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Thread started 09/07/06 11:32am

DiminutiveRock
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THAT PIT IN YOUR STOMACH

Have you ever found out something so disappointing about someone you care for that it literally makes you ill? And it's not a feeling of judgement, it's just sheer disappointment and a drastic loss of respect. sad

It's like there is a fist in your stomach that just gets tighter and tighter and it won't go away - and you start to question whether you will ever feel the same about this person again.


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Reply #1 posted 09/07/06 11:38am

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Yes,family members. I pray for them & move on
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Reply #2 posted 09/07/06 11:45am

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I have had this feeling many many times in my life. I think it really depends on what has happened whether or not there is room to have that person in my immediate life let alone long term. You know what happened between me and Greg and why I left him. I had this feeling in the worst way and it was just beyond sad. You know I'm here for you if you need some shoulders honey hug
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Reply #3 posted 09/07/06 11:48am

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touched by you all....
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Reply #5 posted 09/07/06 11:58am

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hmmm the times it has hit me hardest is when it is "I"

when i realize something about myself


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Reply #6 posted 09/07/06 12:01pm

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Biggest hug sss

sometimes things arent always how they seem..
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Reply #8 posted 09/07/06 12:15pm

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Yes, I've tried that. I guess most people have. confused

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Reply #9 posted 09/07/06 12:51pm

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people are only neccessary cause animals cant speak and u cant have sex with them
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Reply #10 posted 09/07/06 1:01pm

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DiminutiveRocker said:

Have you ever found out something so disappointing about someone you care for that it literally makes you ill? And it's not a feeling of judgement, it's just sheer disappointment and a drastic loss of respect. sad

It's like there is a fist in your stomach that just gets tighter and tighter and it won't go away - and you start to question whether you will ever feel the same about this person again.


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yes i have, i prefer not to talk abt this on this forum rose we will when we meer again Diminutive hug

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Reply #11 posted 09/07/06 1:04pm

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Reply #12 posted 09/07/06 1:09pm

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Oh yeah, I remember when I found out that an ex-boyfriend was a rapist and a beater. The world was spinning and I couldn't believe I'd been in his house, in his bed, literally at his mercy. If I think about it even now I'll get sick. disbelief


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Reply #13 posted 09/07/06 1:10pm

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Teacher said:

Oh yeah, I remember when I found out that an ex-boyfriend was a rapist and a beater. The world was spinning and I couldn't believe I'd been in his house, in his bed, literally at his mercy. If I think about it even now I'll get sick. disbelief


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Reply #14 posted 09/07/06 1:22pm

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DiminutiveRocker said:

Have you ever found out something so disappointing about someone you care for that it literally makes you ill? And it's not a feeling of judgement, it's just sheer disappointment and a drastic loss of respect. sad

It's like there is a fist in your stomach that just gets tighter and tighter and it won't go away - and you start to question whether you will ever feel the same about this person again.


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Details would be inappropriate, but unfortunately, yes. And I have been dealing with it for over a year now. Except the fist is in the center of my chest, my gut, my soul.

Sorry you are having a difficulty, too. If you have any good advice, I would love to hear it!

Sending positive thoughts your way....
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Reply #15 posted 09/07/06 1:31pm

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Sometimes it feels better just to share what you're feeling.
Thank you all for being here

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Reply #16 posted 09/07/06 1:32pm

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Yes, and I hate when that happens. It turns me off to that person completely.

It's like when I really really like someone and months may go by and they'll say something really racist. Believe it or not it's happened to me more than once. This blows it for me immediately.


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Reply #17 posted 09/07/06 1:34pm

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heart It can last a long time--I pray it's not that way for you.
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Reply #18 posted 09/07/06 1:39pm

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INSATIABLE said:

heart It can last a long time--I pray it's not that way for you.

Me too pray I see a girls night out in our future biggrin
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Reply #19 posted 09/07/06 1:41pm

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Reply #20 posted 09/07/06 1:42pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

INSATIABLE said:

heart It can last a long time--I pray it's not that way for you.

Me too pray I see a girls night out in our future biggrin

excited

EEEEE!
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Reply #21 posted 09/07/06 1:50pm

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INSATIABLE said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:


Me too pray I see a girls night out in our future biggrin

excited

EEEEE!

I meant that for Dr. Rock but we have one in ours too! lol
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Reply #22 posted 09/07/06 1:52pm

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Yes, many girls I've liked initially. And then you find out they're coke whores. Isn't that always the way?
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Reply #23 posted 09/07/06 1:54pm

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

INSATIABLE said:


excited

EEEEE!

I meant that for Dr. Rock but we have one in ours too! lol

falloff Good Lord, I'm the nerd of the century.
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Reply #24 posted 09/07/06 2:03pm

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INSATIABLE said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:


I meant that for Dr. Rock but we have one in ours too! lol

falloff Good Lord, I'm the nerd of the century.



OK, that was funny giggle
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Reply #25 posted 09/07/06 2:52pm

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kidelrich said:

Yes, many girls I've liked initially. And then you find out they're coke whores. Isn't that always the way?



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