Spats said: 7in9 said: :flushingtoilet: It's true. They should look in the mirror before saying i am making a mistake considering who they are sleeping with. Priceless | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: It's true. They should look in the mirror before saying i am making a mistake considering who they are sleeping with. Priceless It's true. If you saw them you would agree. | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: Priceless It's true. If you saw them you would agree. Ever heard the phrase "taking candy from a baby"? | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: It's true. If you saw them you would agree. Ever heard the phrase "taking candy from a baby"? Yes. | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: Ever heard the phrase "taking candy from a baby"? Yes. You are special arn't you spats? | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: Yes. You are special arn't you spats? And you are WRONG. And won't admit it. | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: You are special arn't you spats? And you are WRONG. And won't admit it. Ok friend, you just believe whatever you want.....by yourself. In that case stop asking for advice and whinging that the last time you saw a pussy was a year ago. | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: And you are WRONG. And won't admit it. Ok friend, you just believe whatever you want.....by yourself. In that case stop asking for advice and whinging that the last time you saw a pussy was a year ago. You haven't been giving advice. You have been Just saying how wrong i am. | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: Ok friend, you just believe whatever you want.....by yourself. In that case stop asking for advice and whinging that the last time you saw a pussy was a year ago. You haven't been giving advice. You have been Just saying how wrong i am. YOU have been asking on untold threads for it. Read what i said again idiot. | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: You haven't been giving advice. You have been Just saying how wrong i am. YOU have been asking on untold threads for it. Read what i said again idiot. Yes, i asked for advice from everyone but you have just been saying it's my fault. | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: YOU have been asking on untold threads for it. Read what i said again idiot. Yes, i asked for advice from everyone but you have just been saying it's my fault. That is the advice, you are wrong, the sooner you see it, accept it, change and become a human rather than a turd you will most definately score more. | |
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emm said: soooo needy | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: Yes, i asked for advice from everyone but you have just been saying it's my fault. That is the advice, you are wrong, the sooner you see it, accept it, change and become a human rather than a turd you will most definately score more. So in other words to the opposite of what i want to do or feel comfortable doing? Well, thanks for the advice however depressing that is. | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: That is the advice, you are wrong, the sooner you see it, accept it, change and become a human rather than a turd you will most definately score more. So in other words to the opposite of what i want to do or feel comfortable doing? Well, thanks for the advice however depressing that is. Have you thought about the priesthood? I mean celibacy should be a breeze for you | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: So in other words to the opposite of what i want to do or feel comfortable doing? Well, thanks for the advice however depressing that is. Have you thought about the priesthood? I mean celibacy should be a breeze for you Celibacy in the priesthood? Seriously, isn't it sad that in most cases if a guy wants sacktime he has to do it the woman's way? Meaning what you you have suggested... Romance, sweetness, wimpyness, sissy stuff. [Edited 10/23/06 13:54pm] | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: Have you thought about the priesthood? I mean celibacy should be a breeze for you Celibacy in the priesthood? Seriously, isn't it sad that in most cases if a guy wants sacktime he has to do it the woman's way? Meaning what you you have suggested... Romance, sweetness, wimpyness, sissy stuff. [Edited 10/23/06 13:54pm] I never said that. I said you need to be human and accord the other party respect and human decency, meaning take her feelings in to account. You want it all your own way. | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: Have you thought about the priesthood? I mean celibacy should be a breeze for you Celibacy in the priesthood? Seriously, isn't it sad that in most cases if a guy wants sacktime he has to do it the woman's way? Meaning what you you have suggested... Romance, sweetness, wimpyness, sissy stuff. [Edited 10/23/06 13:54pm] Ok, what a load of shit. Guys have been banging chicks and taking off without giving anything but their cock since the beginning of time. You don't want to give in a little to the so called needs of most women and yet you can't even manage to play the player role (which is the easiest role one can play). You can't seem to do anything to be able to get what it is you really want and that's what's really sad (but funny to the rest of us). That's not the fault of others, that is your fault. So keep doing what you're doing and stop asking for advice since it's never what you wanna hear. Accept your life the way it is and stfu. | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: Celibacy in the priesthood? Seriously, isn't it sad that in most cases if a guy wants sacktime he has to do it the woman's way? Meaning what you you have suggested... Romance, sweetness, wimpyness, sissy stuff. [Edited 10/23/06 13:54pm] Ok, what a load of shit. Guys have been banging chicks and taking off without giving anything but their cock since the beginning of time. You don't want to give in a little to the so called needs of most women and yet you can't even manage to play the player role (which is the easiest role one can play). You can't seem to do anything to be able to get what it is you really want and that's what's really sad (but funny to the rest of us). That's not the fault of others, that is your fault. So keep doing what you're doing and stop asking for advice since it's never what you wanna hear. Accept your life the way it is and stfu. you said 'f'. | |
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Spats said: DarkKnight1 said: Alright Spats, Im not gonna bash you here. I just want to discuss a few things that might help. Im not sure how much sacktime you require or get. All speculation. Your intentions arent much different then most folks, sex without a connection. Therein lies the problem. Most, not all, women cant or wont have meaningless sex. Because it is just that, meaningless. Sure, some girls will sex you up and even climax. But it is my experience that if a genuine connection is reached, getting sacktime is not an issue. I know what your thinking. "I dont need or want that kind of intimacy or connection". Unfortunately, its not just about you. I used to have the take it or leave it attitude with relationships. Getting close to someone doent mean marriage. Shit, its never either A or B. People change. I think the real reason you might be struggling with relational or sacktime issues, is that everything you ever thought or knew is being questioned by yourself and others. Ill wait for your response before I keep going. What do you mean by a genuine connection? I got along great with my girlfriends at the beginning. But as usual as time goes on you see the real woman and there is disappointment. With most women , getting close to a woman does usually have to lead to marriage at some point. The majority of women want marriage for whatever reason. I was questioning whether i was screwing up with the babe but i am leaning to the fact that i don't think i did. I was contemplating turning into a sissy boy wimp to get sacktime but i can't do it. I have to keep my dignity and principles. On the other hand a couple buddies think i blew it with a great girl. If you are always going to consider the perceptions of others(including friends), then you will never have a consistent sacktime partner. Inevitably, you will have to sacrifice something. In your terms, that means "turning into a sissy boy wimp" at times. Not that you have to go to operas and wear fucking cardigans all of the time, but you might actually have to show a girl some affection or even, God forbid, show some interest in her first. Bottom line, Check your fucking pride at the door with regards to relationships, sacktime, and women, or pay for hookers, jerk off often, and continue to fail at getting and keeping the hookup. (Insert something clever here) | |
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DarkKnight1 said: If you are always going to consider the perceptions of others(including friends), then you will never have a consistent sacktime partner. Inevitably, you will have to sacrifice something. In your terms, that means "turning into a sissy boy wimp" at times. Not that you have to go to operas and wear fucking cardigans all of the time, but you might actually have to show a girl some affection or even, God forbid, show some interest in her first.
Bottom line, Check your fucking pride at the door with regards to relationships, sacktime, and women, or pay for hookers, jerk off often, and continue to fail at getting and keeping the hookup. sounds to me like a hooker is exactly what he needs. | |
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Spats said: Fauxie said: Oh, is that so? ... [Edited 10/21/06 18:43pm] Ask any nice guy. They have been passed over for years by women claiming they want a nice guy. Those nice guys have pelnty of women as friends but no sacktimee is involved. That may be true to some extent in some cases, and was the case for me to some degree when I was younger, but I can't say I'm having any problems with the sacktime now. This was achieved primarily by my thinking it important to be a nice, polite guy. . [Edited 10/23/06 17:47pm] | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: Celibacy in the priesthood? Seriously, isn't it sad that in most cases if a guy wants sacktime he has to do it the woman's way? Meaning what you you have suggested... Romance, sweetness, wimpyness, sissy stuff. [Edited 10/23/06 13:54pm] Ok, what a load of shit. Guys have been banging chicks and taking off without giving anything but their cock since the beginning of time. You don't want to give in a little to the so called needs of most women and yet you can't even manage to play the player role (which is the easiest role one can play). You can't seem to do anything to be able to get what it is you really want and that's what's really sad (but funny to the rest of us). That's not the fault of others, that is your fault. So keep doing what you're doing and stop asking for advice since it's never what you wanna hear. Accept your life the way it is and stfu. That's what I don't get. Here's a guy who wants to have sex with a pretty girl, but on the face of it could care less about getting into the emotional side of a relationship, so you'd think he'd be perfectly set up to be a player. I'm not sure whether these slightly bizzarre (to me, at least) principles are the reason he doesn't get the sacktime he craves or whether he really is just failing at the player role. | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: Celibacy in the priesthood? Seriously, isn't it sad that in most cases if a guy wants sacktime he has to do it the woman's way? Meaning what you you have suggested... Romance, sweetness, wimpyness, sissy stuff. [Edited 10/23/06 13:54pm] Ok, what a load of shit. Guys have been banging chicks and taking off without giving anything but their cock since the beginning of time. You don't want to give in a little to the so called needs of most women and yet you can't even manage to play the player role (which is the easiest role one can play). You can't seem to do anything to be able to get what it is you really want and that's what's really sad (but funny to the rest of us). That's not the fault of others, that is your fault. So keep doing what you're doing and stop asking for advice since it's never what you wanna hear. Accept your life the way it is and stfu. What player role? I don't go after women. I wait for them to come after me. That's how i got my girlfriends.You go with what has worked best. And they are not "so called" needs. You have to do that shit with most women if you want sacktime. | |
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Fauxie said: Spats said: Ask any nice guy. They have been passed over for years by women claiming they want a nice guy. Those nice guys have pelnty of women as friends but no sacktimee is involved. That may be true to some extent in some cases, and was the case for me to some degree when I was younger, but I can't say I'm having any problems with the sacktime now. This was achieved primarily by my thinking it important to be a nice, polite guy. . [Edited 10/23/06 17:47pm] yeah but those women are past their prime now. When women are in their prime years they don't want nice guys. When they get into their 30's and 40's they they all of a sudden want them. | |
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Fauxie said: JustErin said: Ok, what a load of shit. Guys have been banging chicks and taking off without giving anything but their cock since the beginning of time. You don't want to give in a little to the so called needs of most women and yet you can't even manage to play the player role (which is the easiest role one can play). You can't seem to do anything to be able to get what it is you really want and that's what's really sad (but funny to the rest of us). That's not the fault of others, that is your fault. So keep doing what you're doing and stop asking for advice since it's never what you wanna hear. Accept your life the way it is and stfu. That's what I don't get. Here's a guy who wants to have sex with a pretty girl, but on the face of it could care less about getting into the emotional side of a relationship, so you'd think he'd be perfectly set up to be a player. I'm not sure whether these slightly bizzarre (to me, at least) principles are the reason he doesn't get the sacktime he craves or whether he really is just failing at the player role. It's harder for me because i don't do the pursuing. | |
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Wear a sexy outfit. One of my many favs is a Double D full length velvet coat which I wear a slip dress under and thigh high suede high heeled boots. The coat has silver buttons and I wear silver jewelry to match....OR....tight jeans always go over well with concho belt, black mocassins and tight black top with polka dot black and white bra and matching thong. details are important.
Any shoe by Peter Fox.....multi colored cowboy boots with my fav vest that says on the back "cowgirls are forever"... the list is endless. Mikkimoto pearls with anything... if I need to "class up". Use Channel bath soap, no perfume. Anything to keep the hubby awake. [Edited 10/23/06 22:59pm] [Edited 10/23/06 23:01pm] | |
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Spats said: Fauxie said: That's what I don't get. Here's a guy who wants to have sex with a pretty girl, but on the face of it could care less about getting into the emotional side of a relationship, so you'd think he'd be perfectly set up to be a player. I'm not sure whether these slightly bizzarre (to me, at least) principles are the reason he doesn't get the sacktime he craves or whether he really is just failing at the player role. It's harder for me because i am backward and my mommy comes on all my dates. So that's why you won't show us the harbour front shot! | |
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Spats said: JustErin said: Ok, what a load of shit. Guys have been banging chicks and taking off without giving anything but their cock since the beginning of time. You don't want to give in a little to the so called needs of most women and yet you can't even manage to play the player role (which is the easiest role one can play). You can't seem to do anything to be able to get what it is you really want and that's what's really sad (but funny to the rest of us). That's not the fault of others, that is your fault. So keep doing what you're doing and stop asking for advice since it's never what you wanna hear. Accept your life the way it is and stfu. What player role? I don't go after women. I wait for them to come after me. That's how i got my girlfriends.You go with what has worked best. And they are not "so called" needs. You have to do that shit with most women if you want sacktime. huh? this method..... the one you're using now has worked best for you??? but i thought you hadn't seen any action for about a year? guess i missed something. | |
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Mach said: Shame Dream's thread turned into another focus on ME ME ME ( Spats ) thread
dreamfactory313 said: Ok ladies and gents. If u were going to meet someone for a date and you were really feeling him/her, how would u show it? Where would you take them on the date? What would you wear? Whats your routine when trying to impress someone? Do u even try to impress? How do you work your MOJO? Do tell!
i would be attentive, talk and listen to them, take them somewhere fun or nice, wear something that makes me look hot. i don't think i really have a routine, i guess i just be myself, if that doesn't impress them then i guess it wouldn't have lasted anyways. | |
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