IrresistibleB1tch said:

Is `Jaegi` german for poo?

fathermcmeekle said:

some people would say so...

IrresistibleB1tch said:

Are those "some people" german?

fathermcmeekle said:

SOME are...

fathermcmeekle said:

I saw " Meekle's massages, 2 for the price of one." in there.

LleeLlee said:

Yes, I massage myself at the same time!

LleeLlee said:

what a rip-off!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

I live by the rule of "If you can't deal with something you say about someone coming back to bite you in the ass, or what you say about yourself getting outside your close circle, don't say it in the first place".

JustErin said:

absolutely. but what you say may not have anything to do with the other person. still, it's a good rule to live by.

fathermcmeekle said:

What Can I say, I'll bet Esther Ranzten is turning in her grave.

So who are we talking about?

I never get these type of threads.

I'm usually very wary of who I am talking to. I'm always on guard, which hurts me and the possibility of potential frienships.

I have slipped up more-so in the past four years or so and I kick my ass every time I think those times that I have. They've always bitten me in the ass.

Better to keep things to yourself and be on guard. I'd rather miss out on a potential frienship than have added drama to my life and hurt being passed around.

I wish... wish, wish, wish, that I could go back to the meek and mild girl I knew four years ago. I don't like that I've hardened and I wish I could learn to keep my mouth shut once again. That I find very difficult anymore and I don't like it.

So, basically, back then I was meek and mild and wouldn't speak up for myself but would, at times, confide in others, and each and every time I was kicked in the ass for for doing so. Now, I say what I think to the person/people and that doesn't work so well either.

Better to just shut the hell up all the way around!

Mazurack said:

I have been good to Feather.

CortestheKiller said:

You know what I mistakenly said at the drive-thru today? "Need" came out of my mouth and I laughed and said... "I'm sorry, I would like"... Grrr... !!!

Mazurack said:

Motherfucker, I NEEDED that fish sammich!

CortestheKiller said:

Yes, well, at least I was just irritated when I said it and not in dire need of my stupid iced tea as you were your sammich!

That still kills me thinking about it!

Mazurack said:

you had a heyday with it when it happened!

CortestheKiller said:

I remember it well. I blew tea out my nose and mouth.

Hick.

Mazurack said:

Didn't I say some shit like, "I need me a fish sammich" or something utterly ignorant?

CortestheKiller said:

Yes. And then the tea fountain commenced.

I think I have a hick photo of me!

Absolutely wrong thread to post it on if I do.

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I'm pretty open and honest in general on the org, and when I know and trust someone here I'd say I'm the same as I am in real life. I couldn't be happy if I weren't honest. There are enough problems that come along in my life that are outside of my control, so I don't need to make more myself by lying.

Of course, discretion is important sometimes too, and oftentimes it's a grey area, but even then I try to make sure my intentions are good when giving or holding back information.

I'm a 1000 times more trusting and honest here. Maybe it's because here on the org there are little or no consequences for what we say, obviously you try not to hurt people's feelings or offend anyone, but if you do... not much comes of it...you log off and go on with your normal life. Also the fact that what I say here stays here makes my tongue a bit looser at times.

JustErin said:

I'm sure that's part of it, for me too.

Sweeny79 said:

booze does the same for me...

I say way too much personal stuff here than is probably wise... what can I say I wear my heart on my sleeve

IrresistibleB1tch said:

God knows I made some miss-calculations when I just arrived, all uppy-eyed, including wagging tail. Org was the first site I frequently visited and to blame for my current internet addiction.

At first, I became addicted to the chat room and I thought the contacts made there were freindships, which turned out not to be true in most cases. I got lied to and played, just because people can.

I also made contacts I then valued, but that just did not work.

And then there are a few contacts, just a few that still hold, even though I am not in contact with these people on a daily basis, where ever they live, may it be next to Amstelstation or in bleeding Cali.

Trust come in on many levels here. My personal life is off-limits in many ways. I share a lot, but without sharing too much info. It's just nobody's business.

It also has to do with why you are member of this site. I come here for entertainment value and to keep in contact with the actual friends I made.
I used to get all riled up at posts of certain people, back in the day when flame-wars were still going on. If I now bump into things I don't like I just sent people orgnotes, or when they are REALLY stupid, report them to the mods immediately.

In some ways it is easier to open up on a more personal level online, as it is rather anonymous, but I must admit that this is no longer appealing to me in any way, brought on by encountering too much stupidity.

If I spot a kindred spirit, I seek them out and do more than my best to understand them as well as internet allows. But I no longer push for people who do not answer that interest with the same intentions. If I spot what I call 'weirdness', I am the first to bow out.

'Weirdness'; people sending you fake pictures. People harrassing you with "why don't you ever answer me?"-notes after you noted with them once or twice. You know what I mean.

I would advice newbies ONE thing; be very careful with handing out personal info. It is very easy for people that mean you harm to piece together all the info they need to pry into your personal life in ways you do not want.
Be careful with posting pics, with handing out addresses and phonenumbers. There are lots of weird people out there!

But the few that found the highway to my heart; you were all worth it; I love you.

HamsterHuey said:

wow, sweetie!

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