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Thread started 08/30/06 9:50am

Anx

QUANDARY.

I'm being offered a job with less hours, better benefits and more money.

Catch?

Said job is a graveyard shift position.

I've done a graveyard shift before, and I swore I never would again.

However, I was working longer hours than this job offers, and I will be making more money. There's also the possibility of them moving me to days if such a position opens up.

Plus, I'm fed up with where I am. But what if this new gig isn't much better?

Part of me wants to take the new gig, and if it makes me miserable, it'll be motivation to find something better. Another part of me would rather stick out more time where I am and know my misery, than to throw myself into new situations where I don't know if it could be even worse.

QUANDARY! What Would Org Do?
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Reply #1 posted 08/30/06 9:52am

CarrieMpls

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eeee!!! Tough choice.

I don't think I could handle graveyard no matter what. The rest of my life is too important.

But you gotta do what you gotta do.
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Reply #2 posted 08/30/06 9:54am

GaryTheNoTrash
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Anx said:

QUANDARY! What Would Org Do?


I'd phone a friend if I were you nod The org is probably a stupid audience smile

Klopf, klopf!

Wer ist dort?

Unterbrechende Kuh.

Unterbrech...

Muh!!!
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Reply #3 posted 08/30/06 9:54am

Muse2NOPharaoh

Lots to think about! hug
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Reply #4 posted 08/30/06 9:55am

senik

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I'm not sure but I know you'll make the right decision hug

Quandary biggrin I like that word nod It just rolls off the tongue... "Quan-daa-ree" smile

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"..My work is personal, I'm a working person, I put in work, I work with purpose.."
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Reply #5 posted 08/30/06 9:55am

SammiJ

i'd take it...bite the bullet and you'll reap the benefits... shrug

and no one is ever happy with their job, there's ALWAYS complaints... so i'd say carpe diem before the diem is carpe'd by someone else.
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Reply #6 posted 08/30/06 9:56am

SammiJ

GaryTheNoTrashCougar said:

Anx said:

QUANDARY! What Would Org Do?


I'd phone a friend if I were you nod The org is probably a stupid audience smile


only with you around, friend thumbs up!
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Reply #7 posted 08/30/06 9:56am

GaryTheNoTrash
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SammiJ said:

GaryTheNoTrashCougar said:



I'd phone a friend if I were you nod The org is probably a stupid audience smile


only with you around, friend thumbs up!


You're the other 50% nod

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Klopf, klopf!

Wer ist dort?

Unterbrechende Kuh.

Unterbrech...

Muh!!!
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Reply #8 posted 08/30/06 10:00am

SammiJ

GaryTheNoTrashCougar said:

SammiJ said:


only with you around, friend thumbs up!


You're the other 50% nod

biggrin

i carry the lighter load of it tho..
plus, i still haven't had my coffee... so yeah... sigh


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Reply #9 posted 08/30/06 10:02am

GaryTheNoTrash
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SammiJ said:

GaryTheNoTrashCougar said:



You're the other 50% nod

biggrin

i carry the lighter load of it tho..
plus, i still haven't had my coffee... so yeah... sigh


mad


Yep, I think he should phone a friend too nod

Klopf, klopf!

Wer ist dort?

Unterbrechende Kuh.

Unterbrech...

Muh!!!
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Reply #10 posted 08/30/06 10:04am

FunkMistress

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I wouldn't do it.

Some people are graveyard-shift types (and they're weird).

If it didn't agree with you before, don't do it again. You will totally regret screwing with your health and your body clock!
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Reply #11 posted 08/30/06 10:08am

Anx

FunkMistress said:

I wouldn't do it.

Some people are graveyard-shift types (and they're weird).

If it didn't agree with you before, don't do it again. You will totally regret screwing with your health and your body clock!


well, here's the gamble:

working nights or graveyard shifts is totally easy for me in winter, when the days are short and dark anyway. if i started a graveyard shift now and worked through the winter, by next spring they might be impressed enough with my work to bring me on to days. i know i'm good enough to make an impression, but what if they're looking for someone REALLY good to work graveyard shifts forever?!? shake

the health/body clock thing is whatever. i can adapt. i really don't want it to turn me into a hermit, though. i mean, worse than i am already. lol
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Reply #12 posted 08/30/06 10:10am

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Anx said:

FunkMistress said:

I wouldn't do it.

Some people are graveyard-shift types (and they're weird).

If it didn't agree with you before, don't do it again. You will totally regret screwing with your health and your body clock!


well, here's the gamble:

working nights or graveyard shifts is totally easy for me in winter, when the days are short and dark anyway. if i started a graveyard shift now and worked through the winter, by next spring they might be impressed enough with my work to bring me on to days. i know i'm good enough to make an impression, but what if they're looking for someone REALLY good to work graveyard shifts forever?!? shake

the health/body clock thing is whatever. i can adapt. i really don't want it to turn me into a hermit, though. i mean, worse than i am already. lol


Hmm... hmmm

Meditate on it.

And do one of those pro-con list thingies. It's good to see the balance sheet in front of your eyes.

Either way I wish you happiness and abundance! hug
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Reply #13 posted 08/30/06 10:14am

TMPletz

If you were certain that this would turn into a day job in the future, I'd say go ahead. If not, I'd wait for something else to come along.
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Reply #14 posted 08/30/06 10:20am

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I know you hated nights. You hated everything that went with working nights. You also wanted to work days so you could persue other things that working days would allow.

Did you ever get to do those things you wanted that only days would allow?

Is this work much different than your present job?

How much more are you getting paid? Like a little or a lot more? Personally, I would probably not switch jobs for less than 5K more unless I was in a bad situation. I am of the age where I need that type of boost in salary to make it worth my trouble (consider that a raise will likely happen in a year, so this is your only chance for a boost in salary until then). I also think that anything under a 5K boost, you will barely see.

Is the job closer or further than it is now to your home? Will it be accessable at night? Safe at night?

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Reply #15 posted 08/30/06 10:23am

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Anx said:

FunkMistress said:

I wouldn't do it.

Some people are graveyard-shift types (and they're weird).

If it didn't agree with you before, don't do it again. You will totally regret screwing with your health and your body clock!


well, here's the gamble:

working nights or graveyard shifts is totally easy for me in winter, when the days are short and dark anyway. if i started a graveyard shift now and worked through the winter, by next spring they might be impressed enough with my work to bring me on to days. i know i'm good enough to make an impression, but what if they're looking for someone REALLY good to work graveyard shifts forever?!? shake


See....that is the million dollar question. If and when that might happen. I'm willing to bet it pays more due to it is graveyard shift.

Christian Zombie Vampires

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Reply #16 posted 08/30/06 10:25am

TMPletz

superspaceboy said:

See....that is the million dollar question. If and when that might happen. I'm willing to bet it pays more due to it is graveyard shift.

And if you do get switched to days, they may cut your pay to compensate. Thats what they do here at the Mayo Clinic. The extra money is a shift premium. confused
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Reply #17 posted 08/30/06 10:49am

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TMPletz said:

superspaceboy said:

See....that is the million dollar question. If and when that might happen. I'm willing to bet it pays more due to it is graveyard shift.

And if you do get switched to days, they may cut your pay to compensate. Thats what they do here at the Mayo Clinic. The extra money is a shift premium. confused


My guess is that it is. But I don't think they could lower your pay if you switch to days. Though the higher pay is an incentive to work the late shift.

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Reply #18 posted 08/30/06 10:51am

jerseykrs

Does that mean no posting in the day from you?
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Reply #19 posted 08/30/06 10:51am

Anx

superspaceboy said:

TMPletz said:


And if you do get switched to days, they may cut your pay to compensate. Thats what they do here at the Mayo Clinic. The extra money is a shift premium. confused


My guess is that it is. But I don't think they could lower your pay if you switch to days. Though the higher pay is an incentive to work the late shift.


i've never had my pay cut when i've moved from late shifts to day shifts.
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Reply #20 posted 08/30/06 10:52am

Anx

jerseykrs said:

Does that mean no posting in the day from you?


it actually means my posts will be bitchier during the day due to sleep deprivation. biggrin
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Reply #21 posted 08/30/06 10:54am

jerseykrs

Anx said:

jerseykrs said:

Does that mean no posting in the day from you?


it actually means my posts will be bitchier during the day due to sleep deprivation. biggrin



even better!!!
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Reply #22 posted 08/30/06 10:59am

Reincarnate

Anx said:

I'm being offered a job with less hours, better benefits and more money.

Catch?

Said job is a graveyard shift position.

I've done a graveyard shift before, and I swore I never would again.

However, I was working longer hours than this job offers, and I will be making more money. There's also the possibility of them moving me to days if such a position opens up.

Plus, I'm fed up with where I am. But what if this new gig isn't much better?

Part of me wants to take the new gig, and if it makes me miserable, it'll be motivation to find something better. Another part of me would rather stick out more time where I am and know my misery, than to throw myself into new situations where I don't know if it could be even worse.

QUANDARY! What Would Org Do?


Having taken a job in the past that I didn't want to do, I'd say stay where you are. There are more important things than money, right?
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Reply #23 posted 08/30/06 11:01am

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I wouldn't do it just based on the graveyard shift. A swing shift 3-11 is optimal for me but after about 330 am my brain refuses to function correctly.

How miserable are you in your current situation? is it possible that you could find another position that is better for you? Will you be able to job hunt and work those hours? or will you be stuck there until they offer you a shift change?
butterfly
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Reply #24 posted 08/30/06 11:41am

susannah

You have to do what your instincts tell you Anx, and at the end of the day what we think wont affect that much BUT IMO you only live once. Lifes too short - do it for a short time, take the money and the benefits and if you don't like it - leave. How much chance do you have of getting your present job back if you need/want to? thats something to consider...
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Reply #25 posted 08/30/06 11:43am

Imago

Anx!

Please at least try to improve your threads!
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Reply #26 posted 08/30/06 12:06pm

Anx

Imago said:

Anx!

Please at least try to improve your threads!


why don't you improve my ASS? with your LIPS!
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Reply #27 posted 08/30/06 12:11pm

Spookymuffin

Anx said:

What Would Org Do?


falloff

Firstly, what a great phrase - I'm putting that on a wristband - fuck WWJD!

Secondly, org would probably jack the subject of the job and send it in another direction. nod

I still can't get over calling prince.org "Org" as a person. so good! giggle
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Reply #28 posted 08/30/06 12:28pm

Anx

susannah said:

You have to do what your instincts tell you Anx, and at the end of the day what we think wont affect that much BUT IMO you only live once. Lifes too short - do it for a short time, take the money and the benefits and if you don't like it - leave. How much chance do you have of getting your present job back if you need/want to? thats something to consider...


at the new job i'd get bonuses. i don't get those where i am now.

at the new job i'd have a shorter work week, which i would assume would make a significant difference if i'm working the wee hours.

i seem to be going through a lot of transition this year anyway, so maybe it's a sign that i need to hit the refresh button all around, including my job.

shrug
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Reply #29 posted 08/30/06 12:29pm

jerseykrs

all seriousness Chris, sounds like a good move other than the shift time, but sometimes you have to give to get.
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