where most of us would be going to.... While I mentioned going to this party to the girl, she kept saying "Nah, can we just go outside, someplace else?"... Meanwhile, she was kinda "glued" with her arm on my shoulder... I just thought she was being friendly... So when I finally went to the party with my friends I finally realized that she wanted sacktime..... And when she didn't show up at the party, I went outside and checked if I could see her out on the street (it's a very small town btw) ... No luck there .... I got the "wanting sacktime" part confirmed when the morning after, some friends of her asked me: "Where is x?" I said: "x who?" ... "The girl you kissed last night".... And I didn't even kiss her! ..... Then they finally managed to call her... She claimed to them that she didn't get any sacktime, although she tried to... End of story.... Although, who knows what happens next time I go back to my hometown around New Years Eve..... Only problem is, she apparently has "been around"... I know at least 5-6 guys she has slept with.... So I don't know if I should accept her "offer", if I get the chance again....

Enough about my story, what about yours?

well, i'm gay so yes, but sacktime flows free like the river jordan among my people.

Anx said:

Omigod, if men could get pregnant from each other, this planet would have exploded a long time ago.

I can't believe spats is the author of one of the most popular Org buzzwords EVER!

"Sacktime" has caused a revolution second only to "penor"!

I don't go out that much and I dislike hangin' 'round drunk people + I'm kinda young, so no. I've been approached by girls on numerous occasions though. Who knows, maybe some of them wanted sacktime
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applekisses said:

I hated it when everyone was using that word

only once that I can remember. I was approached, she introduced herself, left her card, said to call.

Otherwise, women have ways of letting you know they're interested without actually making the first move.

So in a way, women almost always make the first move, or at least it's mutual. I can't remember pursuing a woman who hadn't shown some sign of interest.

NDRU said:

That's an excellent point.

Anx said:

NDRU said:

Girls are not good at sending messages that they want sacktime though. Their "i want sacktime" message is pretty much the same as their innocent flirting signals or just being friendly signals. That gives mixed messages out to guys.

That's why they should just come out and say "I want You." They rarely do though.

silk sacks, burlap sacks, woven sacks, and polyurythene sacks... sacktime for one, sacktime for all, sacktime for even the servants in the stall...

Anx said:

that's one of many advantages of playing for your team.

Yep sure have.

Spats said:

Do like Michael Jackson. Tell a girl you want to jump her bones. 9 out of 10 times you get slapped in the face, but the 10th? It's magic. It's wonderful.

sextonseven said:

Spats said:

I've been offered sacktime.


Can't remember if it was a girl or not now.

Kinda. I was pretty much coerced into having sex with Mon after only 3 days of being together. I would've waited 5, but she was all up on me trying to get some Fauxie lovin'

Fauxie said:

Is the Thai sex trade all it's cracked up to be? I'm thinking of going there you see. To have sex. Obviously.

Zogmuffin said:

With fauxie? That's hot!

CarrieMpls said:

NO, YOU PERVERT!

Zogmuffin said:

I wouldn't know.

I can say it's obviously very straightforward to pay for sex if that's what you're after. It'd be more fun to keep your money for trying to woo a Thai soap star, recording your steamy sex session, then posting it on the internet.

Fauxie said:

I want a ladyboy though. And her pet.

Zogmuffin said:

Zogmuffin said:

IrresistibleB1tch said:

It's true.

Yes.

I think certain women are more aggressive with a guy who, despite being straight, is least likely to accept their offer.