The babe has taken our pic off of her myspace page. I guess this means
i have been offically dumped. I was gonna go over today and see her. Don't know if i should now.

This is a first for me. Anyone else here been dumped? How did you handle it?

To make matters worse it's thanksgiving up here and i am on my own. This is not fun.

First!!

It's your choice. You have two decisions.

1. Continue to act aloof and not get any ass.
2. Suck it up and accept that you have to bend a little to get some ass.



Please just accept reality. It;s your choice.

Spats said:

I guess she didnt want you enough dude. Rejection sure is tough but i guess its karma if what you are saying is true.

Mack Daddy....Daddy of the Mack like you beefin' about being dumped....???

damn, whats the world coming to?

7in9 said:

I don't know what you mean by Karma but i guess you are right, she didn't want me bad enough.

Spats said:

Its just that from your posts you say "I always do the dumping" so i guess karma bites back.

That is all.

INSATIABLE said:

I guess you are right. Aloof has worked in the past though. I don't know if i can change who i am though.

INSATIABLE said:

Spats said:

You were lucky then. You're not now.

And you don't have to change unless you decide you'd like some female attention. If it's not worth it to change, you obviously don't want sex as bad as you thought.

DAMN spats, i do feel a bit sorry for you at the moment...

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

So I'm not understandin' why your allowing your picture on myspace and not here?????

fuck myspace, so see her anyway

luv4u said:

Sweeny79 said:

Exactly! Go and find out what's going on. If you're dumped, you're dumped. Go and find out, though maybe it can be worked out.

INSATIABLE said:

I got almost all my girlfriends being "aloof"!!!

Everyone tells people to be themselves but in my case, i should change???

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Excuse me???

Spats, man, have you recognized the horrific dualism to your threads:

1) "Help me and give me advice with my love life because I don't know what I'm doing."
2) "But don't give me advice I disagree with, because I know best."

luv4all7 said:

i had no say in her putting up the picture on myspace. She really liked the damn photo. You know what women are like about stuff like that. I didn't even want to take it.

Fauxie said:

You and Sweeney are right. I will go and see her tomorrow. I have been putting it off and putting it off. It's been about 2 weeks now since she stopped talking to me. It could be too late though. It's just that i am not an agressive person.

ThreadBare said:

You are right. For whatever reason I am just confused right now.

[Edited 10/8/06 22:49pm]

Have you heard of Pablo Neruda, a great love poet.

I always liked this one.

Tonight I can write the saddest lines.



Write, for example, "The night is starry
and the stars are blue and shiver in the distance."

The night wind revolves in the sky and sings.

Tonight I can write the saddest lines.
I loved her, and sometimes she loved me too.

Through nights like this one I held her in my arms.
I kissed her again and again under the endless sky.

She loved me, sometimes I loved her too.
How could one not have loved her great still eyes.

Tonight I can write the saddest lines.
To think that I do not have her. To feel that I have lost her.

To hear the immense night, still more immense without her.
And the verse falls to the soul like dew to the pasture.

What does it matter that my love could not keep her.
The night is starry and she is not with me.

This is all. In the distance someone is singing. In the distance.
My soul is not satisfied that it has lost her.

My sight tries to find her as though to bring her closer.
My heart looks for her, and she is not with me.

The same night whitening the same trees.
We, of that time, are no longer the same.

I no longer love her, that's certain, but how I loved her.
My voice tried to find the wind to touch her hearing.

Another's. She will be another's. As she was before my kisses.
Her voice, her bright body. Her infinite eyes.

I no longer love her, that's certain, but maybe I love her.
Love is so short, forgetting is so long.

Because through nights like this one I held her in my arms
my soul is not satisfied that it has lost her.

Though this be the last pain that she makes me suffer
and these the last verses that I write for her.



I found the most wonderful person, and fell in love. It lasted 3 month's then one day she said we have to talk. I was caved in! I thanked her for the most wonderful feeling and wished her well. We are still very good friends!
So if it's over you Thank her for being so wonderful, and tell her she will always be special to you. Tell her you want to be friends and walk away and be her friend. And if she was special look for another with the same qualities.
[Edited 10/8/06 23:09pm]

Spats said:

I'm terribly aloof too, sometimes (or at least come across as aloof - silly people, misinterpreting ). I'm awful in social situations, but I'm not just aloof, all the time, 24/7. It's possible to still be you but make a few subtle adjustments.

Fauxie said:

Subtle adjustments like what?

Stop playing games about who does what, when, where and why .....and actually do what u feel!

Ocean said:

Im surprised.
What happened to the "Women are like buses,just move on" attitude

Are u bummed u didnt get sacktime or are u down because u missed an opportunity to be with someone nice?

Oh and...
Can we see her myspace now?

ThreadCula said: