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Printable7in9 said: Spats said: I don't know who that is.  OMG!i don't get the connection between hitler's ramblings and Spats' love life?  | |
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XxAxX said: 7in9 said: OMG!i don't get the connection between hitler's ramblings and Spats' love life? His enjoyment of others suffering seems strangely familiar | |
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7in9 said: XxAxX said: i don't get the connection between hitler's ramblings and Spats' love life? His enjoyment of others suffering seems strangely familiar  | |
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Mach said:  Shame Dream's thread turned into another focus on ME ME ME ( Spats ) threadYeah  | |
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Nikster said: Mach said: Shame Dream's thread turned into another focus on ME ME ME ( Spats ) threadYeah I tried to keep it on topic by asking the women on here to post examples of them taking men out on dates what they try to do on the date to impress them.Only 2 women responded!! Proving my point. | |
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7in9 said: XxAxX said: i don't get the connection between hitler's ramblings and Spats' love life? His enjoyment of others suffering seems strangely familiar That is not a nice comparison. Nowhere near the same thing. | |
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Spats said: Nikster said: Yeah I tried to keep it on topic by asking the women on here to post examples of them taking men out on dates what they try to do on the date to impress them.Only 2 women responded!! Proving my point. Yes...you made a point. Which you keep pointing out over and over and over and over. | |
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Spats said: Fauxie said: That may be true to some extent in some cases, and was the case for me to some degree when I was younger, but I can't say I'm having any problems with the sacktime now.   This was achieved primarily by my thinking it important to be a nice, polite guy.
. [Edited 10/23/06 17:47pm] yeah but those women are past their prime now. When women are in their prime years they don't want nice guys. When they get into their 30's and 40's they they all of a sudden want them. What does now have to do with it though? She was 21 then, at the time she wanted to be with a nice guy, and she's only 27 now. Your thinking is muddled. | |
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Fauxie said: Spats said: yeah but those women are past their prime now. When women are in their prime years they don't want nice guys. When they get into their 30's and 40's they they all of a sudden want them. What does now have to do with it though? She was 21 then, at the time she wanted to be with a nice guy, and she's only 27 now. Your thinking is muddled. That girl is in the minority. | |
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Spats said: Fauxie said: What does now have to do with it though? She was 21 then, at the time she wanted to be with a nice guy, and she's only 27 now. Your thinking is muddled. That girl is in the minority. Perhaps, but I found success. You seem to be struggling in the minority you're looking for a woman in. Might be time for a change of approach, or should you feel you have the patience to wait and keep on trying, you could at least stop moaning about your struggles here and just ready yourself for the long haul. | |
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Fauxie said:[quote] Spats said: That girl is in the minority. Perhaps, but I found success. You seem to be struggling in the minority you're looking for a woman in. Might be time for a change of approach, or should you feel you have the patience to wait and keep on trying, you could at least stop moaning about your struggles here and just ready yourself for the long haul.[/quot Well i don't know what other approach i could try. It's either approach them or let them approach me. There are only two ways. I don't know what the answer is to finding a cool girl. [Edited 10/24/06 23:38pm] | |
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Spats said:[quote] Fauxie said: Spats said: That girl is in the minority. Perhaps, but I found success. You seem to be struggling in the minority you're looking for a woman in. Might be time for a change of approach, or should you feel you have the patience to wait and keep on trying, you could at least stop moaning about your struggles here and just ready yourself for the long haul.[/quot Well i don't know what other approach i could try. It's either approach them or let them approach me. There are only two ways. I don't know what the answer is to finding a cool girl. [Edited 10/24/06 23:38pm] Well, it seems that way that would work best is the way you don't want to try. As long as you are not willing to be the chaster rather than the chasee, you really have no room to bitch/whine/complain when you ultimately end up with nada. You may not like it, but that's the way it goes and all the pouting and foot stomping in the world will not change that. Something that's worth having is worth going after. If all you do is sit around and wait, all you're gonna do is grow old. Alone. Oh, and "finding a cool girl" implies that you are actually getting off your butt to look for one...if you're just waiting for one to come to you, you're not looking thus you will not find anything. Is this clear enough or shall I have to break out the sock puppets and crayolas?!?! | |
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Nikster said: Spats said: Perhaps, but I found success. You seem to be struggling in the minority you're looking for a woman in. Might be time for a change of approach, or should you feel you have the patience to wait and keep on trying, you could at least stop moaning about your struggles here and just ready yourself for the long haul.[/quot Well i don't know what other approach i could try. It's either approach them or let them approach me. There are only two ways. I don't know what the answer is to finding a cool girl. [Edited 10/24/06 23:38pm] Well, it seems that way that would work best is the way you don't want to try. As long as you are not willing to be the chaster rather than the chasee, you really have no room to bitch/whine/complain when you ultimately end up with nada. You may not like it, but that's the way it goes and all the pouting and foot stomping in the world will not change that. Something that's worth having is worth going after. If all you do is sit around and wait, all you're gonna do is grow old. Alone. Oh, and "finding a cool girl" implies that you are actually getting off your butt to look for one...if you're just waiting for one to come to you, you're not looking thus you will not find anything. Is this clear enough or shall I have to break out the sock puppets and crayolas?!?! I have not approached a woman in a long time. I think i would be out of practise. I would probably be nervous. And the high rejection factor does not make it very appealing. Not to mention that that suggestion once again takes all of the responsibility off the woman and all of it on the man. Isn't that wrong? Women sit around and wait all of the time. How come they are not alone? I go to the places that the cool girls usually hang out at so i am putting myself out there to be approached so i am going to find a cool girl. | |
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Spats said:[quote] Fauxie said: Spats said: That girl is in the minority. Perhaps, but I found success. You seem to be struggling in the minority you're looking for a woman in. Might be time for a change of approach, or should you feel you have the patience to wait and keep on trying, you could at least stop moaning about your struggles here and just ready yourself for the long haul.[/quot Well i don't know what other approach i could try. It's either approach them or let them approach me. There are only two ways. I don't know what the answer is to finding a cool girl. [Edited 10/24/06 23:38pm] 3 Things #1 Get a spine #2 Get a personality #3 Grow some balls | |
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Spats said: Nikster said: Well, it seems that way that would work best is the way you don't want to try. As long as you are not willing to be the chaster rather than the chasee, you really have no room to bitch/whine/complain when you ultimately end up with nada. You may not like it, but that's the way it goes and all the pouting and foot stomping in the world will not change that. Something that's worth having is worth going after. If all you do is sit around and wait, all you're gonna do is grow old. Alone. Oh, and "finding a cool girl" implies that you are actually getting off your butt to look for one...if you're just waiting for one to come to you, you're not looking thus you will not find anything. Is this clear enough or shall I have to break out the sock puppets and crayolas?!?! I have not approached a woman in a long time. I think i would be out of practise. I would probably be nervous. And the high rejection factor does not make it very appealing. Not to mention that that suggestion once again takes all of the responsibility off the woman and all of it on the man. Isn't that wrong? Women sit around and wait all of the time. How come they are not alone? I go to the places that the cool girls usually hang out at so i am putting myself out there to be approached so i am going to find a cool girl. Maybe they think you are an "ugo" | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: I have not approached a woman in a long time. I think i would be out of practise. I would probably be nervous. And the high rejection factor does not make it very appealing. Not to mention that that suggestion once again takes all of the responsibility off the woman and all of it on the man. Isn't that wrong? Women sit around and wait all of the time. How come they are not alone? I go to the places that the cool girls usually hang out at so i am putting myself out there to be approached so i am going to find a cool girl. Maybe they think you are an "ugo" I am sure that there are some that will. I am not as good looking as Brad Pitt or Johnny depp or anybody that good looking. I don't have model type looks or pretty boy looks. | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: Maybe they think you are an "ugo" I am sure that there are some that will. I am not as good looking as Brad Pitt or Johnny depp or anybody that good looking. I don't have model type looks or pretty boy looks. All that and the personality issues.....man it must be tough being you friend | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: Maybe they think you are an "ugo" I am sure that there are some that will. I am not as good looking as Brad Pitt or Johnny depp or anybody that good looking. I don't have model type looks or pretty boy looks. it's not just about looks, Spats. it's about personality, or lack there of. Cool Girls don't approach guys. and the one's who do, arent the type you want to be with | |
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Spats said: Nikster said: Well, it seems that way that would work best is the way you don't want to try. As long as you are not willing to be the chaster rather than the chasee, you really have no room to bitch/whine/complain when you ultimately end up with nada. You may not like it, but that's the way it goes and all the pouting and foot stomping in the world will not change that. Something that's worth having is worth going after. If all you do is sit around and wait, all you're gonna do is grow old. Alone. Oh, and "finding a cool girl" implies that you are actually getting off your butt to look for one...if you're just waiting for one to come to you, you're not looking thus you will not find anything. Is this clear enough or shall I have to break out the sock puppets and crayolas?!?! I have not approached a woman in a long time. I think i would be out of practise. I would probably be nervous. And the high rejection factor does not make it very appealing. Not to mention that that suggestion once again takes all of the responsibility off the woman and all of it on the man. Isn't that wrong? Women sit around and wait all of the time. How come they are not alone? I go to the places that the cool girls usually hang out at so i am putting myself out there to be approached so i am going to find a cool girl. maybe a dating service would work for you. seriously, think about it. no one has to 'approach' anyone because the service does that, your interests and desire for sacktime are already sorted by the time you meet... | |
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purplerein said: Spats said: I am sure that there are some that will. I am not as good looking as Brad Pitt or Johnny depp or anybody that good looking. I don't have model type looks or pretty boy looks. it's not just about looks, Spats. it's about personality, or lack there of. Cool Girls don't approach guys. and the one's who do, arent the type you want to be with But they don't know what my personality is like until they meet and talk with me. And i am usually on my best behavior (minus ass kissing). In my opinion the girls that do approach guys are cool. | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: I am sure that there are some that will. I am not as good looking as Brad Pitt or Johnny depp or anybody that good looking. I don't have model type looks or pretty boy looks. All that and the personality issues.....man it must be tough being you friend I don't have personality issues. | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: All that and the personality issues.....man it must be tough being you friend I don't have personality issues. | |
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XxAxX said: Spats said: I have not approached a woman in a long time. I think i would be out of practise. I would probably be nervous. And the high rejection factor does not make it very appealing. Not to mention that that suggestion once again takes all of the responsibility off the woman and all of it on the man. Isn't that wrong? Women sit around and wait all of the time. How come they are not alone? I go to the places that the cool girls usually hang out at so i am putting myself out there to be approached so i am going to find a cool girl. maybe a dating service would work for you. seriously, think about it. no one has to 'approach' anyone because the service does that, your interests and desire for sacktime are already sorted by the time you meet... Those things are for losers. And hot women don't do those things. And you have to put your pic online and and you don't really know who you are getting. | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: All that and the personality issues.....man it must be tough being you friend I don't have personality issues.  | |
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Spats said: XxAxX said: maybe a dating service would work for you. seriously, think about it. no one has to 'approach' anyone because the service does that, your interests and desire for sacktime are already sorted by the time you meet... Those things are for losers. ****cough**** | |
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I saw a story on tv on dating services and it wasn't pretty. Not a hottie in the bunch. | |
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Mach said: Spats said: I don't have personality issues. Not liking romance or sissy stuff is not having personality issues. | |
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A friend of mine met his girlfriend at one of those speed dating nights. She is nothing to look at though. And there were not any hotties there either. | |
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Spats said: Mach said: Not liking romance or sissy stuff is not having personality issues.  | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: Not liking romance or sissy stuff is not having personality issues. It's not. It's no crime to dislike that nonsense. I am not a bad person. | |
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