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PrintableSpats said: I am being serious about my dilemma and everyone is joking. Not good.
i wasnt joking  | |
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Mach said: how bout just being honest and telling her you dont celebrate birthdays ?
hell yes Spats, just say you're a JW.....it would explain a helluva lot to her..... 
and maybe she'll like you for it, you'd be.....different | |
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Spats said: 2the9s said: You won't be sorry! Tell her you will forgive her if she gets you something nice! Now you are just being a smartass. I'm serious. I am serious too! Ask her to get you something nice over dinner at Arby's! (Make sure to ask for separate checks or you will look weak.) Boy, you are golden!  | |
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Spats said: What's the best thing to do to save my ass? Should i wimp out and apologize and get her stupid flowers? I don't like the idea of that.
Do you feel you should apologize? If the question comes from you consciousness, maybe that's what needs be done. Forgetting a birthday in a newly formed "relationship" of closeness is a shitty thing to do. News: Prince pulls his head out his ass in the last moment.
Bad News: Prince wasted too much quality time doing so. You have those internalized issues because you want to, you like to, stop. | |
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2the9s said: Spats said: Now you are just being a smartass. I'm serious. I am serious too! Ask her to get you something nice over dinner at Arby's! (Make sure to ask for separate checks or you will look weak.) Boy, you are golden!  my stomach's hurting.....Dan, order me a margarita! | |
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abierman said: 2the9s said: I am serious too! Ask her to get you something nice over dinner at Arby's! (Make sure to ask for separate checks or you will look weak.) Boy, you are golden! my stomach's hurting.....Dan, order me a margarita!A Jupiter margarita?  | |
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2the9s said: abierman said: my stomach's hurting.....Dan, order me a margarita!A Jupiter margarita? HELL YES!!!!!  | |
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abierman said: 2the9s said: A Jupiter margarita? HELL YES!!!!! Would you like some human flesh with that? | |
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Spookymuffin said: abierman said: HELL YES!!!!! Would you like some human flesh with that? like what? your foreskin???  | |
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abierman said: Spookymuffin said: Would you like some human flesh with that? like what? your foreskin???  | |
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"The girls will turn your shorts into grilled cheese, man!"
 Le prego di non toccare la macchina per favore! | |
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First of all, you didn't see her all weekend? and it was her birthday? You sure she's just seeing you? Just you and you only? Sounds like maybe she still has you on light radar. If I'd been seeing a man and went all weekend and it was my birthday....well let's just say he wouldn't be my primary man... | |
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Mach said: Spats said: I am being serious about my dilemma and everyone is joking. Not good.
i wasnt joking Neither was I... 
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Byron said: Mach said: i wasnt joking Neither was I...
['nilla ice was here] | |
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KatSkrizzle said: First of all, you didn't see her all weekend? and it was her birthday? You sure she's just seeing you? Just you and you only? Sounds like maybe she still has you on light radar. If I'd been seeing a man and went all weekend and it was my birthday....well let's just say he wouldn't be my primary man...
I didn't see her because i chose to hang out with buddies this weekend. | |
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MickG said: Spats said: What's the best thing to do to save my ass? Should i wimp out and apologize and get her stupid flowers? I don't like the idea of that.
Do you feel you should apologize? If the question comes from you consciousness, maybe that's what needs be done. Forgetting a birthday in a newly formed "relationship" of closeness is a shitty thing to do. I don't know if i forgot or she didn't mention when her birthday was. I may not have been paying attention. I didn't ask her when it was. And a person that just volunteers that info looks like they are looking for attention hoping you will get them something. I guess i do feel bad that i missed the birthday. I do like her. The road to sacktime has been rocky and i don't think this helped. | |
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Spats said: I guess i do feel bad that i missed the birthday. I do like her. The road to sacktime has been rocky and i don't think this helped.
No, it's not to late to give her a gift, wish her a happy belated birthday, and a very small sorry would do more then if you had been prompt with her birthday gift  News: Prince pulls his head out his ass in the last moment.
Bad News: Prince wasted too much quality time doing so. You have those internalized issues because you want to, you like to, stop. | |
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Spats said: MickG said: Do you feel you should apologize? If the question comes from you consciousness, maybe that's what needs be done. Forgetting a birthday in a newly formed "relationship" of closeness is a shitty thing to do. I don't know if i forgot or she didn't mention when her birthday was. I may not have been paying attention. I didn't ask her when it was. And a person that just volunteers that info looks like they are looking for attention hoping you will get them something. I guess i do feel bad that i missed the birthday. I do like her. The road to sacktime has been rocky and i don't think this helped. maybe not
perhaps if you took the time to explain to her what happened things will lighten up | |
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MickG said: Spats said: I guess i do feel bad that i missed the birthday. I do like her. The road to sacktime has been rocky and i don't think this helped.
No, it's not to late to give her a gift, wish her a happy belated birthday, and a very small sorry would do more then if you had been prompt with her birthday gift I am definately gonna wish her a belated happy birthday and a sorry for missing it but i am not getting an expensive gift. | |
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Spats said: KatSkrizzle said: First of all, you didn't see her all weekend? and it was her birthday? You sure she's just seeing you? Just you and you only? Sounds like maybe she still has you on light radar. If I'd been seeing a man and went all weekend and it was my birthday....well let's just say he wouldn't be my primary man...
I didn't see her because i chose to hang out with buddies this weekend. If it were me...and it was my birthday and he chose to hang with friends... you better step up your game dawg....if you have game | |
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Spats said: MickG said: No, it's not to late to give her a gift, wish her a happy belated birthday, and a very small sorry would do more then if you had been prompt with her birthday gift I am definately gonna wish her a belated happy birthday and a sorry for missing it but i am not getting an expensive gift. Who said anything about an expensive gift? Not everyone has money for expensive gifts. And often a gift's most expense should come from the heart. News: Prince pulls his head out his ass in the last moment.
Bad News: Prince wasted too much quality time doing so. You have those internalized issues because you want to, you like to, stop. | |
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Do nothing and let her do all the work Such is the spats way right? All of a sudden you care about what she thinks? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Do nothing and let her do all the work
Such is the spats way right? All of a sudden you care about what she thinks? good point | |
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Spats said: I was talking to my buddy today and he asked me a surprising question. He asked me what i got the babe for her birthday. I said "Huh?"lol. Turns out her birthday was on Saturday.
I didn't see her at all this weekend. I don't think i forgot it was her birthday because i truly don't think i know when her birthday is.I guess when she asked me when my birthday was i should have asked her when hers was. Maybe she did and i just wassn't paying attention. I don't know.
This has surprisingly never happened to me before. What's the best thing to do to save my ass? Should i wimp out and apologize and get her stupid flowers? I don't like the idea of that. You're going to die a lonely man shivering in shitty drawers with no one to care for you and hold your hand when it's time to depart this earth .
Just Kidding. Get Flowers. Quick. But then you don't care what whether a chick sticks around anyway, so why ask. Fuck it. If she's mad, then that's her perogative. You're not responsible for her feelings of worth, love , or acceptance in the context of a relationship, right ? On second thought, let her deal with it. it's not your problem, as you so often are inclined to tell. | |
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KatSkrizzle said: Spats said: I didn't see her because i chose to hang out with buddies this weekend. If it were me...and it was my birthday and he chose to hang with friends... you better step up your game dawg....if you have game I didn't know or forgot it was her birthday. I go days at a time without seeing her. That's not a big deal. It's just that it was her birthday this time. | |
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Ottensen said: Spats said: I was talking to my buddy today and he asked me a surprising question. He asked me what i got the babe for her birthday. I said "Huh?"lol. Turns out her birthday was on Saturday.
I didn't see her at all this weekend. I don't think i forgot it was her birthday because i truly don't think i know when her birthday is.I guess when she asked me when my birthday was i should have asked her when hers was. Maybe she did and i just wassn't paying attention. I don't know.
This has surprisingly never happened to me before. What's the best thing to do to save my ass? Should i wimp out and apologize and get her stupid flowers? I don't like the idea of that. You're going to die a lonely man shivering in shitty drawers with no one to care for you and hold your hand when it's time to depart this earth .
Just Kidding. Get Flowers. Quick. But then you don't care what whether a chick sticks around anyway, so why ask. Fuck it. If she's mad, then that's her perogative. You're not responsible for her feelings of worth, love , or acceptance in the context of a relationship, right ? On second thought, let her deal with it. it's not your problem, as you so often are inclined to tell.I guess you are right. I'll decide today what i'll do. | |
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Spats said: KatSkrizzle said: If it were me...and it was my birthday and he chose to hang with friends... you better step up your game dawg....if you have game I didn't know or forgot it was her birthday. I go days at a time without seeing her. That's not a big deal. It's just that it was her birthday this time. on the other hand why is she so focused on her own birthday? it's not like a birthday is the world's biggest deal is it?  | |
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XxAxX said: Spats said: I didn't know or forgot it was her birthday. I go days at a time without seeing her. That's not a big deal. It's just that it was her birthday this time. on the other hand why is she so focused on her own birthday? it's not like a birthday is the world's biggest deal is it? I don't know if she is. I haven't talked to her. | |
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Spats said: The road to sacktime has been rocky and i don't think this helped.
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purplehippieonthe1 said: Spats said: The road to sacktime has been rocky and i don't think this helped.
This is why i love the org....y'all are some SMART ASSES! | |
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