What's the longest span of time you've had between meeting a guy and going out with him?

kidelrich said:

You mean sex?

I don't understand WHAT you mean.

kidelrich said:

2 yrs ..some random months

Mach said:

Why is Mach the only one who understands me?

JustErin said:

I just meant coupling up. But go with it and give an answer.

kidelrich said:

What do you mean, seriously, by coupling?

kidelrich said:

Sex = a few hours (although we talked a lot before going on our first date)

Exclusivity = a few weeks

JustErin said:

Very well. Is your avatar from Aqua Teen?

luv4all7 said:

When you become a couple, as in boyfriend/girlfriend.

kidelrich said:

No, it's shifty eyed dog from The Simpsons.

I was told I've got shifty eyes.

Luv, he means how long do you wait after you starting to see a guy before you stop dating anyone else (I think).

omg...I don't think that sentence made much sense.

Nope, it totally didn't.
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You know the problem with girl having sex the first night ?





























You have to wait the all afternoon.

about a year

Just remember that anyone who has sex within a few hours of meeting each other is a whore and probably carries a venereal disease. man or woman I'm sure there's statistics out there somewhere which mention "whore" and "VD"

kidelrich said:

your question was simply stated

JustErin said:

That's the longest it's ever taken you?

I'm the same... I wouldn't wait for weeks before I couple up. If sex is not good enough, I move on and keep the guy as a friend if he's a great person. I made the mistake to marry someone I hadn't fun with, we divorced after 6 years.

I met my boyfriend three years ago and after a few minutes I knew it was just a question of time (more hours than monthes) before we get in bed. I took a week off and we discovered each other. I have a family, friends, I had plenty of love but sex is what I need from my partner.

It might be superficial, impassioned, whatever... We're still together and love each other.

FunkMistress said:

Oops, shit, I guess I didn't answer the longest in regards to sex, that would be the shortest .

I'd say longest I waited in regards to sex was about a week, maybe two and to be exclusive was a few weeks.

Not waiting very long is more the norm for me.

The longest could be 18 years...

JustErin said:

I really just meant going out with someone. From the time you first met them to going out with them. Like maybe they were just a friend for awhile.

kidelrich said:

The friends that I have hooked up with remained just friends and we did not start dating or anything along those lines.

JustErin said:

We aren't similar in that regard.

Hey Kidel....does this kinda feedback help?...as an old married fart, it doesnt matter to me..but does asking these fine ladies help yuo?

purplerein said:

I dunno. It's more for shits n giggles, ya know? Or like on that game show when they ask the audience what they think, to narrow down the choices.

kidelrich said:

I think we are different in a lot of ways, to be honest.

We do, however, have the same kind of sense of humour.

JustErin said:

Yes, we are so different. But I think we could hang. So, not that different. Sense of humor is the most important thing with friends anyways.

I crushed on my first boyfriend about 2 years before we got together and then we were together 5 years. Once we hooked up it was pretty exclusive straight away though. But we were just innocent kids!