hey guys have any of you been in a relationship or started dating someone new and you felt like you were being smothered??? Well how did you deal with it? If you told the person you honest feelings about it, did they get offened? and if so what did you end up doing?

was bored, and just thought of this as a great topic

missfee said:

Oh God, yes. I told them that I needed some space...they got all pissy so I ended it.

It was in H.S
I was dating my then boyfriend. We had to be like 15. And after about 3 months we got really really close. We saw each other in school EVERYDAY. Then he took me home from school EVERYDAY. Then he called me EVERYNIGHT. Yeah its cute and sweet but...GEEZ!
So I tell him and he's like ok im sorry i'll change.
That continues for the next 2 1/2 years lol...until I finally broke up with him

That was my high school sweety but my goodness..it was too much at 15 yrs old

JustErin said:

What Erin said.

Ugh Gawd yes! I am like stellar at picking smother'er's.

I dunno, what to tell ya. If you figure it out, let me know.

Yuck,

If someone needs their space, let them have it

yes, it ended, not right away but it did end...

yup, in high school. in a typically horribly immature way, i cheated on him. i suck.