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Printable2the9s said: pinkgirl93 said:  OMG, both of you on the same thread.  You want us both on the same thread? 
I think I can talk Dan into that. 
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CarrieMpls said: pinkgirl93 said: Why is it so hard to have a relationship? I've been with my boyfriend now for 5 years, and it seems that each year is no easier than the one before it.
I mean, it's like love is a chore. Do any of you experience this? Or is love effortless? love is often effortless. relationships are the hard part. and there it is!  | |
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ZombieKitten said: Spats said: I said the same thing as a romance novel.  Good Lord Almighty.
  you spoke straight from the heart! 
 yes, "effortless" = a romantic fantasy "team effort, with some hard work" = the reality of a strong, lasting relationship | |
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ZombieKitten said: ZombieKitten said: you spoke straight from the heart!
yes, "effortless" = a romantic fantasy "team effort, with some hard work" = the reality of a strong, lasting relationship well put... but all fantacies also a bit of effort from both parties.. sad when things boil down to and end and you've got to rework new things into a fantacy to take the place of the things that happen in reality. | |
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slicksight said: ZombieKitten said: yes, "effortless" = a romantic fantasy "team effort, with some hard work" = the reality of a strong, lasting relationship well put... but all fantacies also a bit of effort from both parties.. sad when things boil down to and end and you've got to rework new things into a fantacy to take the place of the things that happen in reality. you mean to add a bit of spark to an existing relationship? | |
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ZombieKitten said: slicksight said: well put... but all fantacies also a bit of effort from both parties.. sad when things boil down to and end and you've got to rework new things into a fantacy to take the place of the things that happen in reality. you mean to add a bit of spark to an existing relationship? yeah, procastination can take you a long way with the same person  | |
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