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PrintableJustErin said: I've never worked with anyone that I have found attractive enough to flirt with.
Really?  I always have! Everywhere!  | |
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susannah said: As for the cad, I work for a building surveying firm - I spend half my life using AutoCad!
Cept I'm pretty good at it 
 It was hard to do curves when I had to draw bendy winding roads or streams... So, I would give myself a break by adding more trees.  | |
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CarrieMpls said: susannah said: 
We have the equivalent of MSN messenger at work, which works through the whole company nationally. Quite useful actually 
well, its supposed to be! I'm helping out this rather hot guy who sits at the other end of the room, and he's talking away to me on it, totally flirting!
plus I always catch him looking at me, and he's single
Can't hurt, right? Hands up who's guilty of a hamrless flirtation at the office?  I had a flirty thing going for a bit with a guy at work till I realized he liked me a lot more than I liked him. He started sending me poetry. 
So I had to make things clear... He's still a sweetheart, though. In fact he texted me today to find out why I wasn't at work and offered to bring me stuff since I was sick. So yeah, work flirting can be fun and harmless.   Oh dear! Well, i dont really flirt with anyone I would say no to, I find that very difficult, so... 
Hope youre feeling better  | |
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susannah said: JustErin said: I've never worked with anyone that I have found attractive enough to flirt with.
Really? I always have! Everywhere! Me too! If anything, I'm more likely to flirt at work than anywhere else. I find myself drawn to people I wouldn't normally spit on, purely because you see them nearly every single day of your life. I think it's partly boredom, partly camaraderie, partly Stockholm Syndrome and partly desperation. | |
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Justin1972UK said: susannah said: As for the cad, I work for a building surveying firm - I spend half my life using AutoCad!
Cept I'm pretty good at it
It was hard to do curves when I had to draw bendy winding roads or streams... So, I would give myself a break by adding more trees. trees rock though!
You wanna see the things I have to draw! very complicated building plans...from my own sketchy measurements on paper! I guess we all have our own little talents | |
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Justin1972UK said: susannah said: Really? I always have! Everywhere! Me too! If anything, I'm more likely to flirt at work than anywhere else. I find myself drawn to people I wouldn't normally spit on, purely because you see them nearly every single day of your life. I think it's partly boredom, partly camaraderie, partly Stockholm Syndrome and partly desperation. I completely and utterly agree | |
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susannah said: CarrieMpls said: I had a flirty thing going for a bit with a guy at work till I realized he liked me a lot more than I liked him. He started sending me poetry.
So I had to make things clear... He's still a sweetheart, though. In fact he texted me today to find out why I wasn't at work and offered to bring me stuff since I was sick. So yeah, work flirting can be fun and harmless. Oh dear! Well, i dont really flirt with anyone I would say no to, I find that very difficult, so...
Hope youre feeling better oh, I wasn't being a tease. We went on a few dates actually, and I realized it just wasn't there. Always a tough situation. 
But we still chat and he's stil really sweet. That's the nice part. lol. |
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susannah said: JustErin said: I've never worked with anyone that I have found attractive enough to flirt with.
Really? I always have! Everywhere! I have always worked with older, usually married people and the single ones were not my type. I really don't flirt unless I am somewhat interested in them. | |
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CarrieMpls said: susannah said: Oh dear! Well, i dont really flirt with anyone I would say no to, I find that very difficult, so...
Hope youre feeling better oh, I wasn't being a tease. We went on a few dates actually, and I realized it just wasn't there. Always a tough situation.
But we still chat and he's stil really sweet. That's the nice part. lol. Sorry, I just realised how that sounded I didnt mean it to sound like that! I just meant I think Im always extreme, like you know theres some people who can just flirt with *everyone* and it mean nothing, and withint that they'll like some of them and really not like some of them, to go out with? well I cant do that! If I flirt it means I like them! If I dont, then I dont!
But you're right, that IS a tough one Im sure you handled it with grace. bless him, hope he's ok now! | |
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JustErin said: susannah said: Really? I always have! Everywhere! I have always worked with older, usually married people and the single ones were not my type. I really don't flirt unless I am somewhat interested in them. I'm a shameless flirt. I flirt with old homeless men. Flirting is fun. I don't need to want to sleep with someone in order to smile and have fun with them.The Normal Whores Club | |
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JustErin said: susannah said: Really? I always have! Everywhere! I have always worked with older, usually married people and the single ones were not my type. I really don't flirt unless I am somewhat interested in them. Hmm. Bad luck I guess...thinking about it I guess I havent flirted with someone everywhere I worked, but I have had crushes on people everywhere I worked. makes the day pass quicker! | |
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FunkMistress said: JustErin said: I have always worked with older, usually married people and the single ones were not my type. I really don't flirt unless I am somewhat interested in them. I'm a shameless flirt. I flirt with old homeless men. Flirting is fun. I don't need to want to sleep with someone in order to smile and have fun with them.Well, neither do I. I still have fun and smile, but it's definitely not flirting. It's just being nice/friendly. | |
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susannah said: JustErin said: I have always worked with older, usually married people and the single ones were not my type. I really don't flirt unless I am somewhat interested in them. Hmm. Bad luck I guess...thinking about it I guess I havent flirted with someone everywhere I worked, but I have had crushes on people everywhere I worked. makes the day pass quicker! Crushes are fun! I've never had one on a co-worker, though. It would definitely make my day a bit more interesting if I did.  | |
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JustErin said: susannah said: Hmm. Bad luck I guess...thinking about it I guess I havent flirted with someone everywhere I worked, but I have had crushes on people everywhere I worked. makes the day pass quicker! Crushes are fun! I've never had one on a co-worker, though. It would definitely make my day a bit more interesting if I did. Erin, you never fail to shock! I've had... at least 8! Probably more! ranging in levels of seriousness, mostly resulting in nothing!
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FunkMistress said: JustErin said: I have always worked with older, usually married people and the single ones were not my type. I really don't flirt unless I am somewhat interested in them. I'm a shameless flirt. I flirt with old homeless men. Flirting is fun. I don't need to want to sleep with someone in order to smile and have fun with them.me, i've always been the subject of flirting/being hit on; 95% of the time i hate it because some people dunno how to act. i've never started actually flirting with folks until recently. | |
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FunkMistress said: JustErin said: I have always worked with older, usually married people and the single ones were not my type. I really don't flirt unless I am somewhat interested in them. I'm a shameless flirt. I flirt with old homeless men. Flirting is fun. I don't need to want to sleep with someone in order to smile and have fun with them.Just sayin that it sends mixed messages and someone is gonna be humiliated. Flirt away if you want. | |
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susannah said: JustErin said: Crushes are fun! I've never had one on a co-worker, though. It would definitely make my day a bit more interesting if I did. Erin, you never fail to shock! I've had... at least 8! Probably more! ranging in levels of seriousness, mostly resulting in nothing!
But That's a lot of crushes! I don't tend to just crush often because if I like someone I usually go for it and end up with them at some point (although I have one now and it's driving me nuts). Did I say crushes were fun?? Argh...now that I really think of it, I take it back. | |
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JustErin said: susannah said: Erin, you never fail to shock! I've had... at least 8! Probably more! ranging in levels of seriousness, mostly resulting in nothing!
But That's a lot of crushes! I don't tend to just crush often because if I like someone I usually go for it and end up with them at some point (although I have one now and it's driving me nuts). Did I say crushes were fun?? Argh...now that I really think of it, I take it back. I know what you mean! Crushes are soul destroying - but in a good way!! Lets see, there was From the first one when I was 16 in a department store, there was Neil, Lee, Evan, Antonio (kissed him ) *mind blank*... Nial, Andrew (almost got it on with him!) Gareth and the subject of the thread, who doesnt really count yet, Ryan!
Honorary mention to a crush at school, Kevin, which really was soul destroying...in a good way  | |
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