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Printablepurplerein said: a friend always tells another friend the truth. acquaintences don't give a shit, but true friends always tell the truth.
at least that's the way i live my life. Is omitting certain facts ok? I'm sleeping with my best friend's wife, but obviously not telling him. Technically I'm not lying, so am I covered?  | |
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fathermcmeekle said: purplerein said: a friend always tells another friend the truth. acquaintences don't give a shit, but true friends always tell the truth.
at least that's the way i live my life. Is omitting certain facts ok? I'm sleeping with my best friend's wife, but obviously not telling him. Technically I'm not lying, so am I covered? i would advise you to be honest, and tell your friend you know his wife is having an affair, and leave it at that. | |
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purplerein said: fathermcmeekle said: Is omitting certain facts ok? I'm sleeping with my best friend's wife, but obviously not telling him. Technically I'm not lying, so am I covered? i would advise you to be honest, and tell your friend you know his wife is having an affair, and leave it at that.  that's the level of honesty we should all aspire to!  | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: DarkKnight1 said: Trust??? Innocent until proven guilty as far as im concerned. But dont betray my trust. Your one and done.
in r/l, on the internet, or both? Internet and real life. I dont give a shit what anyone's opinion is about someone I know or am getting to know. Seriously. Ive got a whole trust theory that I will unveil on a separate thread. I dont want to jack this one, (Insert something clever here) | |
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DarkKnight1 said: IrresistibleB1tch said: in r/l, on the internet, or both? Internet and real life. I dont give a shit what anyone's opinion is about someone I know or am getting to know. Seriously. Ive got a whole trust theory that I will unveil on a separate thread. I dont want to jack this one, that would be cool - i'd love to hear about it!  | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: if for example a r/l friend of yours were friends with somebody you didn't much care for, would you be careful about what you say to him or her? Careful to the friend I like ? As in not tell them I dont care much for their other friend ? | |
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As far as trust
for me ... I trust my judgement and intuition then that trust is extended outward | |
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purplerein said: fathermcmeekle said: Is omitting certain facts ok? I'm sleeping with my best friend's wife, but obviously not telling him. Technically I'm not lying, so am I covered? i would advise you to be honest, and tell your friend you know his wife is having an affair, and leave it at that. I could even show him pictures of her, you know, doing it! 
He's lucky he's got me to look out for him! | |
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I think I disclose on here about as much I would disclose anywhere  I am pretty trusting. | |
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fathermcmeekle said: purplerein said: i would advise you to be honest, and tell your friend you know his wife is having an affair, and leave it at that. I could even show him pictures of her, you know, doing it!
He's lucky he's got me to look out for him!  | |
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ZombieKitten said: I think I disclose on here about as much I would disclose anywhere
I am pretty trusting.You couldn't lend me 100 quid until pay day?
My, er, Gran needs a new knee. | |
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Mach said: IrresistibleB1tch said: if for example a r/l friend of yours were friends with somebody you didn't much care for, would you be careful about what you say to him or her? Careful to the friend I like ? As in not tell them I dont care much for their other friend ? yes | |
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Mach said: IrresistibleB1tch said: if for example a r/l friend of yours were friends with somebody you didn't much care for, would you be careful about what you say to him or her? Careful to the friend I like ? As in not tell them I dont care much for their other friend ? trust that whatever you say to your friend doesn't end up with the other person. | |
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fathermcmeekle said: ZombieKitten said: I think I disclose on here about as much I would disclose anywhere
I am pretty trusting.You couldn't lend me 100 quid until pay day?
My, er, Gran needs a new knee. If I had it I would  hey, can I borrow your car? I can't open the doors on mine, the electric locking has had it  | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: Mach said: Careful to the friend I like ? As in not tell them I dont care much for their other friend ? trust that whatever you say to your friend doesn't end up with the other person. Which friend? The one you don't like?  | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: Mach said: Careful to the friend I like ? As in not tell them I dont care much for their other friend ? trust that whatever you say to your friend doesn't end up with the other person. had you said that in the beginning, there wouldn't have been so much confusion on the part of the responding orgers. you're going to have to dumb things down in the future. | |
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purplerein said: Mach said: Careful to the friend I like ? As in not tell them I dont care much for their other friend ? yes I make myself clear to my friends if I do not like one of their other friends That way my friend wont misunderstand me or my actions towards their friend Most of my friends are they same way... we are comfortable letting each other know our truths and feelings I like it that way I am not into faking/pretending | |
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fathermcmeekle said: IrresistibleB1tch said: trust that whatever you say to your friend doesn't end up with the other person. Which friend? The one you don't like? yes. keep asking silly questions, and i won't EVER again tell you what i think about Anx!  | |
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ZombieKitten said: I can't open the doors on mine, the electric locking has had it
So you can't get in and start the engine? 
Must be a pain pushing it to work and back. | |
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purplerein said: IrresistibleB1tch said: trust that whatever you say to your friend doesn't end up with the other person. had you said that in the beginning, there wouldn't have been so much confusion on the part of the responding orgers. you're going to have to dumb things down in the future.  made perfect sense to me at the time. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: Mach said: Careful to the friend I like ? As in not tell them I dont care much for their other friend ? trust that whatever you say to your friend doesn't end up with the other person. NO... I guess I dont concern myself with what would be said... that is something i can not control I would hop that MY friend would be honest with THEIR friend and simplt tell them I dont like them It's really quite simple | |
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fathermcmeekle said: ZombieKitten said: I can't open the doors on mine, the electric locking has had it
So you can't get in and start the engine?
Must be a pain pushing it to work and back. that's what 3 kids are for! | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: purplerein said: had you said that in the beginning, there wouldn't have been so much confusion on the part of the responding orgers. you're going to have to dumb things down in the future. made perfect sense to me at the time. so did that 4th bottle of wine with breakfast, but how you feelin now? | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: fathermcmeekle said: Which friend? The one you don't like? yes. keep asking silly questions, and i won't EVER again tell you what i think about Anx! I already know what you think. It's scribbled on the wall in the org toilet. | |
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Mach said: IrresistibleB1tch said: trust that whatever you say to your friend doesn't end up with the other person. NO... I guess I dont concern myself with what would be said... that is something i can not control I would hop that MY friend would be honest with THEIR friend and simplt tell them I dont like them It's really quite simple makes PERFECT sense! | |
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Mach said: IrresistibleB1tch said: trust that whatever you say to your friend doesn't end up with the other person. NO... I guess I dont concern myself with what would be said... that is something i can not control I would hop that MY friend would be honest with THEIR friend and simplt tell them I dont like them It's really quite simple I would hope my friends would forgive my spelling mistakes  | |
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purplerein said: IrresistibleB1tch said: made perfect sense to me at the time. so did that 4th bottle of wine with breakfast, but how you feelin now? the nap helped. a little. | |
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ZombieKitten said: fathermcmeekle said: So you can't get in and start the engine?
Must be a pain pushing it to work and back. that's what 3 kids are for! And, they keep your shoes nice and shiny! | |
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fathermcmeekle said: IrresistibleB1tch said: yes. keep asking silly questions, and i won't EVER again tell you what i think about Anx! I already know what you think. It's scribbled on the wall in the org toilet. i shouldn't have had that last Jaegi... | |
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Mach said: Mach said: NO... I guess I dont concern myself with what would be said... that is something i can not control I would hop that MY friend would be honest with THEIR friend and simplt tell them I dont like them It's really quite simple I would hope my friends would forgive my spelling mistakes of course! | |
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