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PrintableJustErin said: This thread kinda reminds me of the "can you dislike someone that is attractive without being labeled 'jealous'". Same kinda deal I think, but the flipside.
Can someone that is considered attractive by many be just sharing pictures like everyone else is or are they just automatically labeled a "show off" or someone that thinks that they are all that? heres a thought, just dont post pictures every other week or so. I dont see why people would want to post dozens of pics of themselves regulary on a website? Are people that insecure that they need a automated "u r so hot" response to make them feel better? | |
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thesexofit said: JustErin said: This thread kinda reminds me of the "can you dislike someone that is attractive without being labeled 'jealous'". Same kinda deal I think, but the flipside.
Can someone that is considered attractive by many be just sharing pictures like everyone else is or are they just automatically labeled a "show off" or someone that thinks that they are all that? heres a thought, just dont post pictures every other week or so. I dont see why people would want to post dozens of pics of themselves regulary on a website? Are people that insecure that they need a automated "u r so hot" response to make them feel better? I have an idea. Why don't we just post pics. And others just not talk for a couple weeks. Are people that insecure that they havce to TALK all the time? | |
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abierman said: 
You are beautiful and an amazing person and your pics are great. 
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which one are u then? The ugly photowhore who everyone loves or the gorgeous vein, snobby one?
I dont get the problem? Just dont post pictures. I have no idea if u do post pics on here everyday, but why post exessive ammounts of pictures that even ur own family would probably find boring? luv4all7 said: thesexofit said: heres a thought, just dont post pictures every other week or so. I dont see why people would want to post dozens of pics of themselves regulary on a website? Are people that insecure that they need a automated "u r so hot" response to make them feel better? I have an idea. Why don't we just post pics. And others just not talk for a couple weeks. Are people that insecure that they havce to TALK all the time? [Edited 9/12/06 18:05pm] | |
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luv4all7 said: I have an idea. Why don't we just post pics. And others just not talk for a couple weeks. Are people that insecure that they havce to TALK all the time? 
dan just called me an insecure whore! lurking mother fucker! | |
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thesexofit said: JustErin said: This thread kinda reminds me of the "can you dislike someone that is attractive without being labeled 'jealous'". Same kinda deal I think, but the flipside.
Can someone that is considered attractive by many be just sharing pictures like everyone else is or are they just automatically labeled a "show off" or someone that thinks that they are all that? heres a thought, just dont post pictures every other week or so. I dont see why people would want to post dozens of pics of themselves regulary on a website? Are people that insecure that they need a automated "u r so hot" response to make them feel better? Ok, so you didn't give an answer to the question I asked but we all now know that you feel that people should not post pics of themselves or their family on the regular. That's cool. I was just interested in seeing what people had to say in response to my question. But to answer your question, I'm sure that there are plenty of people on here that are very insecure and do feel that they need attention from others to make them feel better about themselves, just as I am sure that there are some people who just like to post pictures to joke around or share a little bit of themselves with the org. What's really wrong with either reason for doing it? In fact, (and I have said this before on here) you could actually say that anyone that posts on the org is looking for attention - including you. And I see nothing wrong with that. | |
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moderatorJustErin said: thesexofit said: heres a thought, just dont post pictures every other week or so. I dont see why people would want to post dozens of pics of themselves regulary on a website? Are people that insecure that they need a automated "u r so hot" response to make them feel better? Ok, so you didn't give an answer to the question I asked but we all now know that you feel that people should not post pics of themselves or their family on the regular. That's cool. I was just interested in seeing what people had to say in response to my question. But to answer your question, I'm sure that there are plenty of people on here that are very insecure and do feel that they need attention from others to make them feel better about themselves, just as I am sure that there are some people who just like to post pictures to joke around or share a little bit of themselves with the org. What's really wrong with either reason for doing it? In fact, (and I have said this before on here) you could actually say that anyone that posts on the org is looking for attention - including you. And I see nothing wrong with that. I probably meant to quote luv4all7. Sorry Yeah, if u want to get all pedantic we are all here to express ourselves somewhat. But i (and most of us probably) are only here to pass time for one reason or another. Key word here is moderation. If i was on here everyday, all day, i would call that obsessive. If someone posts pics everyday all day, ditto. | |
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Personally, I can't get enough pics of luv4all7.... 
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thesexofit said: JustErin said: Ok, so you didn't give an answer to the question I asked but we all now know that you feel that people should not post pics of themselves or their family on the regular. That's cool. I was just interested in seeing what people had to say in response to my question. But to answer your question, I'm sure that there are plenty of people on here that are very insecure and do feel that they need attention from others to make them feel better about themselves, just as I am sure that there are some people who just like to post pictures to joke around or share a little bit of themselves with the org. What's really wrong with either reason for doing it? In fact, (and I have said this before on here) you could actually say that anyone that posts on the org is looking for attention - including you. And I see nothing wrong with that. I probably meant to quote luv4all7. Sorry Yeah, if u want to get all pedantic we are all here to express ourselves somewhat. But i (and most of us probably) are only here to pass time for one reason or another. Key word here is moderation. If i was on here everyday, all day, i would call that obsessive. If someone posts pics everyday all day, ditto. I guess I would be someone that you would label "obsessive". I don't post pictures every day, but I certainly am on here every day. It's totally a time passer for me and I actually have fun and enjoy this site, that's why I am here. I'm a stay at home (single) mom right now and to be honest I don't have the opportunity to get out that much, or even interact with my friends on a regular basis, like most people get to do. Plus I hate TV so I'd rather be online when I have free time away from my son. So for now, until my son is a little older and I go back to work and get back to having a real social life, this is something I enjoy doing, and will continue to do on the reg.  | |
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luv4all7 said: The funniest part about this whole posting pics thing is, if you are ugly and a photowhore, you are told you are beautiful and an amazing person and your pics are great. I'm figuring you must have some specific orgers in mind when posting this. Care to name?  | |
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thesexofit said: JustErin said: Ok, so you didn't give an answer to the question I asked but we all now know that you feel that people should not post pics of themselves or their family on the regular. That's cool. I was just interested in seeing what people had to say in response to my question. But to answer your question, I'm sure that there are plenty of people on here that are very insecure and do feel that they need attention from others to make them feel better about themselves, just as I am sure that there are some people who just like to post pictures to joke around or share a little bit of themselves with the org. What's really wrong with either reason for doing it? In fact, (and I have said this before on here) you could actually say that anyone that posts on the org is looking for attention - including you. And I see nothing wrong with that. I probably meant to quote luv4all7. Sorry Yeah, if u want to get all pedantic we are all here to express ourselves somewhat. But i (and most of us probably) are only here to pass time for one reason or another. Key word here is moderation. If i was on here everyday, all day, i would call that obsessive. If someone posts pics everyday all day, ditto. I know where you're coming from, but it seems you're always bugging out about something here on the org, be it the cliques or people photowhoring or something else, and I wonder why it all bothers you so. There's nothing you can do about it anyway, so unless you truly need to post about it to release some frustration, it's probably better to just let it slide off your back and let it be. You're talking about the actions of other people you cannot control. If there are too many of such people doing things you dislike you have to decide whether you still want to be a member here. If you want to stay, just let it go dude! | |
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mrdespues said: You are always so vague, mrdespues! What exactly is making you wanna puke? | |
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JustErin said: mrdespues said: You are always so vague, mrdespues! What exactly is making you wanna puke?  | |
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JustErin said: thesexofit said: I probably meant to quote luv4all7. Sorry Yeah, if u want to get all pedantic we are all here to express ourselves somewhat. But i (and most of us probably) are only here to pass time for one reason or another. Key word here is moderation. If i was on here everyday, all day, i would call that obsessive. If someone posts pics everyday all day, ditto. I guess I would be someone that you would label "obsessive". I don't post pictures every day, but I certainly am on here every day. It's totally a time passer for me and I actually have fun and enjoy this site, that's why I am here. I'm a stay at home (single) mom right now and to be honest I don't have the opportunity to get out that much, or even interact with my friends on a regular basis, like most people get to do. Plus I hate TV so I'd rather be online when I have free time away from my son. So for now, until my son is a little older and I go back to work and get back to having a real social life, this is something I enjoy doing, and will continue to do on the reg. Well, i bet when u were my age (20), the last place u'd be would be on here, so even though i, in general am only on here, say, about 2-3 times a week on average, to me, thats still quite sad. Its also a time passer for me. It does beat watching tv, and as the nights draw in and my summer overtime is gone, iam gonna be on here more probably 
an addiction to the org would not obviously do u any harm. It should not affect friendships, or work though, but iam sure, in ur case, it doesn't. I hate to sound cendesending, but it must be tough in ur situation. | |
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mrdespues said: JustErin said: You are always so vague, mrdespues! What exactly is making you wanna puke? Um, no. Several people have posted in this thread. Your vomit emoticon could have been for anyone. You're so passive-aggressive all the time. You should just come out and say it or just not say anything at all. Actually wait...who the hell am I to tell you what you should or shouldn't do? Keep doing whatever it is that you want to do.  | |
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Fauxie said: thesexofit said: I probably meant to quote luv4all7. Sorry Yeah, if u want to get all pedantic we are all here to express ourselves somewhat. But i (and most of us probably) are only here to pass time for one reason or another. Key word here is moderation. If i was on here everyday, all day, i would call that obsessive. If someone posts pics everyday all day, ditto. I know where you're coming from, but it seems you're always bugging out about something here on the org, be it the cliques or people photowhoring or something else, and I wonder why it all bothers you so. There's nothing you can do about it anyway, so unless you truly need to post about it to release some frustration, it's probably better to just let it slide off your back and let it be. You're talking about the actions of other people you cannot control. If there are too many of such people doing things you dislike you have to decide whether you still want to be a member here. If you want to stay, just let it go dude! I dont even have trouble with whoever is "photowhoring". I was just adressing that why post zillions of pics and then get all huffy when someone doesn't like it? It seems inevitable that, that may happen. Cliques on the other hand.....yes they or it is annoying. And i must admit, now that imago has gone, it probably wont seem as noticable. | |
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purplerein said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: I'm all of the above.
M only if you have tattoos on your back Doh!!!!! M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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abierman said:
I'm a conceited, snobby bitch..... Dare I say it? You look SAINTLY in that pic. Can someone please photoshop a halo above his head? M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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thesexofit said: JustErin said: I guess I would be someone that you would label "obsessive". I don't post pictures every day, but I certainly am on here every day. It's totally a time passer for me and I actually have fun and enjoy this site, that's why I am here. I'm a stay at home (single) mom right now and to be honest I don't have the opportunity to get out that much, or even interact with my friends on a regular basis, like most people get to do. Plus I hate TV so I'd rather be online when I have free time away from my son. So for now, until my son is a little older and I go back to work and get back to having a real social life, this is something I enjoy doing, and will continue to do on the reg. Well, i bet when u were my age (20), the last place u'd be would be on here, so even though i, in general am only on here, say, about 2-3 times a week on average, to me, thats still quite sad. Its also a time passer for me. It does beat watching tv, and as the nights draw in and my summer overtime is gone, iam gonna be on here more probably
an addiction to the org would not obviously do u any harm. It should not affect friendships, or work though, but iam sure, in ur case, it doesn't. I hate to sound cendesending, but it must be tough in ur situation. I barely came on here and never even made a single post until I had my son and he was old enough for me to have some spare time every now and then. It's not so tough, we're doing ok. I just sometimes miss having my old social life. | |
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Guys, dolls...pls...can I just have 1 more photo...   | |
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JustErin said: mrdespues said: Um, no. Several people have posted in this thread. Your vomit emoticon could have been for anyone. You're so passive-aggressive all the time. You should just come out and say it or just not say anything at all. Actually wait...who the hell am I to tell you what you should or shouldn't do? Keep doing whatever it is that you want to do. Alrighty then. Lemme spell it out for ya. When someone doesn't use the "quote" feature, it usually means they are responding to the initial post. 
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JustErin said: thesexofit said: Well, i bet when u were my age (20), the last place u'd be would be on here, so even though i, in general am only on here, say, about 2-3 times a week on average, to me, thats still quite sad. Its also a time passer for me. It does beat watching tv, and as the nights draw in and my summer overtime is gone, iam gonna be on here more probably
an addiction to the org would not obviously do u any harm. It should not affect friendships, or work though, but iam sure, in ur case, it doesn't. I hate to sound cendesending, but it must be tough in ur situation. I barely came on here and never even made a single post until I had my son and he was old enough for me to have some spare time every now and then. It's not so tough, we're doing ok. I just sometimes miss having my old social life. Based on what u've said, u sound like a really good person, sacrificing friends etc... for ur son. Ur kid is lucky. | |
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mrdespues said: JustErin said: Um, no. Several people have posted in this thread. Your vomit emoticon could have been for anyone. You're so passive-aggressive all the time. You should just come out and say it or just not say anything at all. Actually wait...who the hell am I to tell you what you should or shouldn't do? Keep doing whatever it is that you want to do. Alrighty then. Lemme spell it out for ya. When someone doesn't use the "quote" feature, it usually means they are responding to the intial post. Oh ok, I didn't know/realize that. Thanks for letting me know. | |
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JustErin said: mrdespues said: Alrighty then. Lemme spell it out for ya. When someone doesn't use the "quote" feature, it usually means they are responding to the intial post. Oh ok, I didn't know/realize that. Thanks for letting me know. No worries. | |
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I told you that you wouldn't like what I had to say.
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thesexofit said: Fauxie said: I know where you're coming from, but it seems you're always bugging out about something here on the org, be it the cliques or people photowhoring or something else, and I wonder why it all bothers you so. There's nothing you can do about it anyway, so unless you truly need to post about it to release some frustration, it's probably better to just let it slide off your back and let it be. You're talking about the actions of other people you cannot control. If there are too many of such people doing things you dislike you have to decide whether you still want to be a member here. If you want to stay, just let it go dude! I dont even have trouble with whoever is "photowhoring". I was just adressing that why post zillions of pics and then get all huffy when someone doesn't like it? It seems inevitable that, that may happen. Cliques on the other hand.....yes they or it is annoying. And i must admit, now that imago has gone, it probably wont seem as noticable. You mean with him no longer a member here that means you won't notice the 5 daily threads about him? | |
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Oh wait, luv4all7, and who did you specifically have in mind when you said 'attractive and a photowhore'?
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