*Gonna run over to the photo thread and see who was complimented on their photos!*

I'm assuming that you're talking about you in the latter part of your post and I guess I can see where some may have said that about/to you, only because of the scads of photos that have been posted.

I don't get the impression that you post your photos because you think you are better than everyone else and showing off, I get the impression that you need validation that you are pretty because maybe you don't feel that way and/or perhaps you aren't getting compliments that you desire from another. Just my impression, not trying to judge, analyze, or say that's what it is.

With that being said, I think you are very pretty and I dig your photos. You have very cute kids, too. By my saying that you're pretty and that I dig your photos I am not saying that you are ugly.

I don't come here very often anymore, and when I do, I rarely post, so I hope you don't take this post as bitchy comment from someone who doesn't interact on here. Just expressing my thoughts on this and like JustErin said, it doesn't really matter why you post your photos on here or why anyone does. Keep doin' what you're doin' and enjoy it for what it is.

*shrug*

One last thought and I'll wrap up this epic post:

I also have never felt that compliments that others get is because they are "ugly". I think that most people here are rather genuine in their comments to others on here. What may not be pleasing to your eye may be pleasing to another and, sometimes, what people see is the beauty that they've come to know in another and not so much their physical appearance - knock-yer-socks off gorgeous or not.

*Gonna run over to the photo thread and see who was complimented on their photos!*

I'm assuming that you're talking about you in the latter part of your post and I guess I can see where some may have said that about/to you, only because of the scads of photos that have been posted.

I don't get the impression that you post your photos because you think you are better than everyone else and showing off, I get the impression that you need validation that you are pretty because maybe you don't feel that way and/or perhaps you aren't getting compliments that you desire from another. Just my impression, not trying to judge, analyze, or say that's what it is.

With that being said, I think you are very pretty and I dig your photos. You have very cute kids, too. By my saying that you're pretty and that I dig your photos I am not saying that you are ugly.

I don't come here very often anymore, and when I do, I rarely post, so I hope you don't take this post as bitchy comment from someone who doesn't interact on here. Just expressing my thoughts on this and like JustErin said, it doesn't really matter why you post your photos on here or why anyone does. Keep doin' what you're doin' and enjoy it for what it is.

*shrug*

One last thought and I'll wrap up this epic post:

I also have never felt that compliments that others get is because they are "ugly". I think that most people here are rather genuine in their comments to others on here. What may not be pleasing to your eye may be pleasing to another and, sometimes, what people see is the beauty that they've come to know in another and not so much their physical appearance - knock-yer-socks off gorgeous or not.

Ok, so you didn't give an answer to the question I asked but we all now know that you feel that people should not post pics of themselves or their family on the regular. That's cool. I was just interested in seeing what people had to say in response to my question.

But to answer your question, I'm sure that there are plenty of people on here that are very insecure and do feel that they need attention from others to make them feel better about themselves, just as I am sure that there are some people who just like to post pictures to joke around or share a little bit of themselves with the org. What's really wrong with either reason for doing it?

In fact, (and I have said this before on here) you could actually say that anyone that posts on the org is looking for attention - including you.

And I see nothing wrong with that.

So yanno what I noticed today about this place? With a little help from some friends, that is, cuz I'm pretty dumb at times. So sometimes I need help with the words. So here, this is what I noticed!





The funniest part about this whole posting pics thing is, if you are ugly and a photowhore, you are told you are beautiful and an amazing person and your pics are great.

If you are attractive and a photowhore, you are a conceited, snobby bitch who thinks they are better than everyone else and is just showing off your looks.

This place is so funny

i find it interesting that it can seem about the physical "looks"

some of the most beautiful people i know are not society's beauty queens

same goes for "ugliness"... some of the so called pretty people are only that on the exterior

Fuck.

Fuck.

What?

You mean "who".

i agree also. also i guess it can't be helped but i'm just tired of the whole fixation on looks, the shallowness. it goes away in the end anyways man i dont know what to say about this thread, oh good grief just gag me with a spoon!

i agree

i agree

Do looks really go away in the end? I don't think so.

Everyone ages and may not look as good as they used to but people still can look amazing at an old age.

i though she meant "the fixation ON looks" goes away

i know for myself that after about the age of 25 or so... thhe whole "looks fixation" faded and i grew to see inner beauty deeper and the older i get them more important to me THAT is then being a "cutie" or what ever ...

i though she meant "the fixation ON looks" goes away

i know for myself that after about the age of 25 or so... thhe whole "looks fixation" faded and i grew to see inner beauty deeper and the older i get them more important to me THAT is then being a "cutie" or what ever ...