emm said:

He hasn't paid my bill...I'm trying a new tact.

tell me why my thread made you feel the need to point out my not asking him how he felt.

7in9 said:

Why?

Spats said:

You spout on about equality and yet you LIKE when she settles like you wouldn't. You don't want equality you want it your way.....then you melt when she cares or is romantic, doing it for no reason other than she is thoughtful.

Makes you a sissy in my book

7in9 said:

Amen.

7in9 said:

What do you mean? Who is settling??? And i sure as hell don't melt over anything. I was not getting giggly like a bunch of silly ass women. Just saying it was nice considering we haven't been getting along. I wouldn't have done it.

I don't think you know what a sissy is.

Spats said:

By your rules she is settling, she is reaching out doing stuff you wouldn't.You melted enough to post it here friend. And exactly...you wouldnt have done it....equality....pah.

You are a sissy boy and you know it.

7in9 said:

I don't consider calling someone to wish them a happy birthday settling. That does not make sense.

I am nothing like a sissy boy. Nothing sissy about me. I don't have a romantic wishy washy bone in my body.

English dictionary definition


sissy

noun {C} (ALSO cissy) INFORMAL DISAPPROVING


a boy who other boys dislike and laugh at because they think he is weak or interested in activities girls usually like, or a person who is weak and cowardly:


Fits pretty well

7in9 said:

Most of my friends are guys!!! And i am not weak or cowardly. And what female activities do i like???

Spats said:

Most of your friends are guys???? Wow that is really surprising and read the bold numbnuts....2 outta 3 is pretty conclusive

Spats said:

By your own admission:

Not making the first move.

Booyakasha!

JustErin said:

Its a full 3 outta 3 nice one Erin

Spats said:

oh to get inside your head.

JustErin said:

What the hell does Booyakasha mean??

I don't make the first move not because i am afraid of anything.

7in9 said:

No is isn't. I am not weak and cowardly and i have lots of guy friends. None of that makes me a sissy boy.

Spats said:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Booyakasha

I'm here to help.....

abierman said:

even better:

http://www.urbandictionar...Booyakasha

Spats said:

a breakthrough!

Spats said:

Hmmm well the dictionary says different friend

Spats said:

You, yourself have said that you do not make the first move because you do not want to be rejected. Someone that wasn't afraid to be rejected would take the chance and just deal with it if it happened.

JustErin said:

It's not being afraid. I just don't give women the chance to do it.

7in9 said:

it does not. Everything you said is the opposite of me.

Spats said:

Seriously Spats you really need a spine

7in9 said:

It's not being afraid. I like being the one in position to say yes or no instead of the woman 99% of the time.

hey Spats, maybe the babe just thought you're ugly.....ever thought of that?? I mean, if you're hot and she was horny, she would have hit the sack with you like 8 months ago.....and then just step over the fact that you're a sissy boy.....but apparently she thought you're not hot enough.....ever thought of that?
[Edited 10/17/06 13:07pm]

Spats said:

That is fear friend....you may not admit it but that is fear plain and simple, until you admit it you will never overcome it. getting through fear is only possible if you face it. Like a man. Stand and face.

The more i see....the more i see sissy.

abierman said:

The way she kissed me says different. Women have that deep seated mind set that the guy is supposed to make the move for sacktime. Women here have admitted having it and women in general have it.

Nothing sissy about me.

Spats said:

that's just weird.

I wouldn't call you a sissy because I don't know you.

But you seem to want things both ways. You want women to be cute & feminine, filling their stereotypical sexual roles, but you don't want to fill the male role of making the first move or put up with any "bs" (ie emotional stuff). You want everything served to you without paying a cost.

You're not alone (we'd all like to get our way), but I don't think your wishes are realistic.
[Edited 10/17/06 13:12pm]

Spats said:

You don't give them a chance to do it because you don't want it to happen. That's simply it. There is no reason to not allow them to reject you other than you being afraid of it and/or not being able to deal with it.

It's convienient for you to say it's in the name of equality, and that would make some sense if in fact you were engaging in these activites equally, but you are not, so everything you say about equality makes zero sense.

It's an excuse to be a coward.

The spats character is so fun.

Spatz for prez 2007!