But they just won't leave you alone????

Like calling and calling. And showing up at your house. And leaving messages. And recalling and calling?

WTF?????

Like WHAT do you do?

GAWD!!!!!

buy a gun?

luv4all7 said:

for real? you get a restraining/protective order. otherwise bolt the door and emerge only at night, for food and other supplies

start writing love letters to jodie foster?

Make urself clear...tell 'em 2

read "the catcher in the rye" a lot?

look inside and ask yourself the tough questions... DO you indeed HATE everyone (very strong word) and if you find you do? WHY you feel that way

perhaps those are the questions you need to ask yourself

tell them that you are too busy ... posting at the ORG ... and ... also ... if they wanna talk to ya ... tell them to create an org name and converse with you here --- since that is your life from 9---- 5 .... he he

knick-knack, paddy-whack, give a dog a bone?

luv4all7 said:

Join a religious group and enjoy the company of like-minded individuals.

Justin1972UK said:

Justin1972UK said:

I'm actually talking about the members of my religious group.

I don't really HATE anyone. But like, don't people understand when ya wanna be left alone?

cborgman said:

SnidelyWhiplash said:

luv4all7 said:

It is!?!

Oh heck...thats gonna make me a regular...

go for a walk...exersize...get the negative energy out of your body. get spiritual

purplerein said:

Yeah, I seriously DO NOT have a negative bone in my body, but UGH lately I can't shake it. I have to get rid of these vibes. They're awful!

luv4all7 said:

get rid of the vibes by activity. it works

I was born that way

Teacher said:

Sometimes I wish I woulda been born that way too. It's my nature to see the positive in every situation. But if your wired to see the negative, it seems you can get by in life without ever really being let down or hurt.

luv4all7 said:

luv4all7 said:

It may seem that way but it's far from the truth - all it has gained me is the ability to not show the hurt on the outside and while I admit it's extremely handy at times, it's also made me vindictive and a real bitch at times. I'm working on being softer, nicer which translates as more confident and open with people but a lot of people don't cut you the slack cos of how you used to be. Then of course I CAN still be a frigging bitch, I like being vindictive and I suppose I enjoy hating too - it's a very warm feeling that'll keep the winter chill out. (please note this only goes for ME)

Teacher said:

Maybe a middle ground is the best. Like a perfect balance of both. I for one am SICK of being nice and thinking everyone else is just as nice. Don't EVER get like that. All it's gonna get you is a life full of what I have rite now. Waking up one morning and thinking, who are these people and why do I care about them in the first place. And EVERYONE is just so used to you being there for THEM that when it's your turn to need somebody your out in the cold.

luv4all7 said:

Sooooo... I give you some of my hate and you give me some of your nice?


I agree though, middle ground is best. Disconnect your phone and block your annoying MSN/Yahoo IM people for a few days, and tell people you'd REALLY like it if they called before showing up on your doorstep. You'll be ok then.

Teacher said:

K.

Teacher said:

Hey!!!...I can't org not Luv!!!...grrrr

i call in sick to work, cuz that's only going to make things worse.

Anx said:

At least your bathroom smells fresh!

purplerein said:

indeed, it smells like a garden of earthly delights.

Anx said:

Whatever guys. Tell me what to do about my dilema. I don't have a job. My job is raising two bratty kids, and I can't call in sick to that, now CAN I?????