A lot of relationships die coz the spark is allowed to die. Just coz you romanced a woman with flowers, phone calls, internet chat, dates, etc. at the very beginning, and now you got her. So why stop doing those special things that you romanced her with to get her?

I think it should always be an ongoing part of a relationship. But once the guy gets the girl, it stops.

How many of you keep the romance alive in your relationship with your special woman? And what do you do?

Its kinda like blow jobs...Slowly fade away with time.

DarkKnight1 said:

ZeroSoul said:

luv4u said:

Long walks on the beach. Sounds cliche' but it works.

I don't do romantic things solely to get a woman to fall in love with me...romance without sincerity is empty compliments. I'm romantic because expressing how much I love someone is second nature to me.

Wonder what Spats has to comment
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Women do the same kind of thing.

They pretend to be interested in things that they're really not interested in, they pretend to be ok with their guy doing his own thing, etc...but once they get the guy, their true colours come out.

My point is, this kind of 'do anything to get the person you want' goes both ways.

I think the only way to keep the romance going is to always be honest and be who you really are from day one. That way your mate is falling for the real you.

But I'm not a guy so I guess I shouldn't have responded to this thread.

Dewrede said:

Oh gawd no!!!!

sorry

Dewrede said:

I think she asked for the men of the Org...

JustErin said:

Preaching the TRUTH.

luv4u said:

not that i claim to understand icky unnatural hetrosexual relationships. but shouldn't the woman work just as hard to keep the romance alive? shouldn't it be a two way street?

Dewrede said:

Like we all already don't know what he will say

ehuffnsd said:

exactly

Byron said:

Well he is a man , he just has different views than most here
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ZombieKitten said:

True

Dewrede said:

He's a male...not a man...lol

luv4u said:

The guy should not be doing all of that in the beginning in the first place!!!!! Make the woman get off of her ass and actually contribute something. Get the woman to take a risk for once in her life instead of sitting back and letting the man sweat and pursue while she acts like a Princess. Maybe if the woman actually got agressive and did something the relationship would last longer.

my husband is the biggest princess there is (he is a Leo)

ZombieKitten said:

Leos males are born romantics...

Byron said:

well, I wouldn't go that far to call Princess Leo a romantic

Byron said:

Excuse Me??

Byron said:

A real man does not do the wimpy crap you do.

ZombieKitten said:

Ok, another Aussie slang translation needed, then...lol ...What's a "princess"??

Spats said:

You have no idea what it is I do...

Byron said:

he is just a princess!

Byron said:

Yeah i do. You have said you into the romantic sissy stuff. Do you put flowers on pillows too?