..when it comes to other people..

so why do I not listen to my friends, and I listen to my heart?
I think my heart is faulty, and next time I SHOULD listen to my friends, and allow them to make my decisions in life.. cos I cant trust me..

REDFEATHERS said:

You can trust you. Near..far...wherever you are..i know that your heart still goes on....
oops, wrong song.
if they're good friends, they're pretty good judges of bf material. if they're acquaintences, they're only out to steal the guy for themselves. Try a combination of the two, and never ever feel that you have to defend your decision. it's your life you're living, not them.

purplerein said:

so why do I always make the wrong decisions, and meet the wrong kind of people?

purplerein said:

That's a load of crap. I have good friends and for the most part their idea of a girl i should hook up with is usually bad. Mostly ugos or girls that are not not my type. Don't let friends hook you up.

REDFEATHERS said:

because right now, you don't feel worthy of meeting the right people. for some reason you don't feel your worth it. lets talk about your childhood. you're sorta punishing yourself, lets see why..

REDFEATHERS said:

Don't listen to your heart. Just you head.

Spats said:

Spats said:

not helping spatso. not helping

I happen to be one of those people love and I don't know why that is but sometimes it's true yes. It's a case of not seeing the woods because there's a bunch of trees in the way, or the heart winning over the head in the eternal tug-of-war between them. Some mistakes you have to make on your own, no matter how good or valid advice you're given.
You'll survive because you are very loved.

Teacher said:

Fuck I miss you.. I wish you were here right now..

Your friends seem to have better perception because they only see the logical side, and none of the signals that your own emotions send to you. Your logic is confused with your emotions, and Im not talking about love or relationships, any person in your life at all.

So yeah, it may seem like a good idea to give your logic-driven friends free reign, but it depends which side of the heart Vs head argument you sit on. Im on the heart side. There are a lot of things and people in our lives that are bloody stupid ideas but we have to live in order to learn.

Besides, I don't know about you but I'm far too stubborn to listen to my friends

PS my heart is faulty too, and has resulted in a whole load of battlescars but thats ok, cause I'm stronger now, and will be moreso in the future

susannah said:

You know why so many women make bad choices with men and pick bad men all the time? Because they went with their heart instead of their head. Don't go in the wrong direction just for an experience you can learn from. Life is too short to waste years doing that. Who in the hell wants battle scars???

Spats said:

I believe I wasn't talking to you.

And who said anything about men? Bog off Spats.

purplerein said:

Pardon????

susannah said: