XxAxX said:

Women who do that are few and far between. Women on here have admitted they don't do it.

Spats said:

Dude, there are people here who have MET her. She's real.

Of course, I'm female too. So, whomever buys dinner or opens the doors or initiates sex is going to be. But my last partner was male, and I did those things for him too. We really do exist. And we prefer to give all of that energy to people who respect us and want to please us in return.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

That explains it. You are both female so a female is gonna have to do it.

Spats said:

Did you actually read what I said? I did the same stuff for my male partners (one of 'em is on this site, you can ask him ).

You want to blame everything on women. The reason you don't get the treatment you want is that YOU DON'T DESERVE IT. Gotta give to get.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

You held doors for them all the time, took them to dinner all the time, and gave them sacktime anytime they wanted it?????

I don't think i blame everything on women. I think i deserve to be treated good. I think i treated my girlfriends good. Just because i liked them doing the first move stuff does not mean i am treating them bad.I have done the dinner rountine in the past , yadda, yadda.

Spats said:

Honey, you have never been with someone like me. Yes, I do these things all the time. I like to think of myself as stronger than most, so yeah, it's good Karma to open doors for people. I am always the one who pays because also, it's good Karma to be generous. And I LOVE SEX!! I'm not hung up about it, and when I want it, which is a lot of the time, I get it.

It's not surprising that you don't believe this because you meet girls at clubs. Everyone knows that a lot of young clubbin' girls are only looking for someone to pay for their drinks. You're not finding quality girls, just drunks who been jaded by others, and naive sluts who will manipulate you for what you have.

Spats said:

You can find a woman to do that for you, if that's what you want. My girlfriend will take me out to dinner every so often. I don't need her to or even want her to. Actually, I'd prefer to pay all the time, but I appreciate the thought when she does.

And she's not holding the door open for me. I'm just not enlightened enough for that.

gemini13 said:

Well then i wish i knew more women like you.

I have never been with drunks or sluts. I have been with quality girls. Clubs may not be the ideal places to meet women. But that's where the hottest looking women usually are. If you know of other places to meet hot looking women then let me know. Please don't say Libraries. They aren't there.

Spats said:

Well, fer fuck's sake, of COURSE I didn't do doors/dinner every time. I open a door for somebody if I get to it first. I would buy dinner when it was my idea to go out, or when I wanted to treat him. And vice versa. The rest of the time, we'd split it. You want a woman who will ALWAYS buy you dinner? Then I don't know what planet you're hoping to live on, but this one ain't gonna work for ya.

That said, if my partner (male or female) were po' and I had $$, I actually would be more than happy to always pick up the tab. That may well be the case down the road.

Oh, and as for sacktime, yes. Any time. That's my official policy, and I'm strict about it.

Spats said:

I don't know- when a guy shows me that he cares about me- I will do a lot for him. It is a give and take and if he sits back and acts like I should do everything then that usually turns me off. If he he reaches out and does something little and thoughful for me- he will get paid very generously in return. It is not about being a wussy- it is about caring and respect- I think.
I would do anything for a man if he is willing to do for me- ANYTHING if he is respectful and caring towards me..
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