When is it acceptable to say those 3 little words "I Love You" for the first time. Has anyone ever held back and waited for there partner to say it first. Or just threw caution to the wind and say only to scare there partner off.??

I say them to everyone.

I love you, EFS.

when seeing that pic red posted of you for the first time.

FunkMistress said:

Right back at ya baby!!!!!

EFS said:

Now for the uncomfortable part: Who the hell are you?

FunkMistress said:

my boyfriend started to say it after a month. Im a very honest person so I told I didnt feel that way yet. So after about 4 months..i said it

FunkMistress said:

Juan Pablo Hasta La Vista Los Lobos, pleased to meet you

You say it when you really mean it.

Whatever you do, refrain from saying it within the first 10 minutes having met someone!

People don't seem to like it.

EFS said:

Mucho gusto.

WillyWonka said:

I've just came out of an relationship. well.....about a 5 months ago. I've been seein my current g/f for about 3 months told her last night that i was fallig in love with her and she said the same.I panicked at when i first said it but now im sooo glad i did.

I always waited for my girlfriends to say it first. And when they did i would thank them.

I think the only time i said those words was at the height of sacktime and you are not in your right mind at that point.

Sorry, I farted.

jerseykrs said:

which in your language is as close to "i love you" as possible, isn't it?

jerseykrs said:

When is it safe to say those three words as opposed to keeping silent and playing dumb?

when you're sure of it. i imagine knowing that your relationship's hopped off to the right start and it's cool to say "i love you" is like having the bubbleguts: you'll know.

FunkMistress said:

FunkMistress said:

So, you get the analogy!



I love you.

i find that the safest time for ME to say those three magic words is when they're taking my 98-year-old multibillionaire lover off life support and he's looking up at me with those gorgeous rheumy baby blues waiting for me to say those three words for the first last time.


but be sure there's a lawyer in the room with you, and at least another witness or two. a notary public wouldn't hurt either.

jerseykrs said:

I have rabies.

cborgman said:

I said sorry!


on a serious note, I've only said it to one person, so I don't know. It was at a complete laughing fun moment, not sex, and I hadn't planned it or even gave it any thought prior. It just came out.

jerseykrs said:

The words, or the fart?

FunkMistress said:

i had taco fresco for lunch today and it's making me ALLLL

Anx said:

Make sure you say it right before your son collapses from a mysterious heart attack too.

jerseykrs said:

that TOTALLY happened to me too with the best one i have been with so far. we were drunk and he said something really funny, and i laughed my ass off, and suddenly it came out. both of us froze.

superspaceboy said:

i find that if my lover dies before i'm able to get the words out, i can always have them spelled out in spray roses as a tasteful flower-gram suitable for casketside viewing. plus you can totally order those way ahead of time in case you have vacation plans.

Anx said:

TMI and TMS (Too Much Smell-formation)!

FunkMistress said:

I love you EFS
I love you FunkyMiss