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PrintableXxAxX said: IrresistibleB1tch said: anytime! enjoy! wait until you see the video!   tmi... | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: XxAxX said: wait until you see the video! I'll bring the popcorn!!! good thing you've nothing better to do  | |
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JustErin said: dreamfactory313 said: Ok ladies and gents. If u were going to meet someone for a date and you were really feeling him/her, how would u show it? Where would you take them on the date? What would you wear? Whats your routine when trying to impress someone? Do u even try to impress? How do you work your MOJO? Do tell!
 If I'm out on a date with them it's a pretty good indication that I am interested. I guess I show it more by being open and actually interested in what they have to say. I usually just do a dinner or hang out at his place/mine. Movies are boring as a first date as you are just sitting beside them not getting to know them better. I guess I try to impress, but I don't really do anything that is not me, so I suppose I just be myself and hope that they like me. I don't expect a guy to "take me out", we usually just meet somewhere. I always expect to pay my own way but if he insists on paying, I'll let him. I'll just get the tab next time. Buy me dinner. I eat alot btw. | |
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jerseykrs said: JustErin said: If I'm out on a date with them it's a pretty good indication that I am interested. I guess I show it more by being open and actually interested in what they have to say. I usually just do a dinner or hang out at his place/mine. Movies are boring as a first date as you are just sitting beside them not getting to know them better. I guess I try to impress, but I don't really do anything that is not me, so I suppose I just be myself and hope that they like me. I don't expect a guy to "take me out", we usually just meet somewhere. I always expect to pay my own way but if he insists on paying, I'll let him. I'll just get the tab next time. Buy me dinner. I eat alot btw. You don't have to tell people that. It shows.  | |
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Mach said: Spats said: You know notice that no women here have told any stories of where they a took a man they were interested out on a date to?? What a shocker!!! Cough, Cough.
Most times you come across as such an immature shallow ass Spats 
what's it to you that I spent 600 $ one night taking my man to dinner and a hockey game and that's not including the airfare and hotel costs now ... come on ... insult me again as being a romance novel kinda girl I have one untouched bank account that is maturing at over 100,000 every cent is mine ... I paid off a 30,000 $ truck ( in 3 yrs time ) with money I earned working my ass off I bought my man a 3,500$ bed 2 yrs ago and it's paid off I bought him a 800$ fly fishing rod paid for in 4 months WHAT is your friggin point Spats ?? That was a man you were already involved with. Not a man you pursued, asked out and took out on a date. That's the topic of the thread. Not what you have done for your husband or long term boyfriend. Women do not take men they are getting interested in on dates. That was my point. I still have yet to see a post from a female who took a man she was pursuing on a date and what she did to impress him on it. | |
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JustErin said: dreamfactory313 said: Ok ladies and gents. If u were going to meet someone for a date and you were really feeling him/her, how would u show it? Where would you take them on the date? What would you wear? Whats your routine when trying to impress someone? Do u even try to impress? How do you work your MOJO? Do tell!
If I'm out on a date with them it's a pretty good indication that I am interested. I guess I show it more by being open and actually interested in what they have to say. I usually just do a dinner or hang out at his place/mine. Movies are boring as a first date as you are just sitting beside them not getting to know them better. I guess I try to impress, but I don't really do anything that is not me, so I suppose I just be myself and hope that they like me. I don't expect a guy to "take me out", we usually just meet somewhere. I always expect to pay my own way but if he insists on paying, I'll let him. I'll just get the tab next time. No mention here of you doing the asking and taking him out on a date. | |
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JustErin said: jerseykrs said: Buy me dinner. I eat alot btw. You don't have to tell people that. It shows. how's the exercise program working out butterpants? | |
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Rohypnol works wonders too.  | |
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Spats said: JustErin said: If I'm out on a date with them it's a pretty good indication that I am interested. I guess I show it more by being open and actually interested in what they have to say. I usually just do a dinner or hang out at his place/mine. Movies are boring as a first date as you are just sitting beside them not getting to know them better. I guess I try to impress, but I don't really do anything that is not me, so I suppose I just be myself and hope that they like me. I don't expect a guy to "take me out", we usually just meet somewhere. I always expect to pay my own way but if he insists on paying, I'll let him. I'll just get the tab next time. No mention here of you doing the asking and taking him out on a date. Ohforgodssake  | |
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jerseykrs said: Rohypnol works wonders too.
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Spats said: JustErin said: If I'm out on a date with them it's a pretty good indication that I am interested. I guess I show it more by being open and actually interested in what they have to say. I usually just do a dinner or hang out at his place/mine. Movies are boring as a first date as you are just sitting beside them not getting to know them better. I guess I try to impress, but I don't really do anything that is not me, so I suppose I just be myself and hope that they like me. I don't expect a guy to "take me out", we usually just meet somewhere. I always expect to pay my own way but if he insists on paying, I'll let him. I'll just get the tab next time. No mention here of you doing the asking and taking him out on a date. You mean like pick him up and shit like that?? Um, no. I don't need to pick him up just like he doesn't need to pick me up. We are not children, we have our own vehicles and as I said already, we can meet up somewhere. As for setting up a date, I'll ask a guy if he wants to go have dinner or come over. I don't even think of it as asking a guy out or making a move. It's just so natural. If I want to see someone, I tell them. | |
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CarrieMpls said: jerseykrs said: Rohypnol works wonders too.
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If there is a girl that i am interested in having sacktime with I wait for them to approach me. When and if they do i wait for them to either ask for my number of if they offer their number. If that all works out fine and we are out on a date i will not go out of my way to impress them. I act like i like them but not too much cause you don';t want them to get to comfortable. That usually intrigues them. never give too much away. There has to be mystery. If things go well and we keep seeing each other and i decide to take them somewhere. It will be to a movie or to get something to eat. | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: No mention here of you doing the asking and taking him out on a date. You mean like pick him up and shit like that?? Um, no. I don't need to pick him up just like he doesn't need to pick me up. We are not children, we have our own vehicles and as I said already, we can meet up somewhere. As for setting up a date, I'll ask a guy if he wants to go have dinner or come over. I don't even think of it as asking a guy out or making a move. It's just so natural. If I want to see someone, I tell them. That's fine i was just proving my point. You don't do the pursuing and asking out though. Right? | |
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Let's see by the end of the day how many women here post about taking men they are getting interested in out on dates and what they do to get the man more interested.
And when there are barely any posts. It would make my day if everyone admitted i was right about this.  | |
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Spats said: Mach said: Most times you come across as such an immature shallow ass Spats
what's it to you that I spent 600 $ one night taking my man to dinner and a hockey game and that's not including the airfare and hotel costs now ... come on ... insult me again as being a romance novel kinda girl I have one untouched bank account that is maturing at over 100,000 every cent is mine ... I paid off a 30,000 $ truck ( in 3 yrs time ) with money I earned working my ass off I bought my man a 3,500$ bed 2 yrs ago and it's paid off I bought him a 800$ fly fishing rod paid for in 4 months WHAT is your friggin point Spats ?? That was a man you were already involved with. Not a man you pursued, asked out and took out on a date. That's the topic of the thread. Not what you have done for your husband or long term boyfriend. Women do not take men they are getting interested in on dates. That was my point. I still have yet to see a post from a female who took a man she was pursuing on a date and what she did to impress him on it. In the 1st month I was dating TR I fly us to Detroit for a hockey game date ( mentioned above ) 2 months later I flew us to Denver for a 2 week vacation in the rockies and bought him the flyrod on top of that I WAS pursuing him then
I understood 100% what the thread IS about Women DO take men out on dates while pursuing them Your point is pretty much pointless seeings you just made HUGE ASSumptions on my life yet once again Spats Women dont take YOU on dates perhaps (?) and that is why you project that onto the rest of us and the ones that do state to you that they have... you talk down your nose at and disreguard ( on here publicly ) your expierence in life is NOT the norm nor is it ours ( womens ) to take on to make you feel better about your experience you make assumptions towards people that try to talk to you .. try to share their experiences ... you disreguard them and and then wonder why you are not given the respect you feel you deserve you brush respectful women off ( here ) and then continue to bait to get a rise ...to make points that only you seem interested in and then again you cast off and assume and then bait I respect you for staying strong in your convictions no matter how twisted to the norm they seem ... your experience is yours and your view on woman yours... i have not seen in all the past months men join you in supporting your ways and statements you ask for advice then try to convince all who give it that they are all wrong and that you ways are right...yet you asked for advice then attention you gain is mostly negitive and i see how you then toss back negitivness in return Anyway ... I see your point I have watched your point over and over for months here  | |
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On the flipside, if I am always the one suggesting we do something or if he doesn't make any kind of effort, I am so out of there.
It means he's either not really interested, super lazy, wants a mom not a gf, or is really passive (  ).
I need it to be equal, give a little take a little, for me to really stay interested. | |
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On a serious note, I don't think I have, nor have I ever HAD any mojo.  | |
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Mach said: Spats said: That was a man you were already involved with. Not a man you pursued, asked out and took out on a date. That's the topic of the thread. Not what you have done for your husband or long term boyfriend. Women do not take men they are getting interested in on dates. That was my point. I still have yet to see a post from a female who took a man she was pursuing on a date and what she did to impress him on it. In the 1st month I was dating TR I fly us to Detroit for a hockey game date ( mentioned above ) 2 months later I flew us to Denver for a 2 week vacation in the rockies and bought him the flyrod on top of that I WAS pursuing him then
I understood 100% what the thread IS about Women DO take men out on dates while pursuing them Your point is pretty much pointless seeings you just made HUGE ASSumptions on my life yet once again Spats Women dont take YOU on dates perhaps (?) and that is why you project that onto the rest of us and the ones that do state to you that they have... you talk down your nose at and disreguard ( on here publicly ) your expierence in life is NOT the norm nor is it ours ( womens ) to take on to make you feel better about your experience you make assumptions towards people that try to talk to you .. try to share their experiences ... you disreguard them and and then wonder why you are not given the respect you feel you deserve you brush respectful women off ( here ) and then continue to bait to get a rise ...to make points that only you seem interested in and then again you cast off and assume and then bait I respect you for staying strong in your convictions no matter how twisted to the norm they seem ... your experience is yours and your view on woman yours... i have not seen in all the past months men join you in supporting your ways and statements you ask for advice then try to convince all who give it that they are all wrong and that you ways are right...yet you asked for advice then attention you gain is mostly negitive and i see how you then toss back negitivness in return Anyway ... I see your point I have watched your point over and over for months here So on your first date with your man you did the asking and taking out? | |
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jerseykrs said: On a serious note, I don't think I have, nor have I ever HAD any mojo.
there was mojo in the soap
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Spats said: JustErin said: You mean like pick him up and shit like that?? Um, no. I don't need to pick him up just like he doesn't need to pick me up. We are not children, we have our own vehicles and as I said already, we can meet up somewhere. As for setting up a date, I'll ask a guy if he wants to go have dinner or come over. I don't even think of it as asking a guy out or making a move. It's just so natural. If I want to see someone, I tell them. That's fine i was just proving my point. You don't do the pursuing and asking out though. Right? Can you not read? Or do you actually have a learning disability? If you do, sorry that I made fun of you. Ok, I'll bold it for you. I'll ask a guy if he wants to go have dinner or come over. I don't even think of it as asking a guy out or making a move. It's just so natural. If I want to see someone, I tell them. | |
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Mach said: jerseykrs said: On a serious note, I don't think I have, nor have I ever HAD any mojo.
there was mojo in the soap
you know what kind of mojo I meant!! | |
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JustErin said: Can you not read? Or do you actually have a learning disability? If you do, sorry that I made fun of you. 
You're SO mean!! | |
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Spats said: Mach said: In the 1st month I was dating TR I fly us to Detroit for a hockey game date ( mentioned above ) 2 months later I flew us to Denver for a 2 week vacation in the rockies and bought him the flyrod on top of that I WAS pursuing him then
I understood 100% what the thread IS about Women DO take men out on dates while pursuing them Your point is pretty much pointless seeings you just made HUGE ASSumptions on my life yet once again Spats Women dont take YOU on dates perhaps (?) and that is why you project that onto the rest of us and the ones that do state to you that they have... you talk down your nose at and disreguard ( on here publicly ) your expierence in life is NOT the norm nor is it ours ( womens ) to take on to make you feel better about your experience you make assumptions towards people that try to talk to you .. try to share their experiences ... you disreguard them and and then wonder why you are not given the respect you feel you deserve you brush respectful women off ( here ) and then continue to bait to get a rise ...to make points that only you seem interested in and then again you cast off and assume and then bait I respect you for staying strong in your convictions no matter how twisted to the norm they seem ... your experience is yours and your view on woman yours... i have not seen in all the past months men join you in supporting your ways and statements you ask for advice then try to convince all who give it that they are all wrong and that you ways are right...yet you asked for advice then attention you gain is mostly negitive and i see how you then toss back negitivness in return Anyway ... I see your point I have watched your point over and over for months here So on your first date with your man you did the asking and taking out? Our 1st Date was to the drag races ... I invited him and I paid our way in He drove and paid for dinner I asked him on the second date to a sea food meal I paid ...he drove He asked for the 3rd date he paid i drove and from then on out it's been pretty much equal on and off for 20 yrs I just asked him on a date this wekend ...and YES my treat  | |
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Spats said: Mach said: Most times you come across as such an immature shallow ass Spats
what's it to you that I spent 600 $ one night taking my man to dinner and a hockey game and that's not including the airfare and hotel costs now ... come on ... insult me again as being a romance novel kinda girl I have one untouched bank account that is maturing at over 100,000 every cent is mine ... I paid off a 30,000 $ truck ( in 3 yrs time ) with money I earned working my ass off I bought my man a 3,500$ bed 2 yrs ago and it's paid off I bought him a 800$ fly fishing rod paid for in 4 months WHAT is your friggin point Spats ?? That was a man you were already involved with. Not a man you pursued, asked out and took out on a date. That's the topic of the thread. Not what you have done for your husband or long term boyfriend. Women do not take men they are getting interested in on dates. That was my point. I still have yet to see a post from a female who took a man she was pursuing on a date and what she did to impress him on it. Happened to me loads of times. | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: That was a man you were already involved with. Not a man you pursued, asked out and took out on a date. That's the topic of the thread. Not what you have done for your husband or long term boyfriend. Women do not take men they are getting interested in on dates. That was my point. I still have yet to see a post from a female who took a man she was pursuing on a date and what she did to impress him on it. Happened to me loads of times. I don't buy it for a second. You have been asked on first dates by women loads of times??? No way. You just want to go against what i say. | |
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Mach said: Spats said: So on your first date with your man you did the asking and taking out? Our 1st Date was to the drag races ... I invited him and I paid our way in He drove and paid for dinner I asked him on the second date to a sea food meal I paid ...he drove He asked for the 3rd date he paid i drove and from then on out it's been pretty much equal on and off for 20 yrs I just asked him on a date this wekend ...and YES my treat Okay that's 2 women that have claimed to have done it. | |
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Spats said: 7in9 said: Happened to me loads of times. I don't buy it for a second. You have been asked on first dates by women loads of times??? No way. You just want to go against what i say. I don't actually care what you believe friend | |
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7in9 said: Spats said: I don't buy it for a second. You have been asked on first dates by women loads of times??? No way. You just want to go against what i say. I don't actually care what you believe friend You know i am right. | |
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