i love the way she says ... "party out the bush"

SnidelyWhiplash said:

How 'bout

up the pole line?
out the crater?
up the mountain?
out the tracks?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Yeah. I mean, I LOVE my pastor I DO!!!!!
But THEE one thing I found odd, was that when I told him the situation at hand, he jumped rite into all of my sexual encounters throughout my relationships and stuff. The 2 issues really didn't tie together so much.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

oh, I'm in totaly agreement.
But if we're playing the numbers game, most often sex on the first date doesn't turn into a long lasting, healthy relationship. I don't know why, and it doesn't mean it can't. Just most of the time it doesn't.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

listen sexy...to some, the believe that sex before marriage prevents having intimacy in a relationship is valid. Intimacy defined as sharing of feelings, hopes and dreams..for some, sex becomes the object of the relationship, and therefore the relationship is doomed.

CarrieMpls said:

Well it all depends on the maturity level of both partners really. Some people it's not an issue and some it is.

And luv, the way the 2 issues can tie together is that many times people have sex to fill a void. If you never figure out or deal with whatever that void is, some people can have destructive behavior. Not sure if your pastor explained it to you that way.

purplerein said:

If you're a hysterical freak These notions are simply reinforced by religious and social hysteria over sexuality. Sex is supposed to be an integral part of any relationship. It certainly doesn't have to be the way you've explained if the participants don't want it to be.
[Edited 9/28/06 11:55am]

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I speak not from "religious/social hysteria". sex can be a wonderful expression of love and feelings. Sex, however should never be the focus of a relationship, nor should it be had by teenagers who don't understand what they're doing.

in my austin powers voice ..."shall we shag now.... or shag later"

yeahhh babyyy yeahhhhh

purplerein said:

Luv is not a teenager and sex should always be a focal point of any relationship or why have one? That is called friendship. Waiting whatever amount of time to have sex is not what is going to fix the "problem" of someone using sex as a replacement or means of acheiving intimacy. Someone could be as messed up if they waited if they didn't fix the underlying issue first. People should be free to enjoy sexuality without all this hysterical crap loaded on top of it.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I certainly don't feel hysterical. I don't feel I'm presenting my points hysterically.

luv4all7 said:

I used to say that fairy-tale love was a stupid hollywood myth, right up until I experienced it.

It's real, and it's true that you'll have no doubt when you've experienced it. And I don't think having sex early on will prevent it from happening. That's kinda beside the point (unless there's unhealthy stuff attached to it for you ).

purplerein said:

The basis for people insisting that people wait and wait and wait and wait is hysteria.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I love you, I lust you, but I disagree with you. For those people who understand intimacy in a relationship, and how to achieve it, waiting can only help. I'm not going to argue with you, this is what works for me babe, and it's improved my life/sex life, believe it or not.

i think by waiting some ... most people gain alittle more knowledge of their partner ... but also TRUST ... which is important ...

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I totally agree...unless you're living in 1950.

purplerein said:

You both have valid points. Jumping straight into bed is often a mistake, but the waiting period for getting to know someone doesn't need to be very long. It's clear pretty quickly if you really like someone.

Of course I'm talking about adults. I'm not going to pretend I know what's best for kids.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

I believe it exists, but it's lie and impossible to maintain.

applekisses said:

Well, then.

applekisses said:

I believe it exists too. But it's called Lust. Best feeling ever!

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Girl, you know it's true...

luv4all7 said:

Nooooo!!! It IS real. Just might take you until you're older to find it.

applekisses said:

Oooh ooh oooooh, I love you

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

PERFECT...true love is as real as Rob and Fab's singing careers!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I STILL love me some Milli Vanilli. Real or NOT!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

them fools looked like they were on their way to pop outta some lil' old lady's birthday cake after the photo shoot.

luv4all7 said:

I do too They were gorgeous!

Words cannot express the deep appreciation and honor I feel now that Rob and Fab have made thier way into my thread!!!

gemini13 said:

Yes, lust & love combined.

luv4all7 said: