I was searching on myspace looking for people from my hometown. I came across a pic of a guy with his wife. I recognized his wife,she used to be my best friend!
We were friends from 4th grade to junior year in highschool. We were like sisters.

We stopped talking because she became close with some girl who I didnt get along with. Her friend talked about me,but she chose her over me.
We said hi when we saw each other in the hallway,nothing major. On graduation night we walked right by each other without sayin a word. So I figured she hated me

4 years ago,I found out she was getting married. I knew her fiance worked at walmart so I called him up (bold and a lil stalkerish,I know) I asked for her address. He told me she still had our photo in her room.
I wrote her a letter telling her I was happy for her and I sent my business card with my home number. She sent me an invitation to her wedding. I didn't go. I wasn't sure if I was really wanted there.
I didnt hear anything else from her.

So here I am looking at her & her husbands myspace. Should I contact her?
A tiny part of me wants to say hello,but then again is it really worth it?
What if she's still tight with that tacky friend of hers?
And I really dont want to contact her husband again...just to say hello to her.

What would u do?

ThreadCula said:

contact her via myspace. you have nothing to lose. Say that Imago hijacked your myspace account if it doesn't work out.

Contact her.

purplerein said:

I agree! Go for it...at least you'll have no regrets.

stalker alert










j/k I'm sure it'll be cool.

Girl, she still has the pic of you. I say she's ditched that tacky friend and would've been very happy if you'd come to her wedding. Make it up now, get in touch.

although she may have been hurt that you didn't go to the wedding

purplerein said:

AndGodCreatedMe said:

applekisses said:

I'm nervous!

I have a feeling I'll be sad if I get a horrible response or no response at all

But u're right apple,I dont like having regrets.
I see it as a sign...I still think about her and here she is all of a sudden.

ThreadBare said:

U're skating on thin ice with me pal!

purplerein said:

I didnt think of that.

I didnt think she would care

ThreadCula said:

I agree! I know you'll be sad if she doesn't respond. But, at least you'll know...AND...you'll have peace of soul knowing you reached out to her

did you contact her yet?

purplerein said:

lol no

I was thinking,maybe I'll do it on...Saturday?

ThreadCula said:

chicken! do it now!

ThreadCula said:

I cant do it..so I wont

Where's Mach

Contact her.

I bet she would love to hear from you again and then you can talk about why you didn't end up going to her wedding.

JustErin said:

Yeah....

do it now..to wait is only going to prolong your angst.

The worst that could happen would be that she'd blow you off.

Clear the air. It will be good for you. Who knows? Maybe your best years of friendship lie ahead.

Yay, reconciliation!

Ok!!

Here I go....

ThreadCula said:

well?

Alright I did it...

It's done...

we shall see

ThreadCula said:

YAY! I'm proud of you, girl!

ThreadCula said:

Im proud of you too. Ive been in a similar situation. Its a wonderful feeling to reach out to those that you love.

Shoo! Im glad I did it. I feel so light and free Thank you so much you guys.

I can ALWAYS count on you. I really value your opinions

and u too ThreadBare

hugs to all

I'll let u guys know if I get a response

ThreadCula said:

i for one am very proud of you.

ThreadCula said:

See...let it go now...