Well? Is fear that common that you all must have something bothering you at any one time?



I'm scared I'm falling back into the black hole I've just pulled myself out of

losing any more loved ones

susannah said:

Don't you let that happen!

susannah said:

Back on the crack again???

I'm scared that my stray friend Steven is going to make a pass at me at some point soon. Well, I mean I'm scared that if he did, I'd go along with it - and it would be messy.

islamic extremism.

INSATIABLE said:

I am trying, because I've been there before and I can feel it coming...I hope I can stop it!

Justin1972UK said:

yeah, it probably would be. God I hate it when Real Life gets in the way! I wanna be a kid again

No, no crack!!

susannah said:

hang in there sweetie... you gotta remember how strong you are, ok?

Natisse said:

Zackly.

Natisse said:

Is there something on the cards? I sure hope not. I share that fear, definitely. makes this one (in the title) look like childs play...

INSATIABLE said:

I wonder why we've not had contact before last week... you are a real sweetheart and I want to get to know you better

susannah said:

no sweetie... just a fear that's always been juuuuust at the back of my mind

crab or lobster people attacking new york.

cborgman said:

omg

Natisse said:

When I felt this way before it was the first time in my life that I ever thought "maybe theres not light at the end of the tunnel after all..."

I had zero faith in my own strength. Im holding onto it this time.

If they want war, Ill give them war!

susannah said:

that's my girl!! there is ALWAYS light at the end of the tunnel, hon, sometimes it's just very very hard to see

susannah said:

I completely understand.

Take care of yourself NOW like you would if you were there and trying to pull out, and if you can, try to step away from the fear. Observe where you're at, observe the fear, try to face and accept it, and let it go. Because fear is bad for your brain/body chemistry.

Take care.

Natisse said:

it could happen. you just never know.

Natisse said:

Good Im glad! Dont worry honey, have faith in the grand plan, whatever version of it you believe, and whatever its gonna turn out to be.

Natisse said:

Yeah

WAR.

yeah





Maybe...

As for me, I'm afraid of money, and of not being able to take care of myself and having to ask for help.

cborgman said:

This guy is the Bin Laden of underwater terrorism...

HereToRockYourWorld said:

Thanks Im not sure how to confront it, that seems scary...when I accept things like this they get worse. Letting it go though, I like that bit!

to be honest though I didnt know how to pull myself out last time, I decided the way forward was to retreat and lick my wounds, when I learned that what I needed was to get out there and kick fuck out of it (sorry, Scots thing!)

I guess Im kinda licking wounds again, but thats not whats bothering me, its that I just want this emotional rollercoaster to end!

Im totally rambling, that doesnt even make sense in my head!

Thanks everyone for letting me lean on you

Justin1972UK said:

he's terrifying. who is he?

HereToRockYourWorld said:

That can be scary, but its one of those fears that completely dissappear when you are forced into that situation.

I dont know much about you, or how old you are, but this is my take I guess. That sounds to me like something we all have to deal with in our lives, just a matter of time. When you do, it will only be difficult the first time, then you'll undoubtedly have to deal with it again but I really think it will be easy then

cborgman said:

he looks like a marionette from the old Thunderbirds series.

cborgman said:

Hes from Stingray!! I love Stingray!

Dont know who he is though

Natisse said:

Wow! I'm not used to that one. My guess is that I come across like a real airhead/smartass on here? I can imagine what most think of me.

And I feel the same about you. You said you were coming to SoCal in the future on your way back to Sydney, right?

cborgman said:

It's Titan from the TV show, Stingray.

Have you never seen Stingray? It was string puppets underwater. One of the puppets was a mute mermaid called Aqua Marina who looked a bit like Julie Christie.

Justin1972UK said:

stingray sounds like a non-american thing.i watch a LOT of british tv, but have never seen it.