purplerein said:

I had sacktime with every girlfriend i have been with except the babe. And i wasn't afraid.

something said:

I only have a problem depending on what the effort is.

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to go downtown.

There is nothing wrong with asking the girl to get off when i have had enough.

I only asked them to leave a couple times because they were complaining about no cuddling afterwards. It's my bedroom afterall.

7in9 said:

Why in the hell am i gonna die lonely?

Number23 said:

I'm sorry, but that had me chuckling.

I like when he says "the babe".

Spats said:

purplerein said:

And so the shift begins. Every time there's some kind of 'controversial' orger who grabs the org's attention with views not shared by most it starts out with almost to an orger people bashing them (with exceptions of course, albeit the overwhelming minority).

Most orgers are not bothered enough to really get into it, but another minority, this time a sub-section of those against said controversial orger, takes things to a whole new level, joyfully rebutting and even seeking out the person, ready with aggressive or derogatory posts.

Gradually a change happens and people tire of the repetitive nature of the back and forth between controversial orger and their detractors. A few speak up saying controversial orger isn't all bad, is misunderstood, or criticise the detractors, and suddenly even the harshest critics soften their tone.

For further information look up 'EvilWhiteMale' in your org handbooks.

p.43: "EvilWhileMale is a dickhead. I disagree with everything he says, and he's a walking contradiction."

p.45: "I don't mind EvilWhiteMale. He just has strong opinions and likes to get a rise out of orgers, and they foolishly take the bait. If you don't like him, don't reply to his posts. Besides, he does have nice pecs."

I dig Spats most of the time--sometimes I get a bit sarcastic with him, though; it's hard for me not too. Although some of his views are a bit unpopular as Cortes pointed out; I personally think that's because he hasn't been in love yet. Once that happens a lot of "rules" fall by the way side...


I want to know if he wears spats when prowling for babes...

Spats said:

Uhm... You know most women do need clitoral stimulation to get off. So yes, there is something wrong with not wanting to go downtown. Heck, how many times do women come when they're with you? They probably don't come, or just come once. If you truly want to please a woman, you need to learn how to go downtown. I don't see why your tongue in a clit/pussy is such a revolting thought for you, dear Spats.

FuNkeNsteiN said:

that's easily solved by not caring about the woman's satisfaction.... as is the case in spatsy's reality.

Fauxie said:

Fauxie said:

Chuckling at the intentional irony, hopefully.

Number23 said:

Of course. You're more than just memorable hair.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

There's truth in there, no?

jone70 said:

I was in love once and it never made me act like a sissy boy like it does sooo many men. I kept my self respect. Thank the lord.
[Edited 10/27/06 22:11pm]

FuNkeNsteiN said:

I am not going downtown. I did it once and never again. That's the lowest i have ever sunk. I have had girlfriends try and sweet talk me into doing it all the way to getting pissed that I wouldn't do it. But I still refused. No one should do anything they don't want to do in bed.

something said:

Yeah, but if you are not comfortable doing it you should do it anyway?

Spats said:

You should do something to reciprocate what she's doing for you. Each person is responsible to satisfy their partner IMO.
You should make her happy, whatever that takes. If you're not willing to try and do that much, you should stick to paid partners.

shellyevon said:

It is not a person's responsibility to satisfy their girlfriend or boyfriend.It's great if it happens but it's not their responsibility. We are only respnsible for ourselves.

If something makes the person uncomfrotable they should not have to do it or be asked to do it. I have never asked a girlfriend to do anything that would make her uncomfortable. I expect the same in return.

Spats said:

i picture spats laying flat on his back, jerking off...as his sack mate lays on his/her back jerking off. what a party.

Spats said:

in that one line, you attack other men who are in love and express it. you call them 'sissy boys'...i pity you spats, I really do.

Spats said:

Absolutely not. If one is not comfortable they should never do something just to make the other person happy.

That said, if someone is not happy that their partner refuses to do a certain act and it upsets them that much, they should move on to someone that will do it.

People like and dislike certain things and there is nothing wrong with that. They key is finding a partner that enjoys (and keeps away from) the same things you do.

Spats said:

Your point about not expecting someone to do something uncomfortable is reasonable. But the best relatioships and sex happen when both people try to think more about the other person's happiness. The one of the best parts of sex is knowing you completely satified your partner. I mean. you can take care of your own needs by yourself.

purplerein said:

I can't help it if i hate to see guys act silly like that. There is nothing more pathetic than watching a guy get down on his knees and asking a woman to marry him at one of those sporting events or in general, or doing kissy face stuff in public. Or poems and flowers, etc. It's sissy behavior,

shellyevon said:

Yeah but the experience is not going to be very good if one of the people wants to throw up because they think going downtown is gross.

Spats said:

If you ever wonder why you can't seem to hold on to your so called girlfriends, just re-read your post. Also, the part about you not giving a fuck if you pleasure a woman or not might have something to do with it also...
[Edited 10/28/06 10:12am]

JustErin said:

Exactly. But it's hard to find a woman that doesn't like to go downtown. Women love that stuff.

Spats said:

To you it's sissy behaviour...and what the fuck does "sissy" mean to you anyway?

to others, it's expressing feelings.

you loathe expressing feelings, and that's your core problem.

FuNkeNsteiN said:

I realize why my relationships don't last a long time. It's because they stop being cool or i get bored and want something better and i leave.

purplerein said:

Yeah but you can express feelings without getting mushy and doing sissy stuff. You can still do it while at the same time being cool.