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onenitealone said: I was going to say go with the flow and just see how things turn out. Meet up when you can, get to know each other, have fun. See if anything develops.
But you've already said you don't want the long-distance thing. In which case, I still say go with the flow  - she's obviously made an impression - but just keep everything realistic. A lot to gain, but not too much lost. Yet.
I hope you're feeling better, anyway.  Thanks, I have a date this afternoon and I will see what my thought process is after tonight. I think it is mostly a case of the unknown messing with my head. Not used to it. (Insert something clever here) |
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DarkKnight1 said: Thanks, I have a date this afternoon and I will see what my thought process is after tonight. I think it is mostly a case of the unknown messing with my head. Not used to it.
With the same girl? Well, it's these experiences that usually shape us. How exciting! New things to learn.  But Good Luck! I hope it turns out how you'd like it to.
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onenitealone said: DarkKnight1 said: Thanks, I have a date this afternoon and I will see what my thought process is after tonight. I think it is mostly a case of the unknown messing with my head. Not used to it.
With the same girl? Well, it's these experiences that usually shape us. How exciting! New things to learn. But Good Luck! I hope it turns out how you'd like it to.
Just go with your gut instinct, trust it, and have fun. No, different girl. The one I was referring to, is 8 hours away. I had this one set b4 I went to Padre on business. (Insert something clever here) |
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DarkKnight1 said: onenitealone said: With the same girl? Well, it's these experiences that usually shape us. How exciting! New things to learn. But Good Luck! I hope it turns out how you'd like it to.
Just go with your gut instinct, trust it, and have fun. No, different girl. The one I was referring to, is 8 hours away. I had this one set b4 I went to Padre on business. 
Stud. 
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onenitealone said: DarkKnight1 said: No, different girl. The one I was referring to, is 8 hours away. I had this one set b4 I went to Padre on business.
Stud.
Good luck with this one as well. Try not to worry about it too much.Not a stud. Just been lucky in the dating realm. Thanks again for the responses. The over-thinking thing is new for me. I really needed to air this thing out. (Insert something clever here) |
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DarkKnight1 said: onenitealone said:
Stud.
Good luck with this one as well. Try not to worry about it too much.Not a stud. Just been lucky in the dating realm. Thanks again for the responses. The over-thinking thing is new for me. I really needed to air this thing out. Sorry, I was just kidding with ya. Hope things turn out nice for you. | |
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You gotta ask yourself the 3 following questions:
Is she worth the drive? Could you see your self in a long term relationship with this person? Would you be proud waking up to her every morning for the rest of your life? If this woman is not quote "wife material" she's not worth the drive. Just hang out with her when she's in Dallas and your in San Pedro. Carpenters bend wood, fletchers bend arrows, wise men fashion themselves.
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karmatornado said: You gotta ask yourself the 3 following questions:
Is she worth the drive? Could you see your self in a long term relationship with this person? Would you be proud waking up to her every morning for the rest of your life? If this woman is not quote "wife material" she's not worth the drive. Just hang out with her when she's in Dallas and your in San Pedro. I have several answers regarding those questions. Worth the drive? Right now, yes After the newness wears off? not sure Long term? No idea, but would obviously be tough. Waking up with her everyday forever? No idea again. I just know that I really enjoyed once. (Insert something clever here) |
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DarkKnight1 said: onenitealone said:
Stud.
Good luck with this one as well. Try not to worry about it too much.Not a stud. Just been lucky in the dating realm. Thanks again for the responses. The over-thinking thing is new for me. I really needed to air this thing out. 2 girls going at once? What's your secret? | |
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karmatornado said: You gotta ask yourself the 3 following questions:
Is she worth the drive? Could you see your self in a long term relationship with this person? Would you be proud waking up to her every morning for the rest of your life? If this woman is not quote "wife material" she's not worth the drive. Just hang out with her when she's in Dallas and your in San Pedro. What is "wife material"???? | |
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Talk to her. See how it goes. If it turns into something long term, it doesn't sound like she has anything keeping in South Padre.
But the 8 hour drive is crazy. Fly out of Love Field to Brownsville. 3 hours and relatively cheap. "What kind of fuck ending is that?" | |
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Spats said: karmatornado said: You gotta ask yourself the 3 following questions:
Is she worth the drive? Could you see your self in a long term relationship with this person? Would you be proud waking up to her every morning for the rest of your life? If this woman is not quote "wife material" she's not worth the drive. Just hang out with her when she's in Dallas and your in San Pedro. What is "wife material"???? feels like smooth silk on the outside.....straight up BURLAP on the inside...and once u make a "wife" out of "wife material" it becomes indestructable..... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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karmatornado said: You gotta ask yourself the 3 following questions:
Is she worth the drive? Could you see your self in a long term relationship with this person? Would you be proud waking up to her every morning for the rest of your life? If this woman is not quote "wife material" she's not worth the drive. Just hang out with her when she's in Dallas and your in San Pedro. Would you be proud waking up to her every morning for the rest of your life? I guess it would depend on what she looks like first thing in the morning. | |
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angelfishseven said: Borat said: Thankyou please for take my advice
 You must take her against her will and keep her in a cage. All womans in US&A like a sexy time, but sometimes they like a sexy time with brother or cousin instead of Borat. It is hard alone to let a woman walk on street with chain around ankle that is why Premier Nazarbayev pass law to make all womans to occupy 3' x 3' cage 23 hors a day, only to be releasing for purposes of sexy time! 
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DarkKnight1 said: Alright, I was in South Padre Island on business last week. I went to a bar for a late lunch and a couple of beers around 4. Met this bartender chick, very cute I might add. We talked for a few minutes and a while later she walked by and gave me the cute look back smile. So I asked her if we could hang after she got off work. Im not a fan of picking up one nighters but this felt a bit different. After we went and had a few beers and had a hell of a time, I stayed at her place and since I kinda dig her didnt pursue sex. We had some good times and next thing you know its 830 am and we both have to go to work. Ill get to the point now, I just wanted to set it up right.
She asked me for my number first, so we exchanged #'s. I live 8 hours away in Dallas, so here is the quandry. She and I are both very busy, therefore im not real sure if there is future hook up opportunities. I would like to, but that shit gets difficult. Also, after the smoke clears was there really a connection, or an out-of-town alcohol connection because we just met. She made comments like she would like to see me some other time but im not convinced because we all say things in a moment that are not likely. Truth be told, I would like to see her again, but with such a distance between us, im not sure if i should allow myself to get my hopes up. It was a good time, but im not sure if i wouldnt have been better off just leaving with a goodbye and goodluck. I dont usually have questions about this shit, but its been rattling around in my head for the last 3 days. i would appreciate any opinions. i'd contact her again. don't invest everything you have in the possibility that things will work out with her here and now but... if it feels good and doesn't hurt anyone see where it goes.. find out if it's real | |
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XxAxX said: DarkKnight1 said: Alright, I was in South Padre Island on business last week. I went to a bar for a late lunch and a couple of beers around 4. Met this bartender chick, very cute I might add. We talked for a few minutes and a while later she walked by and gave me the cute look back smile. So I asked her if we could hang after she got off work. Im not a fan of picking up one nighters but this felt a bit different. After we went and had a few beers and had a hell of a time, I stayed at her place and since I kinda dig her didnt pursue sex. We had some good times and next thing you know its 830 am and we both have to go to work. Ill get to the point now, I just wanted to set it up right.
She asked me for my number first, so we exchanged #'s. I live 8 hours away in Dallas, so here is the quandry. She and I are both very busy, therefore im not real sure if there is future hook up opportunities. I would like to, but that shit gets difficult. Also, after the smoke clears was there really a connection, or an out-of-town alcohol connection because we just met. She made comments like she would like to see me some other time but im not convinced because we all say things in a moment that are not likely. Truth be told, I would like to see her again, but with such a distance between us, im not sure if i should allow myself to get my hopes up. It was a good time, but im not sure if i wouldnt have been better off just leaving with a goodbye and goodluck. I dont usually have questions about this shit, but its been rattling around in my head for the last 3 days. i would appreciate any opinions. i'd contact her again. don't invest everything you have in the possibility that things will work out with her here and now but... if it feels good and doesn't hurt anyone see where it goes.. find out if it's real Agreed, im gonna let the dust settle and then call back. (Insert something clever here) |
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Spats said: DarkKnight1 said: Not a stud. Just been lucky in the dating realm. Thanks again for the responses. The over-thinking thing is new for me. I really needed to air this thing out. 2 girls going at once? What's your secret? Not sure. Ill save that for another thread. (Insert something clever here) |
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DarkKnight1 said: XxAxX said: i'd contact her again. don't invest everything you have in the possibility that things will work out with her here and now but... if it feels good and doesn't hurt anyone see where it goes.. find out if it's real Agreed, im gonna let the dust settle and then call back. Dude, didn't you say she took your number??? Let her call you back. Then you will know if she is interested or not. | |
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