I was going to say thats love, but I think theres more to it that 'just' love. Maybe the fear of falling in love again, family issues maybe dont know?

oldpurple said:

In my nan's case it was the fact that the longer she left it, the more she put my grandpa up on a pedestal and nobody could possibly live up to him. I reckon I would feel the same about the master

Timely topic in my life....no...not my wife....but a close friend of ours.

On Saturday afternoon, she was home, asleep (from some medications), and her home caught fire. She and their dog both died. She was 41.... Today is her funeral..

She used to tease her husband about mourning him from the Bahama's.....

pardonme4livin said:

that's terrible

ZombieKitten said:

pardonme4livin said:

So sorry to hear this.

onenitealone said:

Thank you...

pardonme4livin said:

sorry to hear that

ZombieKitten said:

I think this is what my mums done. No one is greater than the one that has passed away

althom said:

I said someone who could make her happy.

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Fauxie said:

althom said:

This is the part where I'd hug any other orger.

Fauxie said:

althom said:

Fauxie said:

Such sexy cheeks when you puke.

At this point in my life/relationship... I would be sad and hurt. But, I would be able to move on. If I were to die suddenly, I would wish he would move on, as well, though, not too quickly. That's just my ego.

A past relationship... I think I would have been sort of hurt had he moved on so quickly and smoothly, but I would wish that he move on, but with one that is right for him (he can't pick them right yet). And, I wouldn't have been able to either, had he died, because there was a true connection there. I don't seem to make the best choices either.

Thankfully, the latter and I are still alive, though not making the best choices, but along for the ride together, while apart, we're still there for one another and I will be truly devastated when he passes. It will be one of the worst kinds of hurt.

I just read this and I said choices a lot. Sorry. Inhebriated... and done preparing for a party of twelve screaming 8-10 year olds tomorrow.

Mazurack said:

Screaming children. *sigh*

I still haven't gotten my digi cam fixed. I have sent it off to HP though.

CortestheKiller said:

HEY! Next month we are working overtime (hopefully) so that we are able to take off our three weeks in December! Hopefully my bosses request for the overtime will take effect... if so, I don't need a stinkin' picture because I will be driving my ass there to see your place in person!

CortestheKiller said:

Ugh, I have to send my Olympus camera off soon too. I've been using the internal memory (3 pics at highest quality) for months now.

It just won't read any cards. Need to get it done before we, fingers crossed, go to the UK in just over month. Do you think I have time?

Mazurack said:

OMG! I hope so! I HOPE SO! I would love to have you here! God Feather...

I love you. And I'm not even inhebriated.

CortestheKiller said:

I hope so, too. We just got in tons of audits and we have to have them done before December. So, I am pretty sure the overtime will be approved because my boss wants us to be able to take up to the three weeks leave if we choose. I'm probably only going to shoot for a week off, but that would give me plenty of time to drive and visit. Or fly. I dunno. Whichever works out best. Sucks, though, the kids want to meet you, too. Would be excellent if I could make it to the wedding!

Mazurack said:

I still don't know who I'm going to have sign my "this shit happened" papers!

We will have air mattresses for our spare room! And I want to meet the children who donned foil for me.

CortestheKiller said:

I will sleep on the floor. 'Tis better for me!

Bob? Have Bob sign them? Otherwise, I would be very proud to sign them, if I can come, and if you don't have anyone else to sign. You know, your father can sign, too. Anyone can.



No, baby-makin' though. Just the acts of. No actual. At all. I mean it. Not yet. Wait. Please. Thank you.

Mazurack said:

Phalex says he's gonna sneak one in after I graduate college.

Bob and I don't talk much any more. I mean, I was gonna hve her sign it, but ever since I moved she just sorta stopped calling me and I hate having to be the one to call all the time and keep contact. Is that petty? Anyway, I won't want some old ass who can't even call her friend even though she has a much more dull and unbusy life than I do (which is saying a LOT) signing my marriage documents!

CortestheKiller said:

I will be talking to him prior to your just graduating. Unless, of course, it takes you years.

That's too bad. I still have that picture(s) of the two of you. Maybe by the time the wedding rolls around she will snap out of it and call as she used to. If not... well, Alex have two people? Does it take two to sign there?

Mazurack said:

Two, yes!