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this is about XxAxA, isn't it.



I trust some orgers, but am cautious with others.

purplerein said:

no - i trust my MAO gurl!

same here - i tend to err on the side of caution.

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IrresistibleB1tch said:

MAO?? i'll... take that as a compliment

wow, sweetie!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

LoL

That is just a truthful answer! Nothing to at!

Even though I am very outgoing, many people do not understand to what extent I am a very solitary person. I do let people easily into my life, but not that easily into my heart.

You, of course, are dear to my heart. PURRRRR

You and yer doggies.

HamsterHuey said:

thanks, and i'll tell them you said that.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Not just tell them; HUG them!

Serious; people with a heart for animals are often the peeps with a highway to my heart. And the extent of your love for your pets warms me, a continent away.

Serious, people like you are the reason I keep coming back here, even though I am cutting back on internet time...

HamsterHuey said:

wow - that's very sweet of you! and we are lucky to have you here - if i played some small role in that, i feel honored.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

you think he's sweet here? try spending some time with him... as anyone who has will tell you you fall in love with him totally

IrresistibleB1tch said:

you think he's sweet here? try spending some time with him... as anyone who has will tell you you fall in love with him totally

Natisse said:

i don't get to go to any invasions...

we've been talking about an Atlanta invasion forever... guess i'll have to make that happen if i ever want to meet some orgers.

IrresistibleB1tch said:

...If I end up coming to NC you will be one of the first to know

Natisse said:

Esp after the ass-spanking.

I am very good at it. Giving AND receiving.

HamsterHuey said:

Lars would agree

HamsterHuey said:

Lars would agree

Natisse said:

You know, that was the EXACT reason I said that, actually, but I was too lazy to search for it, hehehe.

GOOD catch.

HamsterHuey said:

Lars would agree

Natisse said:

my right knee & hand are on that pic....

IrresistibleB1tch said:

God knows I made some miss-calculations when I just arrived, all uppy-eyed, including wagging tail. Org was the first site I frequently visited and to blame for my current internet addiction.

At first, I became addicted to the chat room and I thought the contacts made there were freindships, which turned out not to be true in most cases. I got lied to and played, just because people can.

I also made contacts I then valued, but that just did not work.

And then there are a few contacts, just a few that still hold, even though I am not in contact with these people on a daily basis, where ever they live, may it be next to Amstelstation or in bleeding Cali.

Trust come in on many levels here. My personal life is off-limits in many ways. I share a lot, but without sharing too much info. It's just nobody's business.

It also has to do with why you are member of this site. I come here for entertainment value and to keep in contact with the actual friends I made.
I used to get all riled up at posts of certain people, back in the day when flame-wars were still going on. If I now bump into things I don't like I just sent people orgnotes, or when they are REALLY stupid, report them to the mods immediately.

In some ways it is easier to open up on a more personal level online, as it is rather anonymous, but I must admit that this is no longer appealing to me in any way, brought on by encountering too much stupidity.

If I spot a kindred spirit, I seek them out and do more than my best to understand them as well as internet allows. But I no longer push for people who do not answer that interest with the same intentions. If I spot what I call 'weirdness', I am the first to bow out.

'Weirdness'; people sending you fake pictures. People harrassing you with "why don't you ever answer me?"-notes after you noted with them once or twice. You know what I mean.

I would advice newbies ONE thing; be very careful with handing out personal info. It is very easy for people that mean you harm to piece together all the info they need to pry into your personal life in ways you do not want.
Be careful with posting pics, with handing out addresses and phonenumbers. There are lots of weird people out there!

But the few that found the highway to my heart; you were all worth it; I love you.

XxAxX said:

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Loved and loathed in equal measure. Just like the rest of us.

abierman said:

yeah you were there that day with us, Aksel, remember?

Natisse said:

!!!!!

Even though I am very outgoing, many people do not understand to what extent I am a very solitary person. I do let people easily into my life, but not that easily into my heart.

Some people you 'click' with immediately, other people you enjoy getting to know and others think they know you better than they actually do. Just like in real life.