Spats said: TMPletz said: If you consider it all to be nonsense, then just move on. She's not going to change you, and you're not going to change her. She's going to pick up on your feelings that it's all BS. You're just prolonging the inevitable. I don't know what to do. talk to me. why did you hate your mothers boyfriends. | |
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purplerein said: talk to me. why did you hate your mothers boyfriends. "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
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Spats said: TMPletz said: If you consider it all to be nonsense, then just move on. She's not going to change you, and you're not going to change her. She's going to pick up on your feelings that it's all BS. You're just prolonging the inevitable. I don't know what to do. See, i have a few choices. 1. Give it another try with the babe. Get into the whole intimacy nonsense and see what happens. 2. Just pretend i am enjoying it for awhile and see if it gets me some sacktime. 3. Start all over at the clubs every weekend and hope some hot looking women approach me. Another thing, wouldn't it really be pathetic if after all of this , i finally do get sacktime with her and she ends up being lousy in bed. That would be really bad. | |
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Spats said: Spats said: I don't know what to do. See, i have a few choices. 1. Give it another try with the babe. Get into the whole intimacy nonsense and see what happens. 2. Just pretend i am enjoying it for awhile and see if it gets me some sacktime. 3. Start all over at the clubs every weekend and hope some hot looking women approach me. Another thing, wouldn't it really be pathetic if after all of this , i finally do get sacktime with her and she ends up being lousy in bed. That would be really bad. no, that would be poetic justice. | |
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Mach said: ThreadBare said: Spats, man, have you recognized the horrific dualism to your threads:
1) "Help me and give me advice with my love life because I don't know what I'm doing." 2) "But don't give me advice I disagree with, because I know best." this is true ... most all of us notice it it is also why there is no need to get into the drama of his inner workings and be all upset about his statements for often times in days he turns and contradicts himself he is in a deep learning process and his threads express that and all the confusion that he is experiencing after all ... he is just human like the rest of us ... he just attempts attention in a non traditional way ... the constant drama and defending his "ways" keeps him comfortably stuck in a place he really is trying to grow out of so by flamming him and bashing his views people are in no way helping him to grow and see things differently ... love and accept his opinions while standing in your own truth and perhaps when he is done fighting to stand his ground he may take different steps A reality check is always good. I don't believe in hostile personal attacks, tho. [Edited 10/16/06 13:51pm] | |
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purplerein said: Spats said: I told her that i am not good at that stuff and don't like getting into deep conversations and "Pursuing" and making the moves first. I asked her if we could try again if I improved on those things. She didn't say yes but she didn't say no. So i guess it's up to me to decide if she is worth giving in and doing that nonsense. It's too bad because tomorrow is my birthday and it looks like there isn't gonna be any birthday sacktime. i hope i get the new playboy as a present from mom, so I have new material to jerk off with. let's talk about your mom, Spats...obviously, it's an issue for you. and you ain't just a whistlin' dixie | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: Spats said: See, i have a few choices. 1. Give it another try with the babe. Get into the whole intimacy nonsense and see what happens. 2. Just pretend i am enjoying it for awhile and see if it gets me some sacktime. 3. Start all over at the clubs every weekend and hope some hot looking women approach me. Another thing, wouldn't it really be pathetic if after all of this , i finally do get sacktime with her and she ends up being lousy in bed. That would be really bad. Why is that? no, that would be poetic justice. | |
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Spats said: IrresistibleB1tch said: no, that would be poetic justice. Why is that? even more so if you have to ask. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: Spats said: Why is that? even more so if you have to ask. Seriously, why is that?? | |
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Spats said: IrresistibleB1tch said: even more so if you have to ask. Seriously, why is that?? just trust me. | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: Spats said: Seriously, why is that?? just trust me. Seriously, why? | |
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Spats, you're the first one I know of who has been dumped through MySpace.....it's a harsh world.....
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abierman said: Spats, you're the first one I know of who has been dumped through MySpace.....it's a harsh world.....
() I haven't been dumped. | |
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Spats said: abierman said: Spats, you're the first one I know of who has been dumped through MySpace.....it's a harsh world.....
() I haven't been dumped. Not dumped, but you're settling because you've got nothing else going on. | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: I haven't been dumped. Not dumped, but you're settling because you've got nothing else going on. I don't think i am settling. I haven't even decided if i will hook back up with her. I have to think about my principles and my self respect before i decide. I don't want to become a whipped sissy boy. But i also want sacktime badly | |
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Spats said: JustErin said: Not dumped, but you're settling because you've got nothing else going on. I don't think i am settling. I haven't even decided if i will hook back up with her. I have to think about my principles and my self respect before i decide. I don't want to become a whipped sissy boy. But i also want sacktime badly So your goal is to bone her and then take off? | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: I don't think i am settling. I haven't even decided if i will hook back up with her. I have to think about my principles and my self respect before i decide. I don't want to become a whipped sissy boy. But i also want sacktime badly So your goal is to bone her and then take off? nail | |
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ZombieKitten said: JustErin said: So your goal is to bone her and then take off? nail Right. | |
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JustErin said: Spats said: I don't think i am settling. I haven't even decided if i will hook back up with her. I have to think about my principles and my self respect before i decide. I don't want to become a whipped sissy boy. But i also want sacktime badly So your goal is to bone her and then take off? It depends on how good she is in bed. If she is terrible there would be no point in sticking around. | |
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Spats said: JustErin said: So your goal is to bone her and then take off? It depends on how good she is in bed. If she is terrible there would be no point in sticking around. Considering my lack of experience, however I'm not quite sure how to judge. I know, I'll ask mom. Damn...i do need to talk to someone about my mom issues. I swear I just heard someone call me. | |
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purplerein said: Spats said: It depends on how good she is in bed. If she is terrible there would be no point in sticking around. Considering my lack of experience, however I'm not quite sure how to judge. I know, I'll ask mom. Damn...i do need to talk to someone about my mom issues. I swear I just heard someone call me. | |
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abierman said: I volunteer my place for a spats intervention.
that's the kind of guy Aksel is....damn I love you big guy. | |
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purplerein said: abierman said: I volunteer my place for a spats intervention.
that's the kind of guy Aksel is....damn I love you big guy. | |
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The babe called to wish me a Happy Birthday. Is that nice or what? Even after our troubles lately she does that. | |
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purplerein said: Spats said: It depends on how good she is in bed. If she is terrible there would be no point in sticking around. Considering my lack of experience, however I'm not quite sure how to judge. I know, I'll ask mom. Damn...i do need to talk to someone about my mom issues. I swear I just heard someone call me. You would do the same. Don't act above that. | |
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Spats said: The babe called to wish me a Happy Birthday. Is that nice or what? Even after our troubles lately she does that.
Sissy boy | |
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Spats said: The babe called to wish me a Happy Birthday. Is that nice or what? Even after our troubles lately she does that.
Was it your birthday? Maybe it was a psycho threat. | |
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Spats said: The babe called to wish me a Happy Birthday. Is that nice or what? Even after our troubles lately she does that. Still, I can't leave mom. she loves me | |
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some psuedo internet psychologist you are
you were supposed to ask him how that made him feel | |
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Spats said: The babe called to wish me a Happy Birthday. Is that nice or what? Even after our troubles lately she does that. Still, I can't leave mom. she loves me she made me mac & cheese, the babe would never do that..... | |
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