7in9 said:

I have made the first move in the past. I have done it plenty of times. I decided to change of my strategy. And i got my girlfriends that way. Just going with what worked.

Spats said:

Spats if she wanted you...she would have jumped you. You have said she is not like the others, she is strong minded and not like romatic women....that means she is just want you want.

Face the facts

Either she does not wanna rip your clothes off and have boring sex


or


You can't pick women.....

7in9 said:

I guess i was wrong about her. I have always said finding cool women is hard.

7in9 said:

BOOYAKASHA!!!!! aight?

Spats said:

Time to move on.

JustErin said:

You are wrong. I am just going with what has worked. It's the smart thing to do.

Spats said:

It's not working now, so why are you settling by not moving on from this chick?

JustErin said:

To who? The cool women are the minority. For every 100 sissy women you will find 1 cool woman.

Spats said:

How long is it again since you had sex?

It works huh?

Hmmmmm

luv4u said:

Damn!
I always miss it by this much.

Spats said:

Explain your definition of a cool women as oppossed to a sissy chick.

NDRU said:

I don't know, I think he is looking for someone very particular. She will be one in a billion, but I know she is out there he just has to be patient.

7in9 said:

Well i don't see how approaching every hot girl i see will turn things around. it will just serve me up to rejection. The odds are that most will reject you. This way i know for sure who is interested in me and who isn't. And i don't get turned down to find out. Besides, i have not done the approaching in quite awhile. I think i would be a little out of practise.

DarkKnight1 said:

Sissy chicks are the women who believe the guy should pursue the girl. Lead the way, etc, etc. Romance, flowers, need lots of attention etc, etc. They are old fashioned.

Cool women don't find that shit important. They don't believe in gender roles. if they want a guy they go after them. They don't need the guy to open all up about himself and talk about his deep feelings, yadda, yadda. They aren't needy and have all of these huge expectations of you and they don't expect you to do anything you don't want to do. Stuff like that.

NDRU said:

I don't think cute and feminine equals old fashioned and passive.

My "love life" is a mess right now. I don't know what the answer is. Why can't things be easy and why can't i hook up with a pretty, cool, babe. The relationship with the babe was going the way i wanted for awhile and then she turned into a typical female.
[Edited 10/17/06 22:53pm]

Spats said:

Then don't whinge like a bitch when you don't get any then! Look friend hot women as you call them are out there.....many of them want "sacktime" just as much as you. However the way you do it is like walking in to a candy store and just standing there looking, wishing, wanting.....waiting for the store owner to come undo a jar without a word and pop your favourite sweet in your mouth, and then say " oh dont worry you dont have to pay"
Relationships are 2 way. What you need is a hot hooker,

Can you slip me her number

7in9 said:

Yeah, but aren't they walking into the candy store and doing the same thing?

I know relationships are two way. Why does the other way usually have to be the opposite way.

Spats said:

Why are you so dead-set against it? Why does showing ANY kind of affection instantly amount to "the opposite way" ?????

Dude..seriously...you are destined to never have any kind of meaningful relationship if you do not lighten up a bit. Unless you are actually wanting nothing but one night stands and short-term relationships, you need to give a little. I am not saying you gotta become mr-sensitive-let's-go-watch-chick-flicks-and-talk-about-our-feelings-while-I-hand-feed-you-peeled-grapes, but you really do need to let the woman know that you give a damn. In a way that she will see it, not in a "I'm gonna let her make all the moves and do all the work" kind of way.

Nikster said:

well said love

Spats said:

Equality means you both give and you both have needs taken care of....you want to give nothing and get what you want.

And in reality just look at your track record, you spout on about how you have had all these hot women but the proof is here. You have been seeing this girl for ages and nothing,nadda,zip.

Face it friend you just are not as hot,desirable,wanted and needed by her as she is by you.

That makes you look like the needy one, the one who has defined roles they want fulfilled, the one who wants the other to do all the work.....it seems to me that you have just swapped roles. Your beef is not flowers or holding hands or lovey stuff pursee, or so you say, you say its with the defined needs and roles that are being played out. Well friend its YOU that has these not her.

Good luck in your hunt...maybe there is a female version of you out there and you can hook up and have no faces, no noise, no oral sacktime and be happy without fucking anyone else up.

Good luck with that.

What the fuck is a femake edit!
[Edited 10/18/06 0:21am]

Happy Birthday, Spats

Ocean said:

Thanks

Hopefully it'll get thru

Spats said:

You're a victim of yourself.

Spats said:

because you are not pretty and cool. set your sights lower and you won't be disappointed.

Spats said:

And have you ever noticed that an angry man
Can only get so far
Until he reconciles the way he thinks things ought to be
With the way things are?

You're a shallow game-player who wants sympathy when his games backfire. Seems to me you're not gonna be findin' a lot of that 'round here. You still haven't figured out that two wrongs don't make a right.
[Edited 10/18/06 9:02am]

Nikster said:

I like making out and sacktime. That's affection. But i can't into the hand holding (especially in public) or the cuddling nonsense. I think i do give a little. I took the babe out for dinner, to the movies, harbourfront, etc,.

What do you mean let them know i give a damn?

heartbeatocean said:

Thanks. I Appreciate that.

Ace said:

I only counteract game playing because game playing is apart of the whole dating scene with women. And i am not an angry person.