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Reply #30 posted 10/04/06 8:53am

Natisse

Spats said:

Natisse said:



clapping too damn right!!


and Ivy you are AWESOME anyone would be lucky to have you nod

as for this thread... pfft. the "beautiful people" can have themselves to themselves as far as I'm concerned. REAL beauty is inside the rest dissolves in the blink of an eye but true beauty lasts

peace


That's a myth.


what are you trying to say? please explain yourself properly...
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Reply #31 posted 10/04/06 8:57am

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cborgman said:

how long has it been since he and paisleypark4 broke up and we STILL are hearing the rants about him?



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Reply #32 posted 10/04/06 8:59am

Spats

Natisse said:

Spats said:



That's a myth.


what are you trying to say? please explain yourself properly...



That real beauty is inside and that the rest dissolves in the blink of an eye.

The real beauty is inside routine is what people are told when they are kids by their parents. But people grow up and find out the reality is different. It's like when your parents tell their kids that "You can do anything if you put your mind to it". That is also not true.

And physical beauty does not dissolve for the most part until people become middle aged and over. So it sticks around for quite awhile. I would rather be good looking for at least a good part of my life than never at all.
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Reply #33 posted 10/04/06 9:02am

Natisse

Spats said:

Natisse said:



what are you trying to say? please explain yourself properly...



That real beauty is inside and that the rest dissolves in the blink of an eye.

The real beauty is inside routine is what people are told when they are kids by their parents. But people grow up and find out the reality is different. It's like when your parents tell their kids that "You can do anything if you put your mind to it". That is also not true.

And physical beauty does not dissolve for the most part until people become middle aged and over. So it sticks around for quite awhile. I would rather be good looking for at least a good part of my life than never at all.


one word... karma

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Reply #34 posted 10/04/06 9:02am

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Spats said:

Natisse said:



what are you trying to say? please explain yourself properly...



That real beauty is inside and that the rest dissolves in the blink of an eye.

The real beauty is inside routine is what people are told when they are kids by their parents. But people grow up and find out the reality is different. It's like when your parents tell their kids that "You can do anything if you put your mind to it". That is also not true.

And physical beauty does not dissolve for the most part until people become middle aged and over. So it sticks around for quite awhile. I would rather be good looking for at least a good part of my life than never at all.


Please, ladies:

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Reply #35 posted 10/04/06 9:11am

Mach

RAIDERSATION said:

I hear this alot and comedians joking about this all the time. But while i was in court the other day I stumbled on someone I can't stand and hate a lot these days, dating one ugly, hiddeous person and even I am left scratching my head. Like Marge and homer Simpson. This person has a double chin, just hiddeous and sometime I wonder if this person who I saw in court along with the somalis heard that line too much to date someone ugly, cause you wouldn't have to worry about no one hitting on them or sleeping with them.

It just my opinion and I know they say beauty is skin deep, but in this case, I think plastic surgery wouldn't help. What are your ideas of why people date ugly people?
[Edited 10/3/06 18:38pm]


hmmm

speaking of ugly ...
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Reply #36 posted 10/04/06 9:13am

Spats

Natisse said:

Spats said:




That real beauty is inside and that the rest dissolves in the blink of an eye.

The real beauty is inside routine is what people are told when they are kids by their parents. But people grow up and find out the reality is different. It's like when your parents tell their kids that "You can do anything if you put your mind to it". That is also not true.

And physical beauty does not dissolve for the most part until people become middle aged and over. So it sticks around for quite awhile. I would rather be good looking for at least a good part of my life than never at all.


one word... karma

peace



It's true. Parents tell their kids a lot of things that turn out to be not true when they get into the real world. Like those two things.
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Reply #37 posted 10/04/06 9:19am

Natisse

Spats said:

Natisse said:



one word... karma

peace



It's true. Parents tell their kids a lot of things that turn out to be not true when they get into the real world. Like those two things.


I was teased all the way through my school years for being "ugly" and short, "spats", all the way from the age of 5 until 18 when I left... and I tell you what I left that behind a looooong time ago. YOU are the one who seems ugly to me... and I don't even have to see a picture of you or find out who you really are to know that#

that's all from me...

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Reply #38 posted 10/04/06 9:21am

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RAIDERSATION said:

I hear this alot and comedians joking about this all the time. But while i was in court the other day I stumbled on someone I can't stand and hate a lot these days, dating one ugly, hiddeous person and even I am left scratching my head. Like Marge and homer Simpson. This person has a double chin, just hiddeous and sometime I wonder if this person who I saw in court along with the somalis heard that line too much to date someone ugly, cause you wouldn't have to worry about no one hitting on them or sleeping with them.

It just my opinion and I know they say beauty is skin deep, but in this case, I think plastic surgery wouldn't help. What are your ideas of why people date ugly people?
[Edited 10/3/06 18:38pm]


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Reply #39 posted 10/04/06 9:23am

WillyWonka

This thread is ugly.

What is the benefit of starting an ugly thread?
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Reply #40 posted 10/04/06 9:24am

Spats

Natisse said:

Spats said:




It's true. Parents tell their kids a lot of things that turn out to be not true when they get into the real world. Like those two things.


I was teased all the way through my school years for being "ugly" and short, "spats", all the way from the age of 5 until 18 when I left... and I tell you what I left that behind a looooong time ago. YOU are the one who seems ugly to me... and I don't even have to see a picture of you or find out who you really are to know that#

that's all from me...

peace


I am just saying what the deal is. Parents tell their kids that looks don't matter and then the kid grows up and goes into the real world and they find out that they do.
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Reply #41 posted 10/04/06 9:25am

Mach

WillyWonka said:

This thread is ugly.

What is the benefit of starting an ugly thread?


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Reply #42 posted 10/04/06 9:25am

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do any of you remember the song:

if ya wanna be happy for the rest of your life
man find an ugly woman and make her ya wife
pretty girls will have ya singing the blues
but when an ugly girl leaves you aint got nothing to lose

im torn about this thread. that last line in the song is really lame...
like ok...because shes ugly it lessens the meaning of the relationship?
its not about looks...if someone grabs your heart, you find them beautiful regardless...

hmm
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Reply #43 posted 10/04/06 9:30am

Spats

violett said:

do any of you remember the song:

if ya wanna be happy for the rest of your life
man find an ugly woman and make her ya wife
pretty girls will have ya singing the blues
but when an ugly girl leaves you aint got nothing to lose

im torn about this thread. that last line in the song is really lame...
like ok...because shes ugly it lessens the meaning of the relationship?
its not about looks...if someone grabs your heart, you find them beautiful regardless...

hmm


That's a terrible song. They shouldn't be making a song that sends out a terrible message like that. Encouraging men to go find an ugly girl is just wrong.
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Reply #44 posted 10/04/06 9:44am

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Spats said:

violett said:

do any of you remember the song:

if ya wanna be happy for the rest of your life
man find an ugly woman and make her ya wife
pretty girls will have ya singing the blues
but when an ugly girl leaves you aint got nothing to lose

im torn about this thread. that last line in the song is really lame...
like ok...because shes ugly it lessens the meaning of the relationship?
its not about looks...if someone grabs your heart, you find them beautiful regardless...

hmm


That's a terrible song. They shouldn't be making a song that sends out a terrible message like that. Encouraging men to go find an ugly girl is just wrong.


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Reply #45 posted 10/04/06 10:12am

DanceWme

Stymie said:

DanceWme said:

falloff at this thread

I dont know. Maybe they have a better personality. Worry less about their appearance and not so high maintanence and worry more about.....um....I DONT KNOW!! lol
[Edited 10/3/06 20:01pm]
This thread is a hot damn mess and will get worse. lol

I have no self-esteem problems. I am not high maintenance. While I can refer to myself as ugly, I only say that because I do not fit into society's idea of what beauty is. I wouldn't change a thing about myself. Those stuck on the superficial can go fuck themselves.

As far as ugly people being better in bed, it has zero to do with how I look, it has to do with me being a damn freak.


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Reply #46 posted 10/04/06 11:39am

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WillyWonka said:

This thread is ugly.

What is the benefit of starting an ugly thread?



nod I agree.
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Reply #47 posted 10/04/06 11:42am

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Why do people get their panties in a bunch over the word "ugly". lol You're only "ugly" if you let people make you feel ugly imo.
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Reply #48 posted 10/04/06 11:46am

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AnckSuNamun said:

Why do people get their panties in a bunch over the word "ugly". lol You're only "ugly" if you let people make you feel ugly imo.


That is an awesome way of looking at it, actually.
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Reply #49 posted 10/04/06 11:55am

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Natisse said:


I was teased all the way through my school years for being "ugly" and short, "spats", all the way from the age of 5 until 18 when I left... and I tell you what I left that behind a looooong time ago. YOU are the one who seems ugly to me... and I don't even have to see a picture of you or find out who you really are to know that#

that's all from me...

peace


Exactly. I've met people who are considered physically beautiful/good looking by most standards and yet after they open their mouths or I see the way they treat others they are far from beautiful.
Conversely, there are many people who are average looking or even 'ugly' (as the thread starter puts it) who are more beautiful because of what's on the inside, their personality, their souls...it's true. nod


Beauty fades...I hope all those people who won't date "ugly" people never lose their looks only find that their partner doesn't want to be with them anymore because now they're 'ugly.'
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Reply #50 posted 10/04/06 12:58pm

Spats

jone70 said:

Natisse said:


I was teased all the way through my school years for being "ugly" and short, "spats", all the way from the age of 5 until 18 when I left... and I tell you what I left that behind a looooong time ago. YOU are the one who seems ugly to me... and I don't even have to see a picture of you or find out who you really are to know that#

that's all from me...

peace


Exactly. I've met people who are considered physically beautiful/good looking by most standards and yet after they open their mouths or I see the way they treat others they are far from beautiful.
Conversely, there are many people who are average looking or even 'ugly' (as the thread starter puts it) who are more beautiful because of what's on the inside, their personality, their souls...it's true. nod


Beauty fades...I hope all those people who won't date "ugly" people never lose their looks only find that their partner doesn't want to be with them anymore because now they're 'ugly.'


So's its better for a person to be ugly their entire life than to be pretty at one time and then go into a decline?????

There are plenty of pretty people who are also nice people and many ugly people who are bad people.
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Reply #51 posted 10/04/06 1:34pm

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I think "ugly" is all relative. I particularly don't get hung up on looks period. I'm more of a personality person. I've had huge crushes on people that others think are physically unattractive.

But still, I ain't datin no ugly mufuckers. What the hell would I get outta that?
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Reply #52 posted 10/04/06 3:40pm

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Reply #53 posted 10/04/06 3:44pm

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RAIDERSATION said:

I hear this alot and comedians joking about this all the time. But while i was in court the other day I stumbled on someone I can't stand and hate a lot these days, dating one ugly, hiddeous person and even I am left scratching my head. Like Marge and homer Simpson. This person has a double chin, just hiddeous and sometime I wonder if this person who I saw in court along with the somalis heard that line too much to date someone ugly, cause you wouldn't have to worry about no one hitting on them or sleeping with them.

It just my opinion and I know they say beauty is skin deep, but in this case, I think plastic surgery wouldn't help. What are your ideas of why people date ugly people?
[Edited 10/3/06 18:38pm]



It could be worse...they could be a Raiders fan.....

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Reply #54 posted 10/04/06 3:44pm

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Stymie said:

DanceWme said:

falloff at this thread

I dont know. Maybe they have a better personality. Worry less about their appearance and not so high maintanence and worry more about.....um....I DONT KNOW!! lol
[Edited 10/3/06 20:01pm]
This thread is a hot damn mess and will get worse. lol

I have no self-esteem problems. I am not high maintenance. While I can refer to myself as ugly, I only say that because I do not fit into society's idea of what beauty is. I wouldn't change a thing about myself. Those stuck on the superficial can go fuck themselves.

As far as ugly people being better in bed, it has zero to do with how I look, it has to do with me being a damn freak.



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Reply #55 posted 10/04/06 3:55pm

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DexMSR said:

RAIDERSATION said:

I hear this alot and comedians joking about this all the time. But while i was in court the other day I stumbled on someone I can't stand and hate a lot these days, dating one ugly, hiddeous person and even I am left scratching my head. Like Marge and homer Simpson. This person has a double chin, just hiddeous and sometime I wonder if this person who I saw in court along with the somalis heard that line too much to date someone ugly, cause you wouldn't have to worry about no one hitting on them or sleeping with them.

It just my opinion and I know they say beauty is skin deep, but in this case, I think plastic surgery wouldn't help. What are your ideas of why people date ugly people?


It could be worse...they could be a Raiders fan.....

evilking





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Reply #56 posted 10/04/06 3:58pm

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ThreadBare said:

DexMSR said:



It could be worse...they could be a Raiders fan.....

evilking





mad Hey!



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[Edited 10/4/06 15:55pm]


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Reply #57 posted 10/04/06 4:00pm

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ThreadBare said:[quote]

DexMSR said:



It could be worse...they could be a Raiders fan.....

evilking





mad Hey!



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Reply #58 posted 10/04/06 4:03pm

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violett said:

do any of you remember the song:

if ya wanna be happy for the rest of your life
man find an ugly woman and make her ya wife
pretty girls will have ya singing the blues
but when an ugly girl leaves you aint got nothing to lose

im torn about this thread. that last line in the song is really lame...
like ok...because shes ugly it lessens the meaning of the relationship?
its not about looks...if someone grabs your heart, you find them beautiful regardless...

hmm

If You Wanna Be Happy - Jimmy Soul

If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall.
As soon as he marries her she starts to do
The things that will break his heart in two.
But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
She'll always give you peace of mind.

Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match
Take it from me she's a better catch

(chorus)

Say man.
Hey baby.
Saw your wife the other day.
Yeah?
Yeah, she's ugly.
Yeah, she's ugly but she sure can cook.
Yeah?. Okay.



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Reply #59 posted 10/04/06 4:07pm

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Spats said:

jone70 said:



Exactly. I've met people who are considered physically beautiful/good looking by most standards and yet after they open their mouths or I see the way they treat others they are far from beautiful.
Conversely, there are many people who are average looking or even 'ugly' (as the thread starter puts it) who are more beautiful because of what's on the inside, their personality, their souls...it's true. nod


Beauty fades...I hope all those people who won't date "ugly" people never lose their looks only find that their partner doesn't want to be with them anymore because now they're 'ugly.'


So's its better for a person to be ugly their entire life than to be pretty at one time and then go into a decline?????


No, that's not at all what I said. I did not say either (beauty or ugliness) was better. I said that some (physically) 'beautiful' are ugly because of who they are/the way they act, and some 'ugly' people are more beautiful (than the "beautiful" people) because of they way they act. I just wonder how people who are hung up on how pretty or ugly their partners are would react if they were sudddenly disfigured or 'ugly' and people judged them by the same standards they use to judge those they consider 'ugly'.

There are plenty of pretty people who are also nice people and many ugly people who are bad people.


True true...that's why I try my best not to judge people on their looks but by how they treat others or as MLKing said, "by the content of their character."


Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder...call me crazy but I think Jackson Pollack's drip paintings and Duchamp's Fountain (urinal) are far more beautiful than an Academy style Bougereau painting or a Frederic Church landscape...shrug What's ugly to some is breathtakingly gorgeous to others...
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