I know guys can with girls - does it reciprocate with women too?

I can look at a 12 year old girl and think, "well that girl shouldn't be so fucking spoilt but she'll look hella good when she's older."

It's kinda creepy when they're attracted to you and you're almost 6 years their senior.

Anyway - can older org women look at, say, a 13 year old boy and think "yeah he's gonna have no trouble in that department?"
I just can't really perceive male beauty (probably because I'm not gay).

Spookymuffin said:

Spookymuffin said:

I used to say that. I'm not gay either, but as you get older I think, it's honestly more apparent when a fellow male is attractive. Because he steals all your potential dates.

mrdespues said:

I said that about a girl I went to school with, she was cute, blond, girly. She "asked me out" so I told her to come back and ask again when she was 18 (I was 18 myself at the time, she was 13) saw her a few weeks ago and oh my god was I wrong.

Life can be cruel! Also what you perceve as good looking when you are young changes with age, your taste matures.

mrdespues said:

There is obvious male beauty I can appreciate (Johnny Depp comes to mind) but everyone else is ambiguous to me.

mrdespues said:

That can't happen to you all that often.

And no, I can't generally look at a 12/13 whatever year old boy and know if he'll be attractive when he's older. It seems to me, too many freak things happen to men during puberty. I've seen pictures of my fiance from his younger days, and let me tell you, I would've thought he'd look like SHIT by the time he grew up if I went on that....

PREDOMINANT said:

I know that's true.

Spookymuffin said:

Hahaha.



























Yeah, right.

CortestheKiller said:

Is he like a ride or something? You put coins in him, or perhaps a culinary incentive?

mrdespues said:

I don't see what the big deal ought to be with checking a man out when you're a man. I'm glad you admit you can notice another decent looking fellow. It doesn't make you a homosexual.

My boss, for instance... I look at her with appreciation of her beauty every time I lay eyes on her. And I know if I did like the idea of having another vagina in bed with me, or if I were a man, I'd try to get in her pants.

mrdespues said:

I wish he'd let me ride it more.

I'd give him all the coins in the world.

CortestheKiller said:

Ok. How old is she? And is she taken?

Orgnote.

mrdespues said:

Pimp your boss

PREDOMINANT said:

I don't want to share. But I guess I ought to let someone who appreciates sexual intercourse with women try. So's I can find out what she's like.

Spookymuffin said:

[Edited 9/20/06 6:06am]

Yes, you sometimes can tell...even with babies. Not that they will be "hot" but that they will be considered good looking by many. It has to do with good symmetry of their face. Sure, they might hit an akward stage when they go thru puberty, but generally their looks stay the same.

Of course, the decisions they make as they grow up can have an affect on what they look like.

JustErin said:

I almost caught ya!

kidelrich said:

Was Emma Watson behind that edit?

You can usually tell if a girl is gonna be hot when she grows up. The only time i have seen it not work out that way was when a couple girls in my school who used to be hot had kids. It ruined their bodies. I saw them recently. I thought to myself. "Thank God they ignored me in high school".

Spats said:

like they ignore you now..... I guess you'll get used to it.....I wouldn't know!

This thread is ew.

abierman said:

Who ignores me now? I have a girlfriend. (if anything i have ignored her. ) No, but seriously. Dude, the reason you are hanging out with the women you do is because you have money. Women are suckers for men who have money. Case Closed.
[Edited 9/20/06 8:59am]

Spookymuffin said:

Hermione Granger?

Let me say this honestly... for me 13-year old boys seldomly look hot, neitherlike they have a chance on turning hot in the future. They either look too childish, or like some kind of animal with tentacles they don't know how to use.

At the age of 16... yes... then I can notice their beginning 'hotness'.

MarieLouise said:

Okay - I can see the point; although sometimes you get some freakishly well-developed 13 year old yetis-I mean boys.

kidelrich said:

Spookymuffin said:

Yeah, that's true, but they're a real exception. I saw some good-looking young Senegalese boys actually.

But still, girls can look more mature or 'promising' at an early age.

In each of my classes, there's at least one girl I find pretty (although most of them are dressed way too skanky), but there's not very often a boy I find handsome, not even within the 15-20 range.

Let's face it, some women are just among the most beautiful creatures on earth, next to cats with long hair and soft paws, like mine.

(or maybe I'm just too selective when watching boys)

I can tell if they're going to be hot in their 20's, but not in their 30s or 40s. Some men don't actually start looking attractive to me until their upper 30's, and they never look like their childhood pictures at that point.

MarieLouise said:

I agree with all that you say.