GaryTheNoTrashCougar said:

I've read somewhere about a technology with salt water .

But, if they wear a low cut blouse, but get mad if some guy is staring at her tata's, she is not allowed to ever be offended, or cover those puppies and call yourself a nun.

yes

2freaky4church1 said:

No, I mean it, cheer up.

I feel like if I had bigger boobs I'd look more porportionate...but whatever I've never been that comfortable beeing pear shaped but I find my confidence goes up when people praise me for my company or intelligence or how fun I am to be around. Then I feel more confident...but then if a guy really likes your breasts you feel really proud of them because it is naturally you...not sure how girls with fake breasts feel when a man praises their breasts..but if I had them and guys were praising me for my implants I don't know if that would be such a compliment to me...sometimes implants can look great on the right woman but sometimes they look really obnioxious to me. And the people who like that look I find slightly annoying too. Nothing against them or anything...I have plenty of friends with breast implants...and actually alot of them are kinda insecure.

I just think implants wouldn't suit me. It wouldn't go with my personality very well. Though I can't say I always like the look and shape of my breasts but sometimes imperfecitons can be super charming. I know that sounds like blah blah blah but the older I get the more I see that is true....women how want to be perfect and don't have any personalities start really showing their true colors they just make me think "They aren't as hot as I once thought they were.." and their imperfections become magnified...when some girl is pretty but really just blends in...and I know her and love her energy and her whole essance..she just starts looking sexier and sexier.

Bigger boobs mean that you just get more men staring at you. If that's what turn's u on, then fine.....

ConsciousContact said:

thank you.

I think my wife would like hers a little smaller if possible. I guess it's nice for her as a Thai to have them as it's something a little different, but still. I think she'd trade them in for a good old b cup.

Someone once told me that "anything more than a handful is wasted"....

So my answer is "no"....

obsessed said:

I need to find guys with bigger hands

ZombieKitten said:

Krystal666 said:

I am in the same boat as you.. I try to be thankful for being a pear and not an apple
I am also trying to love what I have and stop wishing for things that I do not.. I have always been told that my breasts are the perfect size for the rest of my body. Somedays I feel like I am happy with my breasts the way they are then other times I wish I had a little more but I would not go to the extreme of having surgery to make them bigger...I have much more important things to spend my money on.
[Edited 9/10/06 5:14am]

Shanti1 said:

Yeah I know. It such a waste of effort worrying about things I can't change about myself. And plus I think if you are just naturally you you kinda know who really likes and appreciates you, you kinda seperate the wheat from the shaft so to speak because they accept you for who you are. If someone would like you for having fake tits or bigger tits or something but find you unattractive if you were just yourself...do you REALLY want to like them? I mean I would kinda resent that conditional attention. Who the hell are THEY? Why do you want to please them? When you are emotionally immature and younger I think any sort of rejection is almost tramatic...don't get me wrong rejection sux but you have to remember that their is your loss if someone doesn't accept you. Some people just don't jive together I guess and that isn't your fault you are being true to yourself so if someone doesn't understand it, oh well. Plus why do you want their acceptance? I mean does their opinion matter more than someone who finds you facinating? Are they more highly evolved human beings?

I think in society now breast implants are so common and acceptable that they have changed alot of people's views on asthetics. Which is fine, I'm not knocking them...women really should have the choice to do whatever they want with their look. Plus I have breasts (maybe not as big as I'd like them to be) but who am I to tell a woman with small breasts that implants are wrong? Their not wrong if they are right for her. But as with anything their are things that come along with that....people do get a certain idea about a woman who chooses to get implants...some people judge them and don't take them seriously, some people think they are bimbos, some people think the woman is trying too hard...and then some men think fake breasts look idea, modern, fashionable....so whatever you choose to do make sure that you can accept the people that are going to be attracted to you as well as those who will make preconcived notions about your choice. But if you think it suits your personality then I think it is a good choice.

One more thing on imperfections...to me attraction is not just physical...a connection of the mind and chemistry turn me on tremendously (I understand alot of people are not like me though but there are some that are. Alot of people are very physically fixed when it comes to sexuality. But for me a good looking man doesn't really "turn me on" unless I get a sense of who he is.) Let's take Prince for example...alot of people think he is too short, or his frame is too small, or his head isn't as porprotioned right to his body, or his pecs are not developed enough...but to me these are actually very sexy attributes of his...I can't think of a man that turns me on more than him...his percived imperfections are very intriguing and exciting to me just because I find him so sexy and I love what he stands for. So you never know, you may see a physical attribute as a flaw but if you turn another person on they may find it unique and erotic. People who try to be as physically perfect as they can be run the risk of being unbalanced in their personalities, intellect, spirtuality or whatever eles makes a human being sexy. Well, at least to me.

I like my big boobs, I wouldn't change them.

Well, maybe a lift will be needed when I am older.

i worked on the 3M breast implant litigation. i've seen photos of what can happen with implants and it'll make you chuck your breakfast.

imo there is nothing at all "beautiful" about unnecessary surgery to make breasts bigger, even when the result is a huge pair of knockers. .

the fact that women feel the need to augment their breast with a potentially life-threatening procedure speaks volumes about what's wrong in our world. i feel sorry for anyone who needs this kind of crutch to feel better about themself. (no offense, ORG falsies) imo this is a reflection of a total lack of self esteem, and does not create greater self-confidence but in effect achieves the opposite.

so, to sum up, imo breast implants =
[Edited 9/10/06 7:08am]

XxAxX said:

i bet that was interesting. what was the outcome of that litigation?

IrresistibleB1tch said:

multi-million dollar settlements paid to women who had leaky implants and oozing sores that required drainage tubes to be inserted into their unhealed, gaping wounds for weeks at a time, whose immune systems rejected the implants and who required multiple surgeries to return them to an almost 'normal' pre-surgical look.

many women emerged from their implant experience with breasts that will never, ever look all right and in fact look frankensteinian

i think women need to change their perspective on this issue. we have anoreexia and obesity epidemics in america. what the fuck is up with that?!

maybe instead of buying into a world that values us solely for how well we fulfill some teenage boy's wet dream, that values us only for how xy we are, and for the turn-on that we offer men, we should remember that if someone "wants" us for ur breasts that person is shallow and has stereotyped us.

true self confidence comes from being able to look in the mirror and accept ourselevs for who we are, based on what kind of person we are.

looks are superficial

XxAxX said:

amen!

i'm turning into a preachy old fart, huh

XxAxX said:

you're just speaking the truth!

IrresistibleB1tch said:

i remember the year i grew breasts and the men in my life began addressing themselves to my breasts, instead of to my face. it was an obvious shift.

their eyes would meet mine, then would travel downward to my chest where they would stay. every so often they'd glance up at my face, but then their gaze would return to my chest.

when that shit started i felt devalued as a human being, like a walking breast-life-support device. it was a crushing blow when i realized that my mind and personality didn't matter as much as my tits.

i'm older and much wiser now. society still tries to force me into the mindset that i'm only as valuable as the men in my life feel i am, however, i'm smart enough now to know that for the total shit it is

resentful? you bet your ASS i am. how many generations of women will harm themselves in an effort to 'please' their men? how long will it be before women are treated as human beings and cherished for who they are, instead of for how horny they make men feel?

this world disgusts me sometimes. and, not long ago, my eight year old niece turned to me, perfectly seriously and asked "does this bathing suit make me look fat?"

i would give anything if she were able to grow up in a world that treats women with respect and fairness, but i know it won't happen in her generation even.

the best i can do is encourage the person she is and remind her that she doesn't need anyone in her life who will judge her on her looks.

XxAxX said:

i can relate

XxAxX said:

yeah, sometimes it seems things are getting worse, not better.

the women's lib movement was met with ridicule, and we didn't do enough to keep the momentum going. some say that they pendulum has swung far to the opposite side...

in my typical "greed is the reason for all ills in the world" thinking, i have to wonder - there is a lot of money to be made from women's (and men's, of course) insecurities. there's no money in being happy the way you are. industry loves misery, and it's very hard to fight it.

Bigger is NOT always better...

I will keep mine the way they are

Shanti1 said:

AndGodCreatedMe said:

I'm pretty sure they do. Women talk alot about being confident and empowered, but let's face it. When a feminist author like Olivia Goldsmith dies from complications due to plastic surgery, it's pretty clear that we still base much of our esteem in what men find attractive about women.

The older man who cheats on his wife with the younger, "prettier", girl? Yup, we may vilanize the girl, but we're gonna start looking for ways to look like her. I understand that I am generalizing here, but for the most part it's true. Beauty products aren't designed to make us look like better versions of our old selves you know--they're designed to make us look younger. And women can say whatever they want about men forcing this on us--we're the consumers and we flock to these products. This will never change in my opinion. There is no amount of education or "enlightenment" we can teach ourselves that can fight the deep rooted biological need for women to impress the men.

http://www.telegraph.co.u...oliv17.xml

ZombieKitten said: