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We all should know that diversity makes for a rich tapestry, and we must understand that all the threads of the tapestry are equal in value no matter what their color. Maya Angelou | |
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FunkMistress said: Giovanni777 said: Wow. Does everything U write have 2 always be so dead-on? U must have some water in your chart besides that Aries Sun.  I actually have four planets in Aries; I'm one big hard-headed bonfire. I have had to work very hard to attain the emotional intelligence I now have.
But you always make me feel good! Well, my Venus is in Aries, and she likes it there. ...and the feeling is mutual, with or without the catsuit.  "He's a musician's musician..." |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: XxAxX said: hey! all i got was a case of Cheetohs  I had a case of cheetohs once and it was SO embarrassing. I told my husband I got it from a toilet seat But I don't think he believed me. sweetie, cheetohs is a kind of FOOD.  [Edited 10/18/06 13:40pm] | |
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XxAxX said: IrresistibleB1tch said: I had a case of cheetohs once and it was SO embarrassing. I told my husband I got it from a toilet seat But I don't think he believed me. sweetie, cheetohs is a kind of aphrodisiac. i just had some, and i'm orgnoting Althom 
[Edited 10/18/06 13:40pm] (you knew better than to leave that typo there, didn't you! )
oh, and good luck with Althom!  | |
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I've lost my best friend in the past through no fault of my own (that I could detect), and that was incredibly frustrating as we had so many great mutual times together. We just clicked in each other's company - we discovered Prince and Kate Bush together, dammit.. But that didn't matter in the end apparently.
When secondary school ended, I basically never saw him again despite the odd promise when I'd see him on the bus of, "Yeah, I'll call you", after we'd spent ten minutes in tears of laughter, reminiscing over old times. So.. I realised the problem was his, not mine. Either he was lazy, as people can be, or just didn't value friendship. Or didn't value me. 
Strong friendship is wonderful, and I know that I would make a good friend to anyone, yet they are hard to come by for me. It's just fate..I met the wrong people in the long run and cut ties (or had them cut for me). There's also an element of relationships being all-encompassing, and of course as you get older work gets in the way etc. and you get wrapped up in your own little world. There are plenty of pensioners out there who I'm sure wish they'd kept in touch with people. Some folk are so blase about friendship when they are younger, and regret their decisions in time. But looking at the bigger picture, in my opinion, for those of us who treat people well and get little back - it's their loss for not valuing loyalty. I tell myself that I'm holding the moral high ground, even if I'm the only one standing there.  "I'm much too hot to be cool" | |
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People always talk about you behind your back, that's the bad thing. People cannot stop talking yang. lol All you others say Hell Yea!!  | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: XxAxX said: sweetie, cheetohs is a kind of aphrodisiac. i just had some, and i'm orgnoting Althom
[Edited 10/18/06 13:40pm] (you knew better than to leave that typo there, didn't you! )
oh, and you'd better not touch Althom, he's mine! i did figure you'd call me on the typo but jeez! i had NO idea you and althom were a unit. | |
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XxAxX said: IrresistibleB1tch said: (you knew better than to leave that typo there, didn't you! )
oh, and you'd better not touch Althom, he's mine! i did figure you'd call me on the typo but jeez! i had NO idea althom had such a big unit.   | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: XxAxX said: i did figure you'd call me on the typo but jeez! i had NO idea althom had such a big unit. Seeing as how I paid for 'the pump' it better stand tall  sharing too much  | |
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Pochacco said: Theres nothing worse is there , really liking someone either romantically or just friendship wise and them not feeling the same way .
Nat you are an incredibubbly special lady , its their loss hun that stings worst of all, don't it? | |
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Scotsman1999 said: I've lost my best friend in the past through no fault of my own (that I could detect), and that was incredibly frustrating as we had so many great mutual times together. We just clicked in each other's company - we discovered Prince and Kate Bush together, dammit.. But that didn't matter in the end apparently.
When secondary school ended, I basically never saw him again despite the odd promise when I'd see him on the bus of, "Yeah, I'll call you", after we'd spent ten minutes in tears of laughter, reminiscing over old times. So.. I realised the problem was his, not mine. Either he was lazy, as people can be, or just didn't value friendship. Or didn't value me.
Strong friendship is wonderful, and I know that I would make a good friend to anyone, yet they are hard to come by for me. It's just fate..I met the wrong people in the long run and cut ties (or had them cut for me). There's also an element of relationships being all-encompassing, and of course as you get older work gets in the way etc. and you get wrapped up in your own little world. There are plenty of pensioners out there who I'm sure wish they'd kept in touch with people. Some folk are so blase about friendship when they are younger, and regret their decisions in time. But looking at the bigger picture, in my opinion, for those of us who treat people well and get little back - it's their loss for not valuing loyalty. I tell myself that I'm holding the moral high ground, even if I'm the only one standing there. I've had friends like that too, that you can have SUCH a good time with, and then its confusing when they seem to ignore you. I still don't really understand it, but you're right it's their loss  | |
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WillyWonka said: Sadly, there is no quick fix to avoid or alleviate the hurt which comes of feeling dismissed, or having one's friendship unreciprocated.
The best you can do is realize that the other person's rebuff, or lack of response is not a reflection of your own worth as a person, or as a potential friend to others. Accept that it's quite alright to care about those whom don't respond in kind, but make concerted efforts to not expend emotional energies towards trying to 'make them' return your feelings. Doing so only bleeds one dry. And don't let the occasional hurts harden you, or dissuade you from continuing to care. There are many, many people out there in this wide world who would welcome and value your friendship like the gold that it is. Seek out those people, invest your love into them, and what you shall receive in return will help to heal the cuts caused by those who didn't respond.  
oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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