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Divorced People? Does anyone wanna or feel like telling their story?
Like if you owned a home and then got a divorce, what happened with your home? How did you afford to live and raise your kids after? How did you go about the whole thing? Anything at all anyone wants to share would be appreciated. | |
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In Kazakhstan, man get EVERYTHING he own before married, wife get zero (wife share of property goes to horse) 
But when I learn this is not true in Europe and US&A I am shocked  this is backward system, so I say to many mans in US&A:
 Kazakhstani chain of importance: "God, man, horse, dog, woman, then rat, then small krutzouli"
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Borat said: In Kazakhstan, man get EVERYTHING he own before married, wife get zero (wife share of property goes to horse)
But when I learn this is not true in Europe and US&A I am shocked this is backward system, so I say to many mans in US&A:
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Been there.....also agree it is too personal for posting, but will gladly tell/help you if you org note me.
 "Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive."
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Sooner you get started, the sooner you can get back on an even keel at the other end of things.
Selling a house is a pain, the paperwork is a pain, the financial stress is a pain. . . it all just sucks. On top of the broken relationship, it all just sucks. It's just not gonna suck any less later, probably, and then it's more years lost. So, you just gotta do it. Having kids makes it a million times harder, but you don't want them growing up having an unhappy relationship as their model either, so. . . same advice. oh noes, prince is gonna soo me!!1! | |
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HereToRockYourWorld said: Sooner you get started, the sooner you can get back on an even keel at the other end of things.
Selling a house is a pain, the paperwork is a pain, the financial stress is a pain. . . it all just sucks. On top of the broken relationship, it all just sucks. It's just not gonna suck any less later, probably, and then it's more years lost. So, you just gotta do it. Having kids makes it a million times harder, but you don't want them growing up having an unhappy relationship as their model either, so. . . same advice. This is awesome. Simple. But awesome. Rite to the point.
Thank you!
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HereToRockYourWorld said: Sooner you get started, the sooner you can get back on an even keel at the other end of things.
Selling a house is a pain, the paperwork is a pain, the financial stress is a pain. . . it all just sucks. On top of the broken relationship, it all just sucks. It's just not gonna suck any less later, probably, and then it's more years lost. So, you just gotta do it. Having kids makes it a million times harder, but you don't want them growing up having an unhappy relationship as their model either, so. . . same advice. Great advice.... "Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive."
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Ill tell.
Why? We grew apart and realized it was better to part now before it got ugly. House? I kept the house and we got her an apartment. i made more money and the house meant more to me. Stuff? I let her take whatever she wanted except for the bigscreen, lcd, pool table, king bed, dresser, and various artwork. She could only fit so much in a one bedroom apartment. Kids? Didnt have any, obviously why it was easier to part ways. Finances? I do alright, $1500 mortgage blows by myself, so it is tougher but all of the utilities have cut in half and entertainment is cheaper without a high maintanence wife. (Although, I spend as much dating now) How did it go so well? Easy, check ur fucking pride at the door. Be smart and bite your tongue even maybe you shouldnt. Obviously no kids was the largest factor. L4All7, I will be happy to field any more questions on a personal level if U wish. (Insert something clever here) |
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Been there, done that-don't care to relive the fiasco. Sorry Luv- | |
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Like if you owned a home and then got a divorce, what happened with your home?
Sold it. Now I lease one for $1800.00 a month  Welcome to Californiacation
How did you afford to live and raise your kids after? Well, the first 2 years were a financial disaster as I worked little as I stabelized the kids. I am fortunate that I make a good deal of money on my own.. ( another product of californication... the vanities pay) My father raised me to have my own as he feared I may end up in a pickle otherwise. How did you go about the whole thing? I called it. Then went to therapy for a bit as I thought I was evil since I wasnt being beaten or anything. It helped a lot... She never billed me for the sessions as she felt we both gained a lot that was cool. I finally went to him and said that was it... I wasnt ok. ( He knew) We remain good friends and 6 years later I still know I made the right choice. I immediatly jumped into 2 long term relationships and saw that I was recreating situations I could not stay in. So I took a self imposed break ( Higher inspiration suggested it) I fought against the thought initially and now am forever glad I did.... I know what I want... Now I just roam the earth looking into peeps eyes and wondering if it is them.. I know he will find me...Its more then a strong hunch..So right now I travel and enjoy and somewhere in the back of my mind I wait. | |
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Just about to go through it Dani.... I'll let ya know.... | |
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pardonme4livin said: Just about to go through it Dani.... I'll let ya know....
look who jumps outta the woodwork!!! 
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luv4all7 said: Does anyone wanna or feel like telling their story?
my parents got divorced when i was five Like if you owned a home and then got a divorce, what happened with your home? my mother got the house. my father already owned another property and had someone to move in with after the divorce so that wasn't a big deal How did you afford to live and raise your kids after? both my parents worked like hell. They were still both lawyers when they got divorced. My school had a good daycare program and my mother has family in the area where i grew up. it helped out tons. How did you go about the whole thing? I don't know how they went about it Anything at all anyone wants to share would be appreciated. | |
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