purplerein said:

uh, I believe "twat" is a noun and "perky" is an adjective

purplerein said:

i should have clarified that if he ends up with a wonderful, caring, smart and compassionate woman, i'll move on to my next incarnation in utter peace.

oh, and i'm totally serious about becoming a nun. i'm ready to shave my head NOW!!!

NDRU said:

i didn't even notice the grammar infraction!

PR:

IrresistibleB1tch said:

in the instance cited, he's right..twat was the noun. If you had said "she is a twat", i would have been correct. my bad.

when my Mum passed away my Stepdad found love again I still don't believe it's the same as he had with Mum (although I would never ever say that in front of his wife - plus I adore her) my point is that he has found happiness again and I just know my Mum had a hand in that somehow...

purplerein said:

riiiiight...

ok, MANDATORY grammar lessons from IB... NOW!

Natisse said:

Well, that's a good way to look at it. I'd hate to be the woman after the dead wife. I'd constantly be wondering if I was making a dude as happy as his dead wife did or if it just wasn't the same but I was good to ward off loneliness. And that ain't the kind of thing I'd be insensitive enough to ask.

CortestheKiller said:

there were BIG issues not only with the memory of Mum (he hadn't changed a thing in the house at that stage, so you can imagine how weird that would have been for her) and also with me, the daughter, who was living with them at the time... Merielle and I had big issues for a while but we talked through them and grew to love each other. now she's like my second Mum I adore her

Natisse said:

My dad got a live-in girlfriend who he eventually married this year after my mom died. I was I guess 14 when she moved in, and they married this year. I never liked her. The second she moved in, she started changing everything to her own way. It was almost like she could sense we had a way of doing things which was instated by another woman and she had to get rid of every single bit of it. To which I would go along behind her and change it back.

Now that I don't live there, it doesn't get to me so much. I don't mind her coming in my house or whatever when my dad visits. I guess cos it's not in my face all the time any more it just doesn't really bother me. I'm glad my dad found someone to make him not be lonely, but I always have felt like it's in part shitting on the memory of my mom.

CortestheKiller said:

omg I SO feel you with that... that was part of my problem, personally. she changed EVERYTHING even the paint. at first, it did feel like she was shitting on Mum, yeah, but then I tried to put myself in her shoes for a moment and I started to realise how hard it must have been for her to walk in Mum's shoes so to speak. it was a HUGE learning curve for all of us...

big for you... and thank you for the add

Natisse said:

I guess someone has to lose. Still, I drew the line when she started moving MY things around while I was gone for a couple of months one summer working...

I just like to think Phalex is a good compliment to me and how I am. Except when I'm being utterly neurotic and asking the same questions over and over and over and over, we get along so perfectly. I don't want to have to start from scratch.

If he dies, I'll probably just buy a Real Doll.

CortestheKiller said:

IrresistibleB1tch said:

NDRU said:

be my guest.

purplerein said:

boy, i love an eager student!!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

"a good beating's really where it's at
beat me! beat me! oh e oh oh oh!"

NDRU said:

IrresistibleB1tch said:

purplerein said:

wow - i had not pegged you as adventurous... sweet!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

if you ask nicely.

purplerein said:

ZombieKitten said:

That banter between Zombie and Cortes is hilarious.




I think it's a tough one. For myself, it's hard to even think about it, so I have no idea how I would feel should I lose her. I couldn't see myself going into a new relationship for a long time though. As for her, I'd want her to be happy, so eventually I'd like her to find someone who could make her happy.

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purplerein said:

No.

Fauxie said:

Such a good man, that Fauxie

Fauxie said:

Is she free this Saturday night?

I can't even bear the thought.

Maybe after the kids were grown.

CortestheKiller said:

indeed!

life without my mrs, couldn't imagine it. I think I would pop my clogs first, and if that happens I hope that she would find someone that loves and cares for her and is willing bring up another mans children without resentment.


When my fatherdied I thought that my mother would find another person, well my father died in 1988 and she is still on her own. its a shame as she has lots to give.

oldpurple said:

my grandma was widowed in her 40s and she never met anyone else. She is 92 now. That is a hell of a long time to live alone