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A Racial difference... My friend and I (who happens to be white) were having a discussion about our perception of women. (I'm black) A girl would walk by the hall in our dorm;
"The girl would have; Huge breast, Nice, Big, Round Butt and a stomach that isn't totally flat, but she had a lil' pouch." What I would consider a Coke bottle shape. I thought she was ideal, besides the fact, that she's a nice girl, I thought her body was beautiful. My friend disagreed; he thought she was too big! "Another girl walked by; tall, slender, nice breast (about a B or C cup) She was very skinny, like most runway models. She didn't have much butt and you could see the outline of her hip and Pelvis bone." My friend said; "Now she's ideal!" I disagreed I thought she was anorexic looking, and I thought she needed to eat something. Still, she's a sweet girl also. My question is; I've noticed that Black Men and White Men have almost opposite tastes when it comes to Women in general. Black Men 'tend to' like their women with some meet on their bones (not obese, but what we call 'thick'). On the other hand, White Men 'tend to' like their Women thinner, yet curvy. Why is that...? It just amazes me how differently Races can view things. Here's an example; the link below is for adult eyes only... The girl that walked down the hall (first) was shaped like this. Is she fat? thick? just has a big butt...? http://www.scarlettsworld.com Click on 18 & over to view photos. Tell me what you think... by the way this is just a generalization. I'm not saying all white men like skinny women, nor the opposite. Blue Dont play me Blue | |
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This thread will end in tears or at the best attract sleazy generalisations.
You know how things are and you know the drill. | |
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Good job you posted in "associated artists", nobody will see it. | |
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Racial thing is nonsense...give me thick over stick anyday.
Scarlett has TOO much back there however... | |
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origmnd said:[
Scarlett has TOO much back there however...[/quote] Does she really Orig.? I'm glad you like them thick Blue Blue | |
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TheBluePrince said: origmnd said:[
Scarlett has TOO much back there however... Does she really Orig.? I'm glad you like them thick Blue[/quote] ...and I'm white | |
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origmnd said: TheBluePrince said: origmnd said:[
Scarlett has TOO much back there however... Does she really Orig.? I'm glad you like them thick Blue ...and I'm white[/quote] Right on! Blue | |
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I like 'em fat, I like 'em proud! | |
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i would click on this link, as i see my name UP here!! but i think i'll wait!!
anything i should know??? ~Live Free ... Be Wyld~AlwaysOnlyMakeBelieve - LiveUrLyfe... laissez le bon temps rouler...vivre sans être sauvage...हमेशा ही बना विश्वास ~Change and do so CONSTANTLY... | |
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ScarLett said: i would click on this link, as i see my name UP here!! but i think i'll wait!!
anything i should know??? You should know that if you're Scarlett the pornstar BluePrince is going to stalk you! hehehe | |
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Ok, so its NOT me.. heh heh
but i wonder why everyone seems to be using my double TT's in scarlet, as there technically only ONE. oh ladeeDA... thanks Essence!! ~Live Free ... Be Wyld~AlwaysOnlyMakeBelieve - LiveUrLyfe... laissez le bon temps rouler...vivre sans être sauvage...हमेशा ही बना विश्वास ~Change and do so CONSTANTLY... | |
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I'm not going to stalk you Scarlett. Where do you live again...? Org Note me
I'm kiddin Scarlett isn't her real name anyway, she'd really have stalkers Blue Dont play me Blue | |
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TheBluePrince said: My friend and I (who happens to be white) were having a discussion about our perception of women. (I'm black) A girl would walk by the hall in our dorm;
"The girl would have; Huge breast, Nice, Big, Round Butt and a stomach that isn't totally flat, but she had a lil' pouch." What I would consider a Coke bottle shape. I thought she was ideal, besides the fact, that she's a nice girl, I thought her body was beautiful. My friend disagreed; he thought she was too big! "Another girl walked by; tall, slender, nice breast (about a B or C cup) She was very skinny, like most runway models. She didn't have much butt and you could see the outline of her hip and Pelvis bone." My friend said; "Now she's ideal!" I disagreed I thought she was anorexic looking, and I thought she needed to eat something. Still, she's a sweet girl also. My question is; I've noticed that Black Men and White Men have almost opposite tastes when it comes to Women in general. Black Men 'tend to' like their women with some meet on their bones (not obese, but what we call 'thick'). On the other hand, White Men 'tend to' like their Women thinner, yet curvy. Why is that...? It just amazes me how differently Races can view things. Here's an example; [color=red:dace6ee645:7ba099c6d8]the link below is for adult eyes only... The girl that walked down the hall (first) was shaped like this. Is she fat? thick? just has a big butt...? http://www.scarlettsworld.com Click on 18 & over to view photos. Tell me what you think... by the way this is just a generalization. I'm not saying all white men like skinny women, nor the opposite. Blue Dont play me Colored folks are alike, white ppl are the most different ones. Arabic men like her chubby(Or should I say healthy) with a big butt and the don't like 'em THIN at all, same thang goes with brothas, same thang goes with Latinos. But whites are THE ONLIEST when it comes 2 their taste toward women, thats why you find their women get depressed when they gain weight. Shit, that issue sometime lead them to SUICIDE . While our women(Colored) have more self-esteem, they don't take these things too seriously becoz they already knew that if the inside is beautiful then the outside will be, but if the inside is not then no matta what you do it won't be in the outside. They also know that their men will love 'em no matta how they look. | |
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Harlepolis said: Colored folks are alike, white ppl are the most different ones. Arabic men like her chubby(Or should I say healthy) with a big butt and the don't like 'em THIN at all, same thang goes with brothas, same thang goes with Latinos. But whites are THE ONLIEST when it comes 2 their taste toward women, thats why you find their women get depressed when they gain weight. Shit, that issue sometime lead them to SUICIDE . While our women(Colored) have more self-esteem, they don't take these things too seriously becoz they already knew that if the inside is beautiful then the outside will be, but if the inside is not then no matta what you do it won't be in the outside. They also know that their men will love 'em no matta how they look. ??? Are you sure about that one? I will agree that the weight issue in the African-American community may not be as big as it is in the white community. However that being said, there are plenty of women of color who do not feel that a man will love them not matter how they look. There is still alot of self-hatred going on both sides of the color lines. | |
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I'm feeling like I've already responded to his thread but yes, women of color have less body image issues than white women but at the same time there are plenty of black women (me included) who are not happy with our bodies. We just don't want to be a twig but we still don't want to be in the bbw category. | |
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i only read the first paragraph, but i know whatyou're sayin...
my best friend, of many years, is white,from alaska. his ideal woman would be one of those 'new york slim' what's that word???ANA-RET-SICK ass females, but in hangin with me, i've noticed that, that is just his IDEAL... to continue, i pointed out that my fellings toward that were that, one only serves to limit ones-self by holding to such standards, and alot of the women who spend their time in the persuit of the 5'7"@75lbs, really ain't that nice to others... THE BEST WOMEN, COME IN ALL SIZES!!! but i am way too skinny to mess with the extra-extra jumbo size 5'5" 350lbs BUT WE CAN BE FRIENDS!!! [This message was edited Mon Aug 26 7:20:44 PDT 2002 by 00769BAD] I AM King BAD a.k.a. BAD,
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There is some truth to these generalizations but at the same time I notice white women at clubs, etc. with bigger booties all the time who are flauntin' and hookin up with black folk.
I think pop culture (especially with J-Lo) is moving the ideal women's body away from the skinny, cosmopolitan look. | |
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I'm thin and I never got picked over for some woman who had anything bigger than me.
I'm a b cup wear a size 5/6 standing at 5'6. To me some people only pick women with meat is because they like to eat and they give heat when needed. But always remember it's us thin people that do some things to you in a bed that a thick person can't do. I'm BAD's FIRST BORN Baby Girl
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purplechild25 said: I'm thin and I never got picked over for some woman who had anything bigger than me.
I'm a b cup wear a size 5/6 standing at 5'6. To me some people only pick women with meat is because they like to eat and they give heat when needed. But always remember it's us thin people that do some things to you in a bed that a thick person can't do. That's mah baby!!! GOSH... THEY GROW UP SOOO FASST!!! I AM King BAD a.k.a. BAD,
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purplechild25 said: I'm thin and I never got picked over for some woman who had anything bigger than me.
I'm a b cup wear a size 5/6 standing at 5'6. To me some people only pick women with meat is because they like to eat and they give heat when needed. But always remember it's us thin people that do some things to you in a bed that a thick person can't do. Well, I personally know some thick women (150-175lbs) that can do some pretty agile things in bed. When you're comfortable with your body, you can do almost anything. You have to take into account that, some women have a petite skeletal structure, and they gain excesive amounts of weight. That person might not be that athletic. But some women are born thick, and have been thick all their lives. They might be 175lbs but their stomach doesn't hand over the belt, their arms aren't flabby, and their ass is huge but doesn't sag. Thick, fat, obese, overweight; those are all different. and the whole "they like to eat, and are good for heat" thing, that's a lil obnoxious and immature. Blue Drink Blue Kool-aid Blue | |
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Gee, I guess my scrawny, white ass will never get a black man.
I happen to know several black guys who prefer white women. But I don't suppose it matters. I'm simply a 5'9", 117 pound white chick with no chest or ass, who has a Russian (who, yes, I know bkw will say 'who looks like a girl' ). At any rate, this thread is one big stereotype post. Black men "prefer" thick women. White men "prefer" anorexic looking white chicks. -------
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I'm a 'white guy' and I like curvy women.
Perhaps there are some cultural contributors as to differing perceptions of beauty, but mostly I find it comes down to generalisations and stereotypes. Rather than citing a racial difference I would point to the media as a large influence upon such perceptions. Much of the media blatantly promotes the 'idea' and appearance of beauty as an ideal or as the truth. | |
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BattierBeMyDaddy said: At any rate, this thread is one big stereotype post. Black men "prefer" thick women. White men "prefer" anorexic looking white chicks.
I didn't say that It's not a stereotype thread, read it again... Blue Drink Blue Kool-aid Blue | |
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BattierBeMyDaddy said: Gee, I guess my scrawny, white ass will never get a black man.
I happen to know several black guys who prefer white women. But I don't suppose it matters. I'm simply a 5'9", 117 pound white chick with no chest or ass, who has a Russian (who, yes, I know bkw will say 'who looks like a girl' ). At any rate, this thread is one big stereotype post. Black men "prefer" thick women. White men "prefer" anorexic looking white chicks. This thread isn't about black guys who prefer white girls...or whatever. (which sounds like you really wanted to get that in) This was about body type...and culture does have something to do with it along with the media. You'll even find with HIP HOP being so popular now that you'll find more white males desiring more curvy women...only based on the videos and hip hop culture. But thanks for getting that in though...I had no idea that some black men preferred white woman (thinkin' of my brother and very white sister inlaw with my very beige nephew...gigglin'...but she does have a big though) | |
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Rhonda is FINE!!
Beautiful lips...! Beautiful mind and persona... I'm in Blue Drink Blue Kool-aid Blue | |
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Interesting topic!
I am neither thick nor thin, certainly not hour glass shaped, and I tend to attract more black men than I do white, or latin. They say it is in my eyes, and smile and heart! Yea sure! ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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sag10 said: Interesting topic!
I am neither thick nor thin, certainly not hour glass shaped, and I tend to attract more black men than I do white, or latin. They say it is in my eyes, and smile and heart! Yea sure! it is in dem eyez, and that smile... and me being a good judge of , i'll bettcha it's also in that . QWITE DA LOVERLY LADY!!! I AM King BAD a.k.a. BAD,
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hey sag, i know what its in... and so does soNso...
in my part of the world, i see more black guys (yep) with white gurls (i'm not hating) - and it doesn't matter what they look like, thats the part thats just insane, fine ass men - with scary ass women, can someone please Xplain that to me... ~Live Free ... Be Wyld~AlwaysOnlyMakeBelieve - LiveUrLyfe... laissez le bon temps rouler...vivre sans être sauvage...हमेशा ही बना विश्वास ~Change and do so CONSTANTLY... | |
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ScarLett said: hey sag, i know what its in... and so does soNso...
in my part of the world, i see more black guys (yep) with white gurls (i'm not hating) - and it doesn't matter what they look like, thats the part thats just insane, fine ass men - with scary ass women, can someone please Xplain that to me... I don't understand that either Scarlett. The women must have some bling bling. | |
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TheBluePrince said: Rhonda is FINE!!
Beautiful lips...! Beautiful mind and persona... I'm in Blue Drink Blue Kool-aid gigglin' btw, how did this thread turn into black guys and white girls.. | |
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